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What I Learned from Watching Star Trek

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Dating and Human Relationships Are Changing

Today I will make a confession that is a bit awkward, yet necessary for me.

NOTE: Neither the author of this blog nor the blog itself is in any way affiliated with Star Trek. Star Trek is a trademark owned by CBS Studios.

I don’t know about you but binge-watching old TV-series on Netflix is something I like to do when I’m not working.

Recently, I switched my geek on and watched Star Trek.

Not just any Star Trek but the Original Series from 1966.

What struck me besides from the decor and that the “computers” were filling up two entire rooms was the relationship between crew members.

More specifically between male and female crew members.

Something that was acceptable back then that wouldn’t be in any of the later versions of the series or on any other TV-series for that matter was a thing that wasn’t said but rather done without comment.

It was something in line with a statement like “boys will always be boys”.

The male crew members could very easily look at the female crew members behinds without getting any kind of negative response.

It was so 1960s rather than the 22nd Century!

Unless society will be changed radically within the next 100-150 years to come, I doubt that something like that would be an acceptable social behavior again.

I am by no means an expert in what will happen to humanity.

I am a dating coach and let me tell you that if you would do that on any woman except your girlfriend I only have two tips for you: Either run away from her as fast as you can or hide and take cover.

Those are my best tips if you would like to try that.

However, I would advise you to not try this in reality.

This is what I would do to approach a girl or woman instead.

Do We Men Need Love and Intimacy?

One of the other observations I did was how much love and intimacy were in the focal point of many episodes.

Women were often described as “the fairer sex”.

Although I don’t object to that, I know a lot of my female friends who would object to that statement.

Especially one episode focused on how much love and intimacy we men need.

The question that popped up in my head was: Do we really need that much?

Maybe we have forgotten all about it in the Internet age and think that all we need is the Internet and a “quick” reward.

This triggers the reward-system located in our brains.

When you buy something online, you trigger the reward system.

You get a “kick” out of it, immediate satisfaction in other words.

Maybe we have become so used to it, both men and women, in this computer-based day and age that we have forgotten our true needs as human beings.

After all, we are used to getting the thing we ordered immediately.

April D. Long has written a wonderful article about men’s need for love and intimacy that I think is worth reading for both men and women alike.

After binge-watching it for a while I found out a very common theme:

It doesn’t matter whether human or alien, android or energy-based entity, the need for love and intimacy in this universe, is universal.

This is something that actually is good news for all singles on planet Earth!

If we acknowledge what we need, we can embark on a journey to find it.

Sometimes, you may find it close to home and sometimes far away.

This is probably the best lesson that I discovered through my binge-watching.

Love really doesn’t know any boundaries and I also like all the references to the Holy Bible.

There are, in fact, a lot of them if you know where to look.

Because remember what it says: It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him. (Genesis 2:18 ESV)

Modern science confirms that we humans are social beings as well.

Our need for intimacy, love, and relationships is a universal human need and that is probably one of the best lessons that you can learn from this TV-series.

It also led me to a rediscovery of a fact that I have always known.

My Biggest Discovery Was…

This was probably my biggest AHA-moment through binge-watching the entire secret.

My discovery was a real breakthrough that I already knew.

It is, in fact, a fascinating one but before I reveal it to you, I have something else I want to discuss.

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Now I will return to the biggest discovery that I already knew but rediscovered once I binge-watched the entire “Original Series” of Star Trek.

It was the fact that women want relationships and marriage.

Most women still want this, 50 years later.

This fact alone tells me how little human beings have changed over the course of the last 50 years in particular but also how little we have changed since the dawn of man.

It doesn’t matter which culture, religion, political worldview or any other thing you belong to that separates us as human beings from one another.

This fact remains unchallenged and unchanged through the course of time.

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Next Article

The next article that will be published is an article written by April D. Long that will be published on the 1st of August 2018.

Have an awesome week,

Rickard

About the author: Rickard Is The Head Blogger Of Chi Rho Dating Since Summer 2015 And Is Also The Dating Coach Of The Dating Website ChristianDatingInternational.Com.

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