7 Questions for The Second Date

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Below, I will share seven questions for your second date.

Second Date Questions

After being on a first date, you will hopefully get a second date.

I haven’t written a lot about this before so today I will give you 7 great questions that you can ask on a second date.

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These questions might actually help you continue to date this person if you do this correctly.

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7 Questions to Ask On A Second Date

Asking more questions are quite obvious, but what should you ask her? Here are 7 great ideas for the second date:

Since you have been dating this person once before, you have already got some information about him or her, and now it’s time to use it.

1. Ask him or her to tell a story about someone else that was mentioned during the first date. You will impress your date by showing him or her that you actually noticed that, especially if it is a close friend or family.
2. You can ask about an experience that your date had where the outcome was not so great or surprisingly other than your date originally thought—general rule: Avoid speaking about bad dates with someone else.
3. Ask him or her what they want in life unless you did that on your first date. See how his/her goals fit together with yours.
4. Ask your date about what he/she wants in a relationship. Don’t avoid questions about your physical experience with other people. This includes everything from the first kiss to getting into the bed. You are probably not virgins either of you, so talk about what you like, the craziest experience, the weirdest place where you had it etcetera. You’ll get the picture.
5. Ask him or her about their experience in other areas too. Like how it was growing up, were there any experience he or she had during that time. What was the best/worst experience in school and also in other areas in life as well? Maybe a travel story or another story that involved your date.
6. Ask your date about how others experience them. Are there any misconceptions or are there anything people freaks out about? This might make your date quite interesting.
7. Ask your date what the worst part about dating is according to him or her.

Needless to say, there are a lot more questions you could ask. The list above is by no means complete, but it will help you start your creative juices flowing.

Second Date Tips

Be yourself, as always and avoid awkwardness by meeting each other’s expectations. If you’re a man pick her up and take her to a place. Most women, even those who claim themselves of being “feminists” or “pro-gender-equality” will appreciate this. If you’re a woman, my advice to you is to allow yourself to be picked up by the guy since he’s clearly into you and try not to feel sorry for the poor guy.

Don’t just do the same thing as you did on the first date, do something completely different. I’m not necessarily mean scuba-diving or para shooting, maybe just taking her to a nice restaurant that you like and know has great food or a romantic atmosphere would do. Just avoid bringing a gift. It’s all about having a good time, just like the first date.

Always remember that eye contact and a gentle touch when holding his or her hand with your thumb across the back of his or her back of the hand creates a physic touch that can build a lot of romance and trust between the two of you, if you do it correctly. Please don’t do it the entire time, and when you do make sure you stroke the area between his or her thumb and index finger gently while looking into your date’s eyes. Looking into another person’s eyes builds trust and confidence in Western culture (I know it’s a big no-no in some Asian cultures).

If you’re a man, compliment her looks and say that she looks stunning, beautiful, etcetera. Please don’t do it too much though, since that will raise suspicion about your intentions with her.

A piece of advice to both men and women alike is to not look at other men or women. Keep your eyes on your date.

Next Article

My next article will discuss the third date, which I only have discussed once more.

It will be published on May the 24th 2017.

Have a great weekend,

Rickard.