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If you want to be dating a Thai girl and are looking for some tips, you will find them in this article.
I will share some best-practices with you below.
To get even more tips on how you can meet Thai girls, I recommend that article as well as how to date a Thai girl.
Let me first give you a couple of reasons why you should date a Thai girl.
Why You Should Date a Thai Girl
There are a couple of reasons why you should date a Thai girl compared to other Asian girls.
If you want a woman who is:
- Caring about others more than herself
- Considerate to your every need
- Sweet and amazing
If this is your ideal partner, you want to date a Thai girl.
Thai girls are known for their politeness and gentleness as well but there are of course Thai girls who are just as rude as any woman you will meet in your own city.
Like women in other Asian countries, especially China, Japan, and South Korea, Thai women are very feminine compared to Western women.
However, you should never dismiss her femininity as submission.
Do not make the mistake of assuming this, just since she fits a stereotype you might have or have encountered among your friends or online.
Thai women like caucasian men.
Not just for their big, fat, wallets, in most cases, but for various other reasons which I will cover in greater detail soon.
An unfortunate stereotype might be that Asian women are tiny everywhere.
It is a colonial and racial stereotype that I want to debunk once and for all.
If you want a more detailed explanation, I cover it in my article about Western men and Asian women, an ongoing love story.
In that article, I also discuss some other stereotypes you might have encountered as a white man who wants to date Asian or Thai girls which will set your expectations wrong from the start.
One thing that everyone who has ever dated an Asian girl will tell you, is that she can be pretty firm if the situation demands it.
She will not just be a sweet girl who always does what you want her to do.
What she wants is harmony, and that is what she always want to strive for, just like she will assert her femininity to make you become more manly.
It is really the Daoist concept of ying-yang she wants in her relationship.
Another thing that you also have to consider is her strong family ties, and this is another pan-Asian thing.
Respect for past generations is very strong in Thai culture.
Thai men and women take a lot of pride in taking care of their elderly parents and many of them will live with their parents, even after they are married.
She will feel an obligation to take care of her parents, even if she is living with you in another country.
Since I am in an interracial relationship as well, I can tell you that there will be bigots and racists who want to “tell you the truth about your Thai girl” by spreading lies and trying to impose their agenda on you.
They are just jealous of you and your happiness with the woman you love.
My advice to you is to remember this, even if I know first-hand how hard it can be to ignore those people.
They are simply not worth your time or wasting any energy on.
I have found the best guide for anyone who wants to date a Thai woman, so if you’re interested, I will leave a link to that guide below.
Here is an unbiased guide to help you get started to date a Thai lady.*
Thai Ladies Dating
When you are dating Thai ladies, there are a couple of things you should remember which I will list below:
- Avoid alcohol- or drug abuse.
- Avoid sex-talk.
- Avoid unintended insult.
- Be a gentleman.
- Make an effort.
As I told you above, she wants a harmonious relationship.
If you drink a lot or are using drugs, you will embarrass her in public and this is a big no-no in Thai culture.
Another thing she won’t be comfortable with is if you talk sex with her.
If you want to turn her off, you should do it but intimacy or sexual banter is not something that is publicly discussed in Thai society.
It will only make you look like an idiot.
Another thing you want to avoid is an unintended insult, and my advice to you is to read this as well as other blogs to educate yourself a bit about Thai culture.
Avoid jokes, remarks, and comments that she might think is inappropriate.
Even if I always stress the importance of humour, I need to advise you to refrain from it when you are dating Asian women in general.
Their humour is different from yours.
A piece of general advice would be to refrain from negative comments on Thailand as a country or Thai culture.
As always, be a gentleman and behave like one.
Even if Thai women are earning more money than some men, and are known for taking the initiative of proposing a date, it is advisable to be cordial, respectful, and ask her out.
You also need to show her that you are serious about her.
For this reason, you need to make an effort and be well-groomed and wear deodorant and a mild cologne.
Your appearance, as well as your behaviour matters.
Read my article Ways to impress on a woman for more tips.
Thai Girl Dating
If you are looking for some tips on meeting Thai girls specifically, I will summarize them for you now.
To be successful in your Thai girl dating, you need to:
- Please educate yourself about the culture and get some insight into the Thai dating scenes, like the ones I shared with you above.
- Learn some courtesy phrases in Thai. It tells her that you want to make an effort to learn about her culture and language too.
- Join a Thai dating website or app, see below for some suggestions.
- Go and visit Thailand. If you invested some time and money into educating yourself about the country and culture, why shouldn’t you visit it? Here are some places where you can find Thai girls to date in Thailand.
- Always be respectful and a perfect gentleman. Thai women are conservative, so don’t expect sex on your first date!
Another advice to you is to never embarrass yourself by using drugs or alcohol or embarrassing her.
It is different to date a Thai girl, but there is also a lot of excitement in it.
You will get to know and fall in love with a person who does not have English as her first language, and you will also experience places that are different where you will not meet other tourists.
That is one of the benefits of dating a Thai girl, but the biggest benefit is that you will find love, hopefully.
It all starts with educating yourself a little bit, though.
Here is where I would start if I would be dating a Thai girl.*
My 5 Recommended Dating Sites for Thailand
As promised, I will share my 5 recommended dating sites to help you to find your Thai sweetheart:
I wish you the best of luck in finding your Thai love!
Rickard
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