Dating Tips: You’re Not One of The Undateables

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I Dislike The Term “Undateables”

Period.

I wouldn’t say I like this phrase for three purposes:

1. It undignifies certain human beings.
2. It is based on biases and assumptions.
3. It states that it is okay to discard humans based on all of the above.

I’m afraid I have to disagree with anybody who would refer to themselves as an undateable person because I do believe that there is a certain someone for every person on this planet.

Everybody has the right to love and to be loved. This is one of my core beliefs.

After all, didn’t, Jesus came to save all humans?

When I read my Bible, in English or the original Greek, doesn’t really matter because it all says the same thing:

So God loved the World that He sent His only son so that those who believe in him shall not perish but gain eternal life. (John 3:16)

So, what can you learn from this?

You are worthy, not because of what you have done but what Jesus has done FOR you. You are not undateable!

I don’t care whatever personality trait, looks or disability you are using as an excuse to put yourself in the “undateable” category.

I am here to telling you that you’re not an undateable person.

God already loves you, and if you are worthy of His love, you are worthy of the love of another human being.

The REAL Mindset You Need in Dating to Be Successful

It’s all about your mindset.

This is something I truly believe in and that I had discovered when I dated myself.

Online dating has made us more biased, as human beings, which I have written about in the past.

However, you should not allow other people’s biases to be an excuse for not taking action and start to date online.

Although other people might have biases, the truth is that it’s your own biases that stop yourself from finding love.

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Jesus didn’t die so that you could make up excuses for not loving somebody else.

Jesus died to know that you are beloved and spread his love for other human beings.

So go out there, join a dating website and start looking for love.

You will find love if you are approaching dating with the right mindset, in a structured, measurable, achievable, reachable and timely fashion.

So, start dating and follow the KISS-method or like I would say it, the SMART-method.

It doesn’t matter if you are dating online or offline, this method works for both kinds of dating, and all that matters is that you follow the method through and you will find love.

It’s as simple as that.

Be Dignified in Dating

Yes, I have written about dignification before on this blog.

Because Jesus dignified human beings and you should dignify yourself and dignify other human beings by spreading his love to people you meet.

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This is one of my core beliefs.

Jesus didn’t die, so you should complain about how things are.

Jesus died so that you can come to heaven, just for believing in him and to get a close and intimate relationship with his heavenly Father.

Next Article

My next article will be how men can meet Russian women online.

It will be available on the 21st of April 2018.