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What is the easiest way to ask a girl out on a date?
The question might sound simple, I know but, it’s more complicated than you think since there isn’t a one-thing fit all solution.
It all depends on your personality and what you’re comfortable with doing.
If you’re an extrovert, the easiest way to ask her out on a date might be by approaching her and ask her.
If you’re a bit shy and introvert, this approach will not work for you at all.
Instead, you might be more comfortable to “hide” yourself behind a screen and send her an instant message or text.
Your approach will be very different, depending on who you are.
I am not trying to scare you or anything here, just being honest and sharing some insights from a guy who has been dating a lot and know what it takes to finally get a girl or woman out on a first date.
Below, I will share my personal experience with you.
How to Ask Her Out on a Date
If you don’t know how to ask her out on a date, you want to read my story.
When I first started to date women, I was clueless and thought that it was just walking up to a woman and ask her out.
It sounds pretty simple, right?
Unfortunately, it turned out that all the girls I asked out declined me by telling me:
I already have a boyfriend.
Even some that I knew didn’t have it told me that, just because I wasn’t their “type” and as you probably know, it hurt a lot.
It also took a toll on my confidence.
But there was another thing that I picked up that would turn out to help me finally get a date eventually, and that was that I became selective.
After a couple of rejections straight to my face, I turned to the Internet.
Then, I could find others who were singles as well and who wanted a relationship or at least that was what I thought.
After going through a few turndowns there as well, I met a girl in real life.
This time, I had built up enough confidence to ask her out on a date by learning from the mistakes I have done in the past.
I remember that I wrote an article a couple of years back called Dating mistakes are valuable lessons, and they are if you can learn from your mistakes and not repeating them.
For most of us, it is a trial-and-error game, so my advice to you is:
Don’t give up because you can ask her out on a date by a rinse and repeat what’s working and getting rid of the things that don’t.
It’s always easy to be wiser in hindsight.
One of the things that I learned was to look for specific signals or rather, signs of attraction.
If you don’t know what she looks for or what you should be looking for, don’t worry because I have written an article that covers the attraction signs you should be looking for in a woman.
It will help you become more selective and reduce the chance of being rejected by her.
But now I will cover the entire blueprint that I promised you.
How to Ask a Girl Out in 7 Steps
I promised you a blueprint on how to ask a girl out in seven steps at the beginning of this article.
As always, I will deliver on my promise and share it with you.
But before I do that, I want to remind you that if you find this useful, you may want to share this article with other guys as well.
Here is the 7-step blueprint on how to ask a girl out on a date:
- Give her a reason to go out with you.
- Be selective
- Be honest with your intentions
- Be specific
- Intrigue her
- Tickle her brain
- Be fun
I am confident that you’re a great guy.
But that will unfortunately not make her go out on a date with you or help you asking her out on a date.
What really will convince her is a compelling reason.
Maybe you know something that she doesn’t know like a great restaurant or a grand opening of something in your local area.
That might be a compelling reason for her to go out with you.
However, it might not be enough if she doesn’t think you’re fun or exciting enough to be around.
She will be looking for that.
A great way to ask her out on a date is to use humour and then you need to tickle her brain as well as intriguing her.
You will tickle her brain if you are creating a scenario in her mind.
Make her fantasize about how a date with you will be and what kind of adventures you have planned for her.
If you want some first date ideas, I recommend you read this article.
Why should you be specific?
Because this will give her something to either reject or accept.
It is always easier to say yes to someone or something if you know what you will say yes to, it is how we humans work.
Honesty is another thing that always is appreciated.
Be straightforward and tell her that the two of you will be going on a date so she can relate to this.
Most likely, she already knows it but be aware of this:
She might think of you as a friend while you think of her as a potential future girlfriend, fiancé, or even wife.
Just remember that you need to be specific about it.
Once again, specificity beats general, non-specifics every single day of the week.
Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out on a Date
Everything above works and is efficient, but would you like to get some examples as well?
An excellent method is to text a girl to get her out on a date.
There are many other cute ways to ask a girl out on a date as well, which does include some ingenuity from your side, which includes:
- Leaving a note on her desk
- Calling her unexpectedly and tell her that you need to talk with the cutest person in the world or to give her a cute pet name
- Sending her wine, chocolate, or flowers to her work or her home with a note telling her how much you miss her
All these unnecessary “romantic” things women claim they don’t like.
But do they like it?
It all depends on who you are asking, but I can tell you that girls and women do appreciate when you make an effort of being romantic as well as when you treat her as a real human being.
I’ve asked all the women I know, including my girlfriend.
If you want more tips on getting a girlfriend, I recommend that you watch this video that will help you get a girlfriend fast.*
I wished I knew this method when I started to ask girls out on a date since it would have saved me a lot of heartaches as well as saving time since I haven’t gone through the entire trial-and-error phase.
I hope it will help you, though.
Next Article
My next article will be published on the 30th of September 2019.
It will discuss how you can increase your attractiveness fast.
To your success,
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