Help Me Keep My Man

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I recently got an email from a desperate woman with the subject line: “Help me keep my man!”

As always, I will not disclose any more details about her.

What I will reveal in this article, however, is the necessary steps that I shared with her on what she needed to do right away.

This was my response to her:

Hi, “Help Me Keep My Man”!

Thanks for reaching out to me. I see what you are struggling with, and I also realize what you need to do right now.

I am writing about it right now.

For this reason, I strongly advise you to work on your relationship with him.

I will also share some insights that I think you will benefit from in a recently published article where I share what women just like you need to do to keep the man you love.

In the meantime, you can watch this video that will help you keep him.*

Best regards,

Rickard

So, for “Help me keep my man” and everybody else on this blog, you can watch the video I linked above, but first, I recommend that you read this article.

In this article, I will cover what you must do to strengthen your relationship with your current boyfriend or husband.

I share ten valuable tips with you below…

What to Do to Strengthen My Relationship with my Boyfriend

Many times when you and your boyfriend feel disconnected, it can be fixed by strengthening your relationship with him.

It is true, however, that all relationship goes through different phases.

If you are looking for some ways to strengthen your relationship with your current boyfriend, here are five valuable tips for you:

1. You Must Be Like Romeo and Juliet.

Yes, you must be like Romeo and Juliet, who fell in love despite their families’ disapproval.

It has to be a “we” against “the world” scenario.

You must be ready and prepared to fight for your relationship and overcome obstacles.

That is what I mean by being like Romeo and Juliet. Nothing else.

2. Don’t Blame Each Other

Never blame each other if the relationship isn’t going as you think it should.

Acknowledge that the blame isn’t on one of you but both of you.

3. Don’t Try to Change Each Other

Just as important as not blaming each other when things aren’t going the way either of you expected with the relationship, trying to change the other person is a relationship breaker.

As you probably know deep down in your heart already:

The only person you can ever change is yourself.

For this reason, trying to change will only destroy the relationship and push him further away from you instead of closer to you.

You don’t want that to happen, now, do you?

4. Never Use Sarcastic or Belittling Remarks

Even though sarcasm can be fun, if you use sarcasm to criticize your boyfriend, you’re on your way to a downward spiral that will only lead you to be alone and miserable.

The same is valid with belittling remarks.

Both of you are adults, and you need to start acting like adults if your relationship should have any hope of surviving.

For this reason, always avoid belittling remarks yourself.

If your boyfriend is using them right now, tell him that it is not okay and that he needs to grow up.

5. Don’t Stonewall Him!

You are stonewalling him if you’re ignoring, stalling, or outright don’t participate in things he suggests.

My honest advice to you is: Stop stonewalling him immediately!

You might think it is right to do this as a woman whose feelings are hurt, but this passive-aggressive method will lead you and your relationship to a bitter ending faster than you think.

Now, I already know what you are thinking:

Okay. I got it, and I will not stonewall, belittle, be sarcastic, try to blame him, or try to change him. But what can I do about it?

I love him, and I want to give the relationship a chance.

If you are willing to give your relationship a chance and possibly even save it, I have the solution for you right here:

Click here to watch the video that explains everything to you.*

Now you are left with two choices:

Either you watch the video by clicking the link above or…

You regret that you were too busy to watch the video for the rest of your life. That might just have been the one thing that would have saved your relationship.

Just because I am a decent guy, I will give you another chance:

Yes, I want to strengthen my relationship with my boyfriend.*

How to Strengthen My Relationship with my Husband

If you want to strengthen your relationship with your husband, you should do the five things I shared with you above and the five things I will share with you below.

6. Believe in Each Other’s Qualities

Believing in each other’s qualities is very important, just as important as trust is.

I am sure that you still appreciate some of the qualities that made you fall in love with your husband the first time, and during the time you’ve spent together, you have probably discovered others too.

I advise you to tell him that and focus for at least 15 minutes to discuss what you like about each other and appreciate.

7. Be Honest About What Is Acceptable and Not to You

Tell him upfront what is acceptable and not correct from the start.

If you don’t, he might cross your borders unconsciously.

Always be honest with how you feel about certain things in your relationship, which goes from the tiniest, most insignificant details to the big questions like having kids and raising a family together.

Let him share his boundaries with you, too, so that you don’t cross his borders unconsciously, either.

8. Acknowledge Your Limiting Beliefs

We all have them, the limiting beliefs that stop us from doing or acting in a certain way.

You need to confess them to yourself and acknowledge them.

Otherwise, your marriage is doomed, and the blame is only on you.

9. Secrets Are Relationship Wreckers

Do you have any secrets that you have kept from him?

Then, you need to come clean and tell him.

Even if you know it will hurt him, you must tell him about it.

Otherwise, he will leave you alone and miserable.

You don’t want that to happen now, do you?

Luckily for you, all you need is a click away. Here are the 12 words that might save the day and your relationship with it!*

10. Lack of Communication

If you lack communication, your relationship will end sooner than later.

That is a fact, and I could throw you so many statistics here to prove my point, but I will spare you from it.

I understand that it is heartbreaking for you when you know how many things threaten your relationship, and the truth is that both of you might be the cause of that.

I recommend you watch this video to cure the lack of communication that your relationship is clearly suffering from.*

That’s all, and if you don’t do anything, then it’s okay.

I understand that you wanted your marriage to end just because you were too cowardly to take action and save your marriage. That was just one click away.

I just don’t think you should blame me for it! The blame is only on you!

But I am challenging you to change your mind and save the marriage, or do you want to be the woman who had everything but lost it because she was too proud to acknowledge that she feared it?

Maybe you’re even a courageous woman and want to save your marriage.

But this is only for women ready to face the truth!

I have one more question to ask you: Are you ready?

Click here if you’re ready to hear the truth and want to save your marriage right now!*

Next Article

My next article will be published on the 2nd of August 2019.

It will discuss how to attract a man through his ego.

Have a great day,

Rickard