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Many women such as yourself ask this question quite often.
Many men typically don’t talk to you often, but when they do, it is essential to know how you should speak to them.
The truth is that how often you and he talks depends on a couple of things.
There might be limiting factors like work, spending time with family, or a hobby that stops him from letting him talk with you every day, and most of the time, it’s just his life that gets in the way and doesn’t give him enough time to talk to you.
If he sends you a text, you should consider that as a way for him to contact you.
Surely, texting can’t replace his voice, but if he has limited time to call you, he might send you a text, and you should respond to that; some days, this is the only contact you will have with your boyfriend.
I will now continue this article by answering the following questions:
- Should you hear from your boyfriend every day?
- How long should you wait to hear from a guy?
- How often should you hear from a guy you’re dating?
If that is something that is of any interest to you, please continue to read this article that continues below.
Should You Hear from Your Boyfriend Every Day?
As I recently told you, there might be things that stop your boyfriend from contacting you as often as he wants.
It is usually not that he is reluctant and doesn’t want to contact you, but that life gets in his way.
If you don’t hear from your boyfriend daily, there is, in most cases, nothing that should cause you any concern.
Unless you see that he’s getting flirty text messages from other women, of course.
If you notice that he gets flirty text messages or DMs on social media, you need to be concerned and follow these best practices to ensure that he will stay with you.
They will help you tackle any insecurities or concerns you may have.
Sometimes men do get unwanted attention from women on social media, and when we do, you should notice whether he replied to them or not and what words he used.
You may also want to support his love for you by sending him these irresistible texts.
How Long Should You Wait to Hear from a Guy?
When you have contacted a guy you have a romantic interest in, I understand that waiting can be frustrating.
I recommend you wait up to 48 hours before contacting him again.
Some men like to play the “waiting game” for a while because they think it is the only way to keep you interested in him.
So, if you don’t hear from your boyfriend or any guy, there is no need for concern.
However, both genders are equally guilty of this kind of behavior, and there are some blogs and self-proclaimed experts who teach this as the “only” method that works.
So, the obvious question becomes:
Is there a sure way to know whether he is playing the ridiculous waiting game with you, or is it something else like ghosting?
No, not really.
However, if you want to know how you can make him contact you, there is a simple text you can send him or tell him if you meet him in person.
In my article “How to Keep a Guy Interested,” I share some valuable insights.
You may also scroll down to the end, where I share more articles that other women in your current situation have read.
How Often Should You Hear from a Guy You’re Dating?
So, how often should you hear from someone you’re dating?
It depends on how often you should hear from the person you’re dating. Many things will influence the answer.
Things like how long you’ve been dating, if you live in the same area, how busy your lives are, what kind of work you have, or maybe you’re in high school or college, and your expectations will have a significant impact on it, so there’s no definite answer to this question.
Unless you are not exclusive, I would consider at least three to four weeks before you start to worry.
If he hasn’t contacted you in that timeframe, he’s probably ghosted you or moved on to another woman, which is his loss.
Don’t take it too hard – since there are still many fishes in the sea.
If you want an easy method to stop him from ever ghosting you (or doing it again), read this article.
In that article, I share a simple yet highly effective text to stop this kind of behavior in its tracks, and he will never try to do it again.
You will hear from your boyfriend more often after sending him that text.
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5 Texting Tips to Attract a Man Quickly
How to Catch a Man and Keep Him
What to Text a Guy Who Ghosted You
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