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In this article, I will reveal how to approach a woman online, no matter your past experiences, since this is getting increasingly harder every second.
I have spent so much time helping clients to get women online.
Some have succeeded, and I would like to offer some general insights here since that will help you realize what is possible, even if I can not guarantee that you will see the same results even if you use the same practices described in this article.
Many men do not know how to approach women online and get a date. Why do men seem to have so much trouble picking up girls online these days?
Are women too picky, or is there something else that is going on that makes it trickier?
Maybe it’s a combination of the two, or it’s because men do not know what to say to a woman or go about it wrong.
It can happen to everyone, myself included, especially if she is drop-dead-gorgeous!
I have been able to work with myself and get over most of the shyness that I had before, and today, I am more confident and feel more secure when I approach women.
In my article, I will share the following:
- What to say to a woman online
- The best way to approach her on a dating site
- What you must do to get her out on a date fast
If you want to know all the details, please continue to read the entire article until the end.
What To Say To A Woman Online
First of all, flirting might not work because women get “bombarded” with flirts on dating websites, so for them, it’s pretty dull (and a bit annoying, too) with all the teases they get from men.
One of the things that I have stumbled upon is that men send “weird” messages to women.
It won’t work just sending women, “I’m horny tonight, and you look beautiful. Do you want to come over to my place and f*ck?” or “Hey beautiful, want to feel a real man inside of you tonight? If you do, text me at xxx-xxx-xxx“
Far from being turned on by these messages, women find them offensive, repulsive, and disgusting.
There isn’t a woman born who likes them, at least not a real woman who wants to get to know you before she even considers sleeping with you.
So you will only push women away if you try this approach.
Please do not comment on her physical attributes, either, since that will make you feel like a creep.
I have never done this myself because I got this information from some of my female friends. So how should you do it? What are the best practices?
Send her an email!
It would help if you took the time to make her feel comfortable and not use lousy grammar because it will not invoke a response.
Here are the five best practices for sending a compelling email to a woman:
- Be nice and polite
- Be honest and truthful with your intentions.
- Be funny and make her smile.
- Make her intrigued or invoke another kind of response.
- Finish your first message with a question
Following these five simple steps, and then wait for her response.
By ending your email with a question, you are increasing your chances of getting a response since we, humans, want to get questions answered.
We don’t like to leave any loose ends.
The Best Ways to Approach a Woman on a Dating Site
The best ways to approach a woman on a dating site are to do a little bit of actual research before you go out and send her an email.
I know how tempting it can be to email her, but take a moment and do some digging first.
Make sure you read her profile before sending an email since that will help you avoid many common mistakes that are easy to make if you don’t get a picture of who she is first.
Let me give you an example.
If she’s afraid of heights and you write that you too dream of climbing mountains and want to do some bungy jumping, you have just proven to her that you’re not worth her time since you haven’t taken the time to read her profile and to get to know her a bit!
Please do not comment on any of her physical attributes.
It would be awkward and might work on some women you hit in bars or nightclubs, but it will certainly not work online.
Please remember that it is the first interaction you will have with her.
Women are cautious for good reasons when men, who are strangers to them, approach them since they do not know you!
Even if you’re the nicest guy around you, they don’t know this yet!
The whole idea of sending them messages is to make the woman feel comfortable and start to trust you enough to go on a first date together with you!
For all the reasons mentioned above, make sure you are not too quick to ask her out on a date.
Give it some time; if you live close by, it might be the following weekend or later.
However, if she likes you, she will wait. Do not rush things! As I always tell my clients: Dating is not a sprint. It’s a marathon!
Continue to send her text messages, ask her for her number, and use that to keep in touch.
As long as you can communicate with her daily, you can make her think of you while you get to know each other’s daily routines and understand how to talk with her when you are out on a date.
If you want a long-term relationship, you should take it slow in the beginning!
Emotions take time to develop, and the best way to do things is to take things slowly and think about your goals with this relationship.
You need to start thinking about it as soon as possible.
After dating her for a while, it is time to ask yourself whether your dating has developed into a real relationship or whether you’re still dating but don’t know where it’s heading.
Of course, it is okay to be uncertain when you start your dating journey.
If you want to know the difference between “just” dating and being in an honest, committed relationship, read this article where I share the difference between relationships and dating.
That might help clarify things as you go along.
I will give you free advice here: Make sure you discuss what you have in common and what you like and dislike to get to know each other.
There is one other tip I want to share with you here today.
Consider writing down some questions, and typing them on your phone, so you remember what you want to ask her. After the date, ensure you type her answers so you don’t have to repeat them.
Make sure you have easy access to it, so you will not repeat the questions already answered!
How to Approach a Woman on a Dating Site
In this article, I shared how to approach a woman on a dating site and discussed some of the best practices.
If you want more tips, consider reading my article “Best profiles to attract women on dating sites.“
If you found the article helpful, please consider sharing it with a friend who you know will benefit from this information.
To repeat what I think are the best practices to approach women online:
- Be nice and polite
- Be honest and truthful with your intentions.
- Be funny and make her smile.
- Make her intrigued or invoke another kind of response.
- Finish your first message with a question
These tips might help you get out on more dates with gorgeous women than you ever thought possible since they are step-by-step instructions to get you out on more dates.
Have a great week!
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