How to Ask a Girl Out

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If you want to know how to ask a girl out on a date, you don’t want to skip this article.

Great Questions to Ask a Girl

Are there great questions to ask a girl?

The short answer is: Of course, there are!

To get my long answer, which I have covered in explicit detail in my two previous articles, you should read both of them:

• 45 questions for first dates 
• 7 questions to ask on the second date

There is, of course, one question I haven’t discussed so far, and that is the question you ask her when you want to ask her out on a date, which I will discuss at the end of this article.

In this article, I will give you 7 more questions to ask her, no matter how many previous dates you have been to with her.

The lesser, the better.

These questions are general and should, according to my knowledge, work no matter which culture she belongs to.

You will find them below…

7 Questions to Ask a Girl

As I promised, I will give you 7 questions to ask a girl, and these will also work no matter if you are looking for a long-term, which includes marriage or a shorter kind of relationship:

1. What is the one place in the world you wished you lived in? This might help you plan a future vacation, or maybe you can make her dreams come true unless it’s a lifestyle you know none of you will ever be able to afford.
2. What do you want to achieve with your life? By knowing her dreams and desires, you will know if they match yours and if you want her to be a part of your life.
3. Who has influenced you the most in your life? If it is a celebrity, you better hope that she does not want a life in the spotlight or where she is the centre of attention of the whole world. If she says some relative that works hard, she might be your perfect match.
4. What is the worst thing about dating? As I have written before, some people have commitment issues, and others don’t. There are always things we are scared about, especially when we feel that we can not take control of the situation and master it. Some people are afraid, and others aren’t. We all have our “luggage” or “backpacks” that we carry around, and this is something we must remember whoever we are dating.
5. Can you tell me about your worst date ever? Hope she doesn’t say it’s the one she is on right now. By asking her this, you know what you should avoid.
6. What’s your favourite thing to do with a guy? If you want something serious, you want to know if it is taking the poor guy out when she’s shopping to carry her bags or something that both of you can enjoy.
7. Who is your best friend? This question is something you must know. Meeting her best friends are absolutely pivotal, especially if you want a relationship with her.

How to Ask a Girl Out

The best way to ask a girl out is no doubt to ask her if she would be interested in a date.

Don’t try any “mind-games”, “pickup lines” or “tricks” to ask her out.

Just do it and be as upfront and honest as you possibly can be whenever you choose to ask a girl out on a date.

There are a few things you have to consider when you ask her out:

• The method you decide to use will affect the questions you will ask her.
• What kind of relationship you want with her is also important.
• Also, don’t forget to be honest with yourself and acknowledge the feelings you have for her.

If you are honest with yourself, you will make a good impression.

Start by asking yourself what kind of relationship you want and then click on the relevant link below:

• If you want a long-term relationship, you should follow this method.*
• If you want to get a girl, for long-term or short-term relationships, this method is the one I recommend for you.*
• If you are only looking for something short-term, I recommend this method.*

There you have the three methods I recommend.

All that truly matters is what kind of relationship you want; what kind of goal you wish to achieve.

I highly recommend that you give it a thought.

Of course, if you are asking her out on a date face-to-face, you should use the “Queen of (All) Questions”, if you ask her out by SMS or social media, your approach will be different.

If you want to ask her out on social media, this method is the best approach, but if you use texting, this method is the best practice according to my knowledge.*

Everything comes down to the method you prefer to choose.

One isn’t necessarily better than another; it really comes down to your own preferences here.

I really hope that you check them out because I know these methods will help you get enough courage to ask her out on a date, so you can finally get the girl you hopefully both admire and desire.

As with everything in life, your approach and the method you use will affect the result.

Just make sure that it is the desired result you will achieve.

Otherwise, you will not get the success that you are hoping for and let me be honest with you here:

All methods that I share with you work but to make them work, really comes down to three main things which makes it impossible for me to guarantee success for you:

1. The method you choose to ask her out on a date
2. Her feelings about you
3. Your own ability to implement these methods

Click here to fully understand how your own mindset impacts your results with women.

Next Article

My next article will be published on Monday the 18th of September.

It will discuss the behaviour on first dates that will grant you a second one.

Have a great weekend,

Rickard