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In this article, I will share how you can find love again.
I think that everyone deserves to give love a second chance and to finally find the happiness that you deserve and are longing for.
This article will not discuss how to get your ex back.
I just wanted to share that information with you straight away.
Of course, I have discussed this topic many times before on the blog but this time, I will focus on you and what you should do to find love again.
Because you need some insights here that are not found on most blogs.
If you want to find love for the first time, you might appreciate my article “Three steps to finding love“.
In that article, I show you how you can fall in love in three easy steps.
However, as I already have told you, I will focus on you and how you can find love again.
Find Love After Adultery
Adultery hurts and you feel betrayed and like it, for some odd reason, would be your own fault.
How adultery is defined is a very gender-specific thing.
For women, adultery begins when someone gets the mere idea of committing adultery or by doing something that is an emotional betrayal that equals adultery.
For men, adultery can be defined as the act of committing adultery.
Now, this might be very stereotypical or theoretical reasoning to you so let me give you an example that you can relate to.
For a man, watching an adult film isn’t considered adultery.
However, for a woman it is.
When I am discussing adultery here, I am referring to someone who had done the act and it doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman.
It is still the wrong thing to do.
You feel like someone had taken advantage of you or betrayed you.
You feel useless, like a piece of old furniture that someone threw away in a dumpster.
It is the worse feeling ever but there is help for you to get, even for free.
You can recover from adultery and here is a great resource to help you start your recovery journey today.
Even if this is what I would call the ultimate betrayal, it is still possible to recover and work with yourself first, to heal and to take some time where you are only focusing on yourself and your well-being.
You are worth it, aren’t you?
Go to this blog and get free counselling today.
The site, I am referring to above, also offers a supportive community of others who also are victims of adultery.
It is important to be in a group of people to find love and support.
In the community, you will find people who know what you’re going through first-hand.
The people who run that blog are people who have experienced adultery themselves, being victims of it and now what it takes to recover from such a horrible experience.
Go to the blog and see if this is for you.
Find Love Again After a Divorce
If you have gone through a painstaking divorce you might be dreaming of finally finding love again.
Typically, you fall into either one of these categories of divorcees:
- Getting back in the dating game quickly
- Being cautious and waiting
There are pros and cons with both approaches, of course.
Some of the cons of getting back in the dating game fast after a divorce is that you haven’t really got the time to heal properly as well as not having the time to process all your emotions.
You might think that the best way is to remain cautious but it’s not.
There is also a con of being cautious and waiting for the “perfect” time or “perfect” person to magically appear in your life since you’re then risking to never go out on a date again.
However, it is fully understandable that you do this.
You’re simply acting like a child who burned the hand on the stove and never want to experience this again.
As human beings, we try to do what we think is the best way to handle our current situation and this is based on our previous experience, just like the child that I mentioned before.
So, what can you do about it?
For some of you, the best experience will be to get back in the dating game quickly and for others, it will be better to heal properly and wait.
The biggest con of dating quickly after a divorce is that you risk ending up in a new divorce again since you are repeating the same behavioural patterns from your past.
This is more like someone who is doing the same mistake every time, like when a child is learning to walk.
The child will start by standing up and then holding onto something, like a table or a chair but as soon as the same child is letting go of the table or the chair, the child will fall and hurt him- or herself.
However, just like the child will keep trying until he or she is able to walk like an adult, so should you start dating eventually and searching for love.
Now, you might be thinking when the right time is to start dating.
Quite honestly, I don’t know and I can’t give general advice since that won’t be very helpful to you.
If you have access to a counsellor or a trusted friend, listen to their advice.
However, if you don’t, then you will decide when the right time is for you to begin dating again after a divorce.
You have been forced to experience something that you wished you would never experience or be forced to go through since this is an experience you would rather lack, wouldn’t you?
It is all about the trust that is betrayed here, just like it is for someone who has been betrayed by their loved one who committed adultery.
So, what can you do about it?
The Best Way to Find Love Again
No matter if you’re recovering from your divorce or from being divorced by someone who cheated on you, the best way to find love again is, to be honest with yourself.
Ask yourself: Am I ready to date again after my divorce?
If the answer is yes, and I want you to be honest with yourself when you answer this question.
Nobody else, except you, can determine whether this is right for you or not.
If you are ready to do it, I am supporting you 100% and want you to have a new relationship with someone who makes you feel good.
Wouldn’t you agree with me if I suggested that you also deserve a better relationship this time?
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Next Article
My next article will be published on the 19th of May 2019.
It will discuss first date etiquette.
Have a great day,
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