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In this blog post, I will discuss the importance of being selective and staying true to your main objective. These are two of the most forgotten aspects of online dating and this is also one of the reasons why people are failing in online dating.
If you want to learn more about it, please read the entire article…
Online Dating Is Not Always Complicated
Ok, so you have your list now and now it’s time to make it work for you, not against you.
You have to stay true to the personality traits and all the other things you’ve put there. Which are the things you absolutely can not make a compromise about? Is it height, eye colour, hair colour or anything else?
Now, it’s time to activate the search function on the website and make it work for you. Start by browsing the website and find the function. On ChristianDatingInternational you might have to scroll down a little bit to find it, depending on which device you view the website on.
You may see an example below and to make things clear as well as for simplicity I have highlighted the search box with a red rectangle.
Browse each and every profile and match it to your list. The search function on the dating website might have narrowed down things like gender, height, eye colour, age and so on but it can not help you with everything and this is where the list plays a significant role.
Be sure to take some notes on which profiles that tick the different boxes on your list and make a “tick-list” on how many “ticks” each profile got. Then you should start by sending an icebreaker message, a flirt, a wink or something else to at least the 3 profiles that made the most.
If someone of them is online when you are, you might start a chat with them too. The important thing is that you take some action and shows the other person that you are serious about getting into a relationship and not stop.
Give it a day or two and if you haven’t got any replies by then, you might contact the next 3 or maybe even more. Don’t forget to repeat this steps at least once every week since some people might have found their love already and are not interested contacting you for that reason.
Online Dating Is Your Friend Not Your Foe
From time to time again you meet people who think that online dating is not a great way for singles to find love in the modern world. I don’t agree with them.
The reason why you hear so much negativity about it might be because they have tried themselves and it didn’t work out because they didn’t follow the steps I described above or because they have never tried it and is already married and are not interested in finding someone to love but they just “knows” it.
There are other things too like love scammers that make it hard for serious singles to find love and this I have discussed in many articles before. I just want to apologise for bringing up this topic once more but I just felt that I also had to remind you of this sad fact once again.
Negativity is not a good thing and one thing that always are helping singles to find love on different online dating websites are the sincerity and the honesty of each and every individual. Having a positive attitude is always helpful, especially when you get rejected.
I always try to have a positive tone in most of my articles since it shall be fun to date and it shall not be seen as a burden. You can make all the lists you want but if you don’t take action and contact people nothing will happen. This is the sad fact that no one else tells you about.
However, you should try to remain positive even when it is as hardest. Rejection is hard but trust God, your gut and believe in your own ability to find someone to love and good things will start to happen.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on the 20th of January 2016.
It will discuss the best way to approach someone on an online dating website.
See you then,
Rickard
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