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I will share how to get him interested in you in this article.
If you ever had a crush on a guy and wanted him to notice you, you have probably realized that getting a man to show a romantic interest in you is more complicated than you hoped.
In this article, I will share the following:
- What you must do to get his attention.
- Ten surefire ways to get him more interested in you fast that works.
- The best way to get him interested in you and make him fall in love with you never fails.
If you’re interested, please continue to read the entire article until the end.
What You Must Do Get His Attention
Before you can get him interested in you, you need to catch his attention first.
Flirting is probably the easiest and most obvious way to get his attention, but you need to be good at it so he doesn’t think you are suffering from tics.
Nerves can make it hard to flirt with someone.
Indeed, it would help if you practiced a lot to become a good flirter unless you have a natural talent for it which most women, unfortunately, don’t.
So, get in front of your mirror and practice flirting, ladies!
Take the initiative, ladies! When it comes to flirting, it is best if you, as a woman will, take the initiative since most guys are pretty bad at knowing whether you’re flirting with them. Since I am a man, I know how bad we are at realizing when a woman is flirting with us.
Focus on Your Lips
Draw attention to your lips by putting on some lipstick or lipgloss.
Lipstick in a color that makes you stand out will put your lips at the focal point of his eyes, and he can’t help but have to look at them. When he looks at them, ladies, get pouty!
Ignore Him First – and Then Include Him into the Conversation
One of the most effective ways to get a guy’s attention is by completely ignoring him first. For instance, you can say hi to everyone but him and converse with every other man present.
It will make him feel left out, and when you finally talk to him, he will feel so happy to speak to you.
It is a little mind hack that works and drives men crazy since he will become desperate to get your attention and do everything to make you notice him.
The Good Old Drop and Snap
As the entire world learned in Legally Blonde, the good old drop and snap still works on men.
It works best when you pretend to drop something, pick it up, get up quickly, and move your body to catch his gaze and show off your curves.
The only problem is if he looks in another direction, so make sure he looks at you before executing.
Do the Bump-and-Flatter
Another proven way to flirt with men is the good old bump-and-flatter.
It is when you bump into him on purpose but pretends it is purely accidental and says something like: “Oh, sorry! I always get clumsy when I’m around cute people,” or “My apologies. When I see a sweet guy, I lose control of my body.”
He will surely get curious and want to know you better.
Get Eye-Contact with Your Crush
The eyes are the mirror of the soul, is a Yiddish proverb, and for a good reason, since getting eye contact with your crush is a powerful way of flirting with him.
When you notice that he looks at you, look directly back at him, smile and wink.
Hopefully, he will walk up to you and start talking with you if he is man enough. Otherwise, he’s not worth it but only wasting your time.
That’s why eye contact is so powerful.
If you want more tips on what to do after the initial flirting, read my article about how you can catch a man and keep him.
Look at His Clothes
Did you know that looking at a man’s clothes and commenting on them is a sure way to get his attention?
Unlike women, men seldom get comments on what they wear, which is one of the best ways to get their attention.
If you want more tips to make him notice you, read that article.
Hit Him Playfully
Do you remember that boy who used to hit you when you were young because he was in love with you?
If you hit him on his shoulder or bump into him on “accident,” it doesn’t matter. It is a fun yet simple way to get his attention, help him notice you, and realize that you have a thing for him.
Compare Your Hand Sizes
Let him know that his hands are more prominent than yours by comparing them.
We all know what big hands mean, or do we?
Touch Him
One of the best ways to get him interested and flirt with a guy simultaneously is by touching him.
It keeps his attention on you and will make you his sole focus, and science proves that when you touch another human being, you reduce the cortisol level, thereby stress, which makes him more relaxed when he’s around you.
If you can make him more relaxed, you will get him interested in you and only you.
Compliment Him
Compliments are excellent when used correctly.
Of course, you can shower him with compliments, but if you suddenly stop, he will start thinking about what he did wrong or maybe become more hesitant and emotionally distant around you.
To avoid that, limit yourself to only giving him one compliment when he does something.
It will make your compliments work more effectively on him, and he will appreciate you and your compliments more.
If you want some tips, here are 25 compliments he can’t resist.
How to Get Him Interested Using Certain Words
So far, I’ve been covering how to get him interested using body language, but there are certain words you can drop into a conversation that he will not notice.
These words are highly effective since they tap into a man’s brain scaringly effectively.
If you’re afraid you must leave your comfort zone or say words that make you uncomfortable, you do not have to worry.
The reason you will get him interested in you is pure psychology.
You do not have to feel dirty or disgusted when you say words to fascinate him since they will trigger a hidden mechanism buried deep in a man’s brain.
The words that work most effectively on men are simple, everyday words that make them fall for you.
If you want to know the psychology behind the words and why they work so well on men who are pretty single-minded uncomplicated creatures, read my article about the words that will trigger the hero instinct in your man here.
The hero instinct is a man’s hidden desire to protect his partner and care for them and their offspring.
In the modern world, men have seen their role as a provider diminish, but their brain is still the same as it was since the dawn of man.
For that reason, you need to know the words since they will help you get him interested.
The Best Way to Get Him Interested in You
If you want to know how to get him interested in you and what the best way is, I would recommend that you would choose the last method that I discussed.
It would be best to use a few ordinary yet highly compelling words.
Even if the ten ways to use body language and flirting with him work, words are still more accessible for him to understand.
Remember that men are not complicated.
As a man myself, I can attest that we are less complicated than women, and I have first-hand experience with these exact words, and they work in real life and is not something I say.
Consider reading this article if you want to know more about these words.
In that article, I cover how a woman used them to get her emotionally distant boyfriend to propose to her, and even if you only want to get him interested in you, they still work.
Ten Surefire Ways to Get Him Interested Fast
Since you want to know how to get him interested in you, I want to repeat the ten best ways to catch his attention and the eleventh that will help you keep it once more.
Here are the ten surefire ways to get him interested in you fast:
- Focus on your lips
- Ignore him first
- The good old drop and snap
- Do the bump-and-flatter
- Get eye contact (and wink)
- Look at his clothes
- Hit him playfully
- Compare your hand sizes
- Touch him
- Compliment him
- Say the “magic” words to him
If you want to get him interested fast and keep him interested in you, I share a simple way to do it in my article about why it works.
Click or tap here if you want to know why men can’t resist these words.
Now you know how to get him interested in you and also how you can keep his attention long enough to get him to ask you out.
To your success,
Rickard
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