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If you want to know how to talk to a girl over text, it is not as hard as you think, but what matters is what you have in mind and why you want her in your life.
I want to do a little exercise with you.
Start by asking yourself: What do I want to do with her? Do I want to become friends with her, or do I want her to become my girlfriend?
Depending on your answer, which determines your next step, there are two paths you can take now.
If you want to be her friend but have no romantic intentions in mind with her ever, you can leave this blog right now since this information is not what you want or need.
However, if you want her to become your girlfriend, please keep reading.
Text Openers – What You Need to Text Her First
Sending her an icebreaker, or in this case, you might refer to it as a text opener, is the obvious thing you must text her first.
Remember that how you talk to a girl over text is not complicated.
In most cases, however, you find it hard to come up with funny, intelligent, and exciting things to text her or to keep the conversation going.
Luckily for you, you are on this blog which has discussed everything above before.
You might think it is intelligent to start with a simple “Hi, how are you?” If you want to get in the friend zone, that is a great way to start your text conversation.
Please remember that it will take time for you to turn her into your girlfriend and that you must be patient.
However, if you want her to become your girlfriend, you should consider sending her one of these convo openers instead.
Those conversation openers will help you become a guy she will start seeing as a potential boyfriend.
We aren’t there yet, and you should remember that texting her is like running a marathon rather than a sprint, and that’s why patience is essential when you talk to girls over text.
Talking to Girls Over Text: Why Do These Texts Work?
These texts work because they make you a funny, intelligent, trustworthy, respectful, and attentive guy.
All five things I listed in the previous sentence are what women want in men and girls, like in guys, no matter how young or old we are.
A good conversation opener catches her attention immediately.
How to Talk to a Girl Over Text: The Follow-Up Message
What kind of text you use next is far more critical once you send her the first text message.
Remember that when you’re texting, she will be far more courageous and probably text things that she would never say to you since that would make her appear slutty.
You must remember that being slutty is NOT something she wants to be.
Women feel a bit guilty once they have the hots for a guy since society has taught them that it is not how “good girls” should think about men.
So, what can you do to make her overcome that feeling?
You can do two things: either by using my attraction formula, which has worked for many other guys and me, or by sending the texts that create a positive feeling in her.
If you choose the latter option, she will associate you with a positive feeling, which is never wrong.
My attraction formula is a real-life tested formula that works on women everywhere, no matter where they live.
Please read my article about the attraction formula here to get all the details.
If she associates you with a positive feeling, she will miss your texts when you are not “talking,” which is crucial if you want her to fall in love with you.
Humans fall in love with other humans when they miss them.
If you can create a positive emotion in her, it is more likely that she will get a crush on you which makes it easier to ask her out on a date.
The easiest way is by sending her one of these funny texts.
You will get other examples you can send her at the end of this article in the “Recommended reading”-section.
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How Can I Be Sure That She Answers Me?
The obvious answer is that you can’t be sure that she texts you back or answers you.
However, there is a sneaky little trick that you can use to increase the likelihood that she doesn’t ghost you and gives you an answer.
Would you like to know what it is?
If you answered “yes,” you want to get more insights about why questions work so well.
In that article, you will get ten of the most exciting texts you can send to her, and I can’t promise that she will reply to you, but it will increase the likelihood of getting a text back.
It is one of the things that helped me become a master of texting women.
Of course, I can not and will not guarantee that it will help you, but it will increase your chances by at least 55% if you send her a question since we are programmed to answer questions as humans.
The Final Step
When you’re in a texting conversation, the next step is asking her out on a date.
The sooner you can get a face-to-face meeting, the sooner you can escalate things with her and turn her from what is a female friend into your next girlfriend.
It is that simple.
If you have successfully created the right emotions in her, which I already discussed, there is no time to waste.
But then one question remains, how can you get her out on a date?
Essentially, there are two ways to do it, and both work equally fantastic, so the correct question to ask yourself at this stage is: How soon do you want to date her?
I know you don’t want to think of it, but if you find her hot, most other men will find her hot too.
Women most men find hot are busy since they have many options to get out on dates with many guys, but remember that she will only sleep with guys who make her feel “right.”
If you are unsure whether she likes you, here is an easy way to get her to like you.
If you want to create the right emotions in her, you should send her one of these texts that women find irresistible.
It will help you make her feel an emotional connection which she must feel to say yes to a date with you.
How to Get Her Out on a Date Fast
If you want to get her out on a date fast, you need to use the stealth attraction secret to avoid her “filter,” make her feel right, and she will be so eager to go on a date with you that she barely can handle herself in pure anticipation of your date.
It is an easy method that allows you to get her out on a date fast and make her yours.
The good news is that it works exceptionally well on women, who most men find hot, but it could also be the thing you wanted to get that librarian-like nerdy girl who likes books that you have a secret crush on and eagerly wants to be your next date.
Click here and discover why the stealth attraction secret works so well.
If you need some inspiration on the places to go on your date or what you should talk about with your crush, that is what I will discuss next.
How to Talk to Girls When You’re on a Date
If you’re new to this blog, I must tell you that I have discussed dates from different perspectives here since 2013.
I have written a lot about my journey on this blog.
I discovered that we don’t know what to talk about on a date with a woman or even where we should go on dates.
If it is, I hope you understand now that I want to share my knowledge with you.
It gives you an unfair advantage over other men, but I think it is only fair to provide you with as much free information as possible to help you get the girl you want.
Here are ten of my favorite venues for dating hot women.
I have to admit that the list is biased since it is solely based on my opinion and not scientific facts, but I hope you will find it helpful, at least as inspiration.
So, what should you talk about on a date with a woman?
Here are my best tips on the things you can talk about on dates.
In that article, you will discover how you can use innocent words to turn her into your next girlfriend, and she will not see it coming.
Recommended Reading for You
Other guys like you have found these articles helpful, and all of them are available through my newsletter:
The Best Conversation Openers to Get the One You Want
Can Texting Create the Right Chemistry in Her?
The 3-Step Attraction Formula That Works on Women
To your success,
Rickard
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