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So, you found flirty texts on your boyfriend’s phone, and now you’re wondering what you should do?
First, I will assume that they are not from you. Secondly, since I am a dating coach and relationship expert, let me tell you that I understand that you feel betrayed and upset, yet you are not the one to be blamed.
It’s all on him, right?
Now that we have put the guilt on the person where blame solely belongs, I understand that you are reading this article since you want to save your relationship with your boyfriend.
Your relationship is not beyond repair as long as he has been sending another woman flirty texts.
Even if you feel betrayed right now and don’t know what you should do, you have a couple of options, and some are better than others.
I will present you with three different scenarios here, based on the experience of three women:
- What Eliza did when she found flirty texts, and what you should do instead.
- How Anna’s affirmative action saved her relationship with Steve.
- Tell him that it is all over and that she can have him.
After going through these scenarios, I will give you a bit of advice based on which of the plans will help you move along and either take him back from that man snatcher or move on and get a better man.
What Eliza Did When She Found Flirty Texts on Her Boyfriend’s Phone – Confront Him with Your Findings
Eliza had been dating her boyfriend Martin for a couple of months when she found flirty texts on his phone from another woman named Chantel.
He took a quick shower the first time she went through his text messages since he had given her his password.
First, she didn’t pay much attention to it, but then, she started to worry about it and started to suspect that he was cheating on her as she went through Martin’s phone.
When Martin asked her what was wrong, she didn’t say anything.
She thought he owed her an explanation but wanted him to come clean and tell her why this woman was sending him flirty texts.
However, since Martin was clueless and noted that she had become distant, he also started to think about it.
He worried that something he had said made Eliza distant, angry at him, suspicious, and watching him when he played a game on his phone.
When he asked her what was wrong, Eliza always said: Nothing.
One faithful day, however, he asked her again and added that something was wrong since he had noticed a change in her behavior, and he asked her if she had been going through his phone.
Reluctantly, Eliza confessed that she had indeed been going through his phone and found the flirty messages.
Martin then asked if she had noticed that he was rejecting the woman who sent him those flirty messages by telling her that Chantel, an old girlfriend of his, was sending him these messages after she broke up with her boyfriend.
However, Martin was happy in the relationship with Eliza and had rejected Chantel bluntly.
Eliza had been in a hurry and scrolled through Martin’s phone without paying much attention to Martin’s replies since she had been infuriated with anger and didn’t know who Chantel was.
Once she realized it, she calmed down, but unfortunately, it was too late to save her relationship with Martin.
The two broke up, and if Eliza had only known about the sure signs of emotional cheating that I have discussed on this blog, she could have saved her relationship before it was too late.
That will help you to identify whether he’s cheating on you or not correctly.
Of course, you can also read the other women’s situation and what they did, or scroll down to get the solution that you need to take now if you’re in a similar case as Eliza were back then.
That action will hopefully save your relationship from ending like Eliza’s did.
Anna’s Affirmative Action – How One Simple Text Saved Her Relationship with Steve
Anna was in a similar situation as Eliza above, but she decided to save her relationship before it was too late.
When she discovered the flirty texts on Steve’s boyfriend’s phone, she confronted him about it, and he decided to come clean and tell her about a random follower on Instagram who had started to reach out to him and praised him for his talents in creating memes.
He didn’t overthink about it at first until she started to send him flirty texts.
Then, she had changed the tone and became threatening, claiming that she should have Steve for herself and that she was thinking about hurting both Anna and Steve.
Anna was thinking about one of Steve’s earlier girlfriends, Catherine, who had been her friend as well.
She introduced Anna to Steve and became very angry and upset after discovering that Anna and Steve had become a couple.
Since Anna hadn’t heard from Catherine for a while, she thought that she had moved along.
As soon as Steve told Anna about it, she had grown suspicious of Catherine, who tried to catfish him and trying to win him back from Anna, who she thought had betrayed their friendship.
However, Catherine and Steve had broken up a couple of months before Anna and Steve started to date each other.
Anna wasted no time and sent a DM to the follower and asked if she agreed to meet Steve in a local café since Anna knew that people would surround them, and nobody could do anything.
She agreed, and once they met, it was Catherine sure enough that showed up, 20 pounds heavier than she used to be when she dated Steve.
Catherine immediately started to sob and apologized to both of them.
It turned out that Catherine had been in a relationship with a guy who was a notorious cheater and cheated with all her friends, and it made her so angry and bitter.
That was the reason why she created that fake profile in the first place and came across Steve.
She had hoped and wished that Steve was lonely too and thought that maybe she could have another chance with the best man she ever dated.
Unfortunately, it was too late.
Anna and Steve both felt pity for Catherine, and then Anna sent Catherine a text that she should send to John, one of Steve’s closest friends.
She did that, and the two eventually became a couple.
More importantly, she did leave Anna and Steve alone since she was happy in her new relationship with John.
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When Melanie Found Flirty Texts on Her Boyfriend’s Phone She Gave Up
Melanie was in a relationship with Andrew when she discovered flirty texts on his phone.
She went through them, and discovered that Andrew had been sending her flirty and dirty messages, and felt disgusted by it.
Melanie couldn’t even look at Andrew, let alone be in the same room as him.
When she confronted him about it and asked: Why have I found flirty texts on your phone from another woman?
Andrew started to laugh and asked her why she was snooping around on his phone since it was none of Melanie’s business.
Melanie cried her tears out, and decided that Andrew wasn’t the high-quality guy she thought he was.
If you ever find flirty texts on your boyfriend’s phone that refers to you as a “big fat cow”, a “soon-to-be crazy cat lady”, or “that disgusting pig” like Andrew had called Melanie in those texts, it is clear that he doesn’t deserve you.
A guy who calls you names behind your back doesn’t deserve your love.
In that case, you need to move on, and get a high-quality guy who is worthy of your love and will treat you like a real woman which I have discussed on this blog in the past.
I Found Flirty Texts on My Boyfriend’s Phone – Now What?
If you have found flirty texts boyfriend’s phone, you need to take some action as Eliza, Anna, and Melanie did.
Needless to say, I can’t tell you which of their stories that resonated the most with you, but I can tell you that if you do nothing, your boyfriend or the other woman who is sending him those flirty messages will make a decision for you, and you might not like the outcome of it.
Unless you’re in Melanie’s situation, you need to do what Eliza should have done.
Anna used the same technique to turn a catfishing situation who was potentially dangerous into a situation where she felt sorry for the poor Catherine and helped her get a better man, so she could leave Anna’s man alone.
If you find flirty texts on your boyfriend’s phone, always confront him with it ASAP.
However, Eliza’s situation could have been solved if she would have reacted differently when she found flirty texts on her boyfriend’s phone, and asked him about it.
As I have stated many times in the past, communication is the key to a great relationship.
Anna would proudly say to you: “When I found flirty texts on my boyfriend’s phone I did this, and I recommend that you do the same.”
If you don’t know what I am referring to, you have missed what almost destroyed her relationship, and are potentially risking your relationship too.
The next time you find flirty texts on your boyfriend’s phone and it wasn’t you who was the sender of them, you shouldn’t be clueless about it, but send that message that Catherine got from Anna.
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