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In this blog post, we explain how to send icebreaker messages effectively on Christian dating platforms. You’ll learn why, when, and how to use these messages to improve your chances of forming a genuine connection.
We also take time to pray for our brothers and sisters in Christ who are being persecuted, and for those affected by illness in Western Africa.
What Are Icebreaker Messages?
Besides being the name of a charity ice hockey team in Sweden, an icebreaker message is a short, friendly introduction you send to start a conversation. On platforms like ChristianDatingInternational.com, they’re used to “break the ice” after you’ve shown interest in someone.
Steps to Send an Icebreaker Message
- Sign up and set up your profile: Create your free account, write a thoughtful profile, and upload a friendly photo. Click here if you need help.
- Take the compatibility test: This helps the system suggest matches for you.
- Send flirts first: After browsing your matches, send flirts to the ones who seem interesting. Here’s how to do it.
- Wait for a response: When someone flirts back, that’s your sign to send the icebreaker message.
- Send the message: Keep it kind, respectful, and direct. Mention something from their profile, and ask a simple question to continue the conversation. Want more tips? Here’s a list of the best icebreakers that have worked for me.
You can send icebreakers without waiting, but we recommend waiting for a returned flirt. This demonstrates mutual interest and fosters more meaningful exchanges.
Why Icebreakers Matter
Sending an icebreaker shows initiative and honesty. It’s a small gesture that can open the door to something greater. In Christian dating, sincerity is key, and that starts with a respectful message.
Special Prayers
For those affected by illness in Western Africa:
O Lord our God,
Help the countries suffering and strengthen the families of those afflicted. Send wise counsel and guide national leaders to act with compassion and clarity. Bring peace and healing. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
For persecuted Christians in Iraq and Syria:
Oh God, our Lord,
We pray for those persecuted for their faith. Keep them firm in their beliefs. Help those fighting against evil to restore peace. Be a guiding light to all nations so that they may follow Your will. In the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ. Amen.
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Next Blog Post
Our next blog post will be published on August 16, 2014. It will guide you on what to do once you receive a reply in your inbox.
Until then,
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