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It doesn’t matter whether you’re dating online, offline, or are in an established relationship. There are certain red flags for men that you need to be aware of and know.
Knowledge is power.
Power to avoid ending up in a bad relationship with a woman that you can’t break up with. because you are afraid of what she will do to you.
In this article, I share some knowledge about the red flags in a relationship with a woman that you need to be aware about and how you can avoid being stuck in a bad relationship.
Warning: Readers who are offended by political incorrectness be warned. This article contains several views that may offend your worldviews.
I also share the:
- Dating Red Flags for Guys
- Dating Red Flags in a Woman
- Dating Red Flags to Look for in a Woman
- Online Dating Red Flags for Guys
- First Date Red Flags for Guys
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Let’s begin with the online dating red flags first, and take it from there…
Online Dating Red Flags
What are the online dating red flags you need to be aware of and prepared to deal with?
It is good to read through this list, especially before you begin online dating.
There are a couple of online dating red flags that you need to be attentive to, such as but NOT limited to the following things:
- If she starts talking about money issues, maybe she asks for money.
- She asks for nude pictures of you.
- There are a lot of pictures of her, but very little information or just a space that says “ask me if you want to know more about me” or something similar.
- She claims that her friend(s) made her do this and that she isn’t into it.
- She is always negative about EVERYTHING.
- If she sounds too good to be true, as a rule of thumb, she probably is.
- Her English varies, sometimes it’s good it’s awful with a lot of spelling errors and grammar errors, that might sound like there’s something WRONG.
- She’s flaky about meeting in person or are claiming that her camera is broken whenever you want to video chat with her.
- Her list of qualities that she looks for in a man is more like a grocery list than describing a genuine human being (who has a lot of flaws).
- She always points out when you’re wrong, but whenever she is, and you tell her, she becomes moody, and don’t want to talk with you unless you apologize, but she never apologizes to you.
All of the ten red flags I have shared above are all reasons for concern in their own right.
I can tell you that some of the things I listed above are things that happened to me, especially number four, five, and ten, with one person in particular, who I will not mention any more here.
Women who asks for money, might be poor.
However, if you are unlucky, you might have come across a scammer, and you can even meet them on social media platforms, which happened to me.
Click or tap here to read about my experience there.
First Date Red Flags for Guys
But what if you go out on a first date with her, what are the red flags you need to watch out for, then?
Below, I share a couple of the dating red flags for guys that I know you will appreciate, since they are the most honest, and therefore politically incorrect tips you will ever find on any dating blog.
Red Flags in a Woman
I will begin this section by addressing the dating red flags in a woman.
Here are some of the things that should make all red flags waive in a woman when you’re out on a date with her:
- She becomes violent whenever she is upset.
- The two of you don’t share the same values.
- She left many relationships in the past.
- She claims all her exes were jerks or violent/abusive to her.
- You caught her lying.
- The two of you have completely different lifestyles and are not willing to make a compromise to make it work.
- She becomes obsessive quickly.
- She does not respect or appreciate you, her parents, your parents, or herself.
- It is her way or the highway.
- She makes you feel bad about yourself.
- She uses words like “love” and refer to the two of you as a “couple” on several occasions during a conversation.
Now that I have this one covered.
Let me tell you why I referred to this article as the most politically incorrect article on this blog that I have ever published.
It is the first dating red flag in a woman that I shared above.
To some people, it seems wrong to think of women as perpetrators since they can only view women as victims of men’s violence.
I’m NOT claiming that men are saints and women aren’t here.
Some men, as well as some women, are faithful saints, but some are also violent, disrespectful, condescending idiots against their partners.
I decided to share a story in the video below.
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For the other eleven things I discussed on my list above, you will find them in the continuation of this article.
Red Flags to Look for in a Woman
If the two of you are not sharing the same values, that is a problem.
Sharing the same values are one of the things that have been discussed a lot in the past, and I will not discuss it again.
If you want more information, you can read about it here.
Red Flags For Men: She Calls Her Exes Jerks/Abusive
Another dating red flag to look for in a woman is if she refers to all of her exes as jerks or claims that they were abusive against her.
Of course, not everyone is a saint, as I discussed in the video above.
However, if she always puts the blame on her exes, and always portraits herself as an innocent victim, that is a red flag.
It says that she is not a woman who takes responsibility for her own actions.
If she tells you that she has walked away from many of her past relationships, early on, that tells you that she is flaky, and NOT ready to commit to a serious relationship.
Of course, she might be a victim of her past relationships.
At the same time, staying victimised without proper professional treatment is a dating red flag in a woman.
If she does, she enjoys being the victim, which is a red flag.
If she has not dealt with her past problems, she might not be ready for a new relationship.
Red Flags For Guys: You Caught Her Lying
Another dating red flag for men is if she is caught lying.
It is never a good sign if you catch someone lying, but there are, of course, small lies and big ones, and there is a difference between them.
If she told you that she is taller, or tinier, that might still be okay.
Those are what I would think of as little lies, and even though most women would never admit it, most of them lie about their age, especially online.
Women are obsessed with age, and some wish they were younger.
So if she is lying about her age it might not be a serious lie, but you need to be aware so she does not make it a habit lying to you.
If she has a child, or are married, those are bigger lies.
There might be a reason why she wants to get out of a marriage, like if it is an unhealthy one, but if she wants to get a lover, my advice is to get out and move on.
Red Flag for Men: Your Lifestyles Do Not Match
If you live completely different lives, which are perfectly normal to do when you are single, you need to compromise to make it work.
However, if none of you are willing to compromise, and sacrifice something, you will never make your relationship work, and that is a red flag, since your relationship will be doomed from the start.
Red Flag for Men: She Becomes Obsessive Quickly
If a woman wants to know about your whereabouts and checking up on you multiple times throughout the day, or attacks your female followers on social media, that is another dating red flag for men.
It might sound cute in the beginning, but it will become tiresome in the long run.
It is not something that is normal, but twisted.
Red Flag for Guys: No Respect
I have discussed the importance of respect on many occasions on this blog in the past.
However, I will broaden the perspective here.
If she has no respect for her parents, you, or your parents, she does not respect herself either.
You might not know about her history with her parents.
They might share a troublesome past, and not all parents are good parents, but if she is constantly badmouthing them, and disrespect them, it is a red flag.
If she is disrespectful to her parents, she might be rude to your parents, to you, and your future children as well.
It might be due to a childhood trauma of hers, but it could be another issue.
She might be disrespectful to everybody and develop toxic, unhealthy relationships because she does not respect herself and love herself.
That might be the real issue that causes her problem.
It Is Her Way or the Highway
A sure dating red flag for men that she is waiving in your face, will be if she tells you that it is her way or the highway, since that tells you that she is not willing to change anything.
You are nothing more than her servant, which is disrespectful and condescending to you and is not a sign of a healthy relationship.
A relationship should be build on mutual respect for each other.
It is not always one person who should be “right”, or that you need to do what she says to keep her in good spirit.
She Makes You Feel Bad About Yourself
Of course, everybody can do something wrong every now and then.
However, if she always complains about everything you do, so it seems that you can never do anything right or please her, then there is something wrong.
There is something wrong with her, not you.
Red Flags For Men: Be Aware of How She Uses Words Like “Love” and “Couple”
It is perfectly normal if she says that she loves you or refers to the two of you as a couple after a couple of months of dating.
However, if she refers to you as a couple on the first date, it is a red flag.
It is also a red flag if she tells you that she loves you on the first date, but not necessarily on the second date.
If you have said those words to her first, that can be her response to you.
But if you never said those words, you need to take heed, since it means that she already think that the two of you are exclusive.
It is fine if you want to be exclusive with her as well.
Just be aware that she might be desperate to be in a relationship with you, to feel that she is a complete woman.
That is a definite red flag.
Women who are like that have low self-esteem and want to start your relationship with you fast since she defines herself as valuable only when she is with you and NOT by herself.
She has self-value issues, as well as self-esteem values.
It might sound like a good idea to some men to be with women who are like this, but you will never have a good, genuine, and healthy relationship.
Here is how you can create a healthy relationship with a woman.
Dating Red Flags for Guys
In this article, I have revealed eleven red flags for guys that you need to be aware of when you’re dating in real life.
To summarize them, here they are:
- She becomes violent whenever she is upset.
- The two of you don’t share the same values.
- She left many relationships in the past.
- She claims all her exes were jerks or violent/abusive to her.
- You caught her lying.
- The two of you have completely different lifestyles and are not willing to make a compromise to make it work.
- She becomes obsessive quickly.
- She does not respect or appreciate you, her parents, your parents, or herself.
- It is her way or the highway.
- She makes you feel bad about yourself.
- She uses words like “love” and refer to the two of you as a “couple” on several occasions during a conversation.
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