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In this blog post. I will write about dating coaches.
DISCLAIMER: When I wrote this article I was very upset about some scammers who were taking advantage of some friends of mine and charge them with heavy fees but didn’t deliver any real results themselves. I now know that many dating coaches are highly trained professionals who are concerned about helping their clients in a professional manner.
It seems like every day a new self-acclaimed dating coach is born. They are always boasting about how many clients they’ve helped and how good they are at their job.
Well, isn’t this great! It really is but there is one big secret behind all the dating coaches online that I want to reveal to all the readers of this blog. I know this will come as a shock to most of you but here’s what I know about them…
The Number 1 Secret Of Many Dating Coaches
So what is the number 1 secret of many dating coaches then?
Well, it’s the fact that most of them do not have a clue on what they are doing. They just lie and try to scam you so that they can get money from you.
They are just faking it. Of course, there are some good ones too but then there are unfortunately some scammers as well. My advice to anyone thinking of hiring someone is: don’t.
Why? You can get a lot of good stuff for free if you just search for it online.
However, according to my experience, there is only one truth: two persons does not react in a similar way. Wouldn’t it be great if we could just write a blueprint of how anybody would react and it would work every single time? I would love it personally!
I can tell you from my own personal experience that one person does not react like the next person.
This any trained professional would tell you and that is always my advice.
Go and see a trained professional, no matter if it is a reverend, a minister, a priest, or a psychologist. They can help you better than most self-acclaimed dating coaches actually can. Why? Because they know you or can give you the keys to your dating success as well as some of your friends can tell you what you need to do better.
As a friend once told me: When you are on a date you have to be yourself, just a bit better. It might seem odd but I have come to realize that he actually got something.
To Which Dating Coaches Should I Listen Then?
This is a very good question indeed. I would recommend that you do an online search yourself and find someone that you think might suit you and your needs.
I can tell you that it is one thing to coach someone that just want to date a man or a woman a couple of times and a totally different thing to coach someone that wants to get married.
Needless to say, they have totally different aspects and goals in life and these are so apart that you need to have a huge insight of people’s mindset when it comes to dating just for fun or dating for marriage.
I would also recommend you to listen to serious dating coaches that don’t want to force people to do anything against their will as some dating coaches would suggest you to do. Remember: honesty, respect, and humor will get you very far in real life.
This is my own personal experience from my own dating experience. I have written a small checklist that you may download for free. If you know someone else that might need these tips you can share it with that person too.
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Summary
To summarize this blog post in three paragraphs:
- Most dating coaches can’t help you since they don’t know you
- If you want a dating coach anyway find someone that you think might be good for your needs. Find a complete checklist here.
- The best free advice I can give anyone: work with a trained professional, preferably someone you can trust or already trusts.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on the 21st of February 2015.
It will be about a dating website that has sent me emails from time to time without my consent. This I really hate by the way.
Take care,
Rickard
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