Signs He Is a Passionate Lover

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Suppose you want to identify the ten signs he is a passionate lover. In that case, you will find them in this article, and what separates a high-quality, passionate man from a casanova.

A casanova can be fun and exciting to date for a while, but he’s not of high quality.

Here are the ten signs he is a passionate lover:

  1. He displays affection
  2. He eats slowly
  3. He isn’t a cheapskate but isn’t a big spender either
  4. He feels like a real-life hero
  5. You are a prominent part of his life
  6. He does say “I love you” and mean it
  7. He displays the subtle signs of love
  8. You become a better person around him
  9. He treats you like and makes you feel like a woman
  10. How to know that you are soulmates

If you want to know more about them, please read the entire article below, where I also share one secret about men you don’t want to miss.

He Displays Affection

Sometimes it isn’t the big things that tell you whether he’s a passionate lover, but the small tokens of appreciation he shows you daily.

A man in love with you will do things for you without you asking him to do them.

He will do them not because you say so but because he wants to show you how much he loves you and cares for your well-being.

He Eats Slowly

A straightforward yet subtle signal that he is passionate about you is that he doesn’t want to leave you quickly.

Men who leave you will probably not stay with you for very long.

For that reason, if you notice that he isn’t in haste to leave the dinner table when you’re sitting next to him, it is most certainly a clear indication that he is passionate about you.

dinner date

He Isn’t a Cheapskate and Not a Big Spender

He balances money perfectly.

A man who knows when to spend money and when to save them for later is a keeper, and if he knows how to do this, it signals that he is passionate about you.

Here are some more tips if you want to know how to discover whether he’s a keeper or not.

He Feels Like a Real Hero

One of the tell-tale signs of a passionate man depends on how you, as a woman, can make him feel.

Today, women are self-supported and don’t need a man to provide financial stability, which is a good thing.

However, men and women today still need each other for emotional support.

Men are the happiest when they are a part of something greater than themselves, whether it is a group of humans or a relationship where they feel valued and needed.

The best way to make a man feel valued and needed is by making him feel like a real-life hero.

It isn’t as complicated as it may sound. All you need to do is say a few words that will activate a man’s hero instinct by fulfilling every man’s psychological need to feel valued.

Read this article on how you can activate that psychological need in the man you love.

super hero cartoon

If you know how to activate it, you will get the loving, fulfilling relationship you want to have but only thought existed in romance novels and fairytales.

You are a Prominent Part of His Life

Men typically pair words with actions.

For a man, however, action speaks louder than words, and every man passionate about you will show it by displaying how much he wants you with big gestures and those small, subtle tokens I discussed earlier.

When a man is passionate about you, he will show it by sending these subtle signals.

He Does Say “I Love You” and Mean It

A man will say, “I love you,” but depending on his motifs, the reasons will vary.

Early in your relationship, the reason is that he wants to have sex with you, to show you that he is deeply fascinated by you and ready to commit to you wholeheartedly.

If you have been living together for a couple of years and are married, it is more to remind you and himself about the fact that he is still in love with you even if you are an established couple by now, and he wants to reaffirm his commitment to you by saying it loud and clear.

By doing that, he will rest assured that he lives with the love of his life.

He Displays the Subtle Signs of Love

There are a couple more subtle signs of love that a man will show you if he truly loves you, which might be hard to identify since the way he displays love and affection is quite different from yours.

He will express them by doing things for you rather than saying them to you.

A man who is an emotional, passionate man who is in love with you will display these subtle signs of affection to you.

If you notice any or all of them, it might indicate that he is in love with you.

You Become a Better Person Around Him

A sure sign that he is passionate about you is that he will make you a better person when you’re around him.

Men who have certain qualities will improve yours as well.

If he wants to be with you, and he thinks that you are his soulmate, he will do everything to improve himself to become a better person, and in the process, he will turn you into one as well.

It all happens naturally and only occurs when there is genuine passion between the two of you.

dating scene with young couple

He Treats You Like a Woman

A man who knows how to treat a woman like the beautiful, powerful creature she treats her with the utmost:

  • Respect
  • Honesty
  • Dignity
  • Passion
  • Affirmation
  • Admiration
  • Love

A man who takes you for granted will never show any of these qualities.

Only a high-quality man who will never take you for granted will display these signs and share his passion, supporting you emotionally, mentally, and spiritually in sound and hard times.

He Also Makes You Feel Like a Woman

A man who makes you feel like a woman will show you the seven traits I listed above, and he will value you as your femininity will complete the relationship with his masculinity.

Only when he is allowed to act and be like a man will he make you feel like a woman.

The best way to make him feel appreciated and that he brings into the mix something valuable and much needed is that he will show you that vital energy that allows you to explore your more feminine sides.

Men focus more on biological needs and allow you as a woman to focus on emotional needs.

The hero instinct is one of the most effective ways to allow him to be that man who will focus on the physical nature of the relationship. At the same time, you can concentrate on the emotional side of your relationship, thereby improving your relationship as equal partners and soulmates.

How to Know That You Are Soulmates

For some men, the idea that there is a soulmate seems like a figure of female imagination, while other men entirely agree with you on the entire concept.

Most men who believe in soulmates are men who are passionate lovers.

The idea behind the soulmate is that there is someone you will be with and spend the rest of your life with that is chosen by fate, the universe, or God.

So, your soulmate is not chosen by you but by some supernatural force.

Is This the Surest Sign That He Is a Passionate Lover and Your Soulmate?

The idea of soulmates might sound strange or like some magic concept, but it is not since there is an easy way to figure out if he is a passionate lover AND your soulmate.

He can, of course, only be your passionate lover, who will never commit to you.

Sometimes he knows that he is your soulmate but isn’t able to become a passionate lover without your guidance.

Read this article if you want the man you love to become your passionate lover and soulmate.

Further Reading

If you enjoyed this article, you might also enjoy these internal and external sources that you can read if you want further insights and wants to make the man you love passionate about you.

External Resources

Murray, S. H., Milhausen, R. R., Graham, C. & Kuczynski, L. (2016). A Qualitative Exploration of Factors That Affect Sexual Desire Among Men Aged 30 to 65 in Long-Term Relationships. Journal of Sex Research, DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2016.1168352 

Terri D. Fisher, Zachary T. Moore, Mary-Jo Pittenger. Sex on the Brain?: An Examination of Frequency of Sexual Cognitions as a Function of Gender, Erotophilia, and Social Desirability. Journal of Sex Research, 2012; 49 (1): 69 DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2011.565429

Internal Resources

I mentioned some of the related articles on this blog above.

How to Catch a Man and Keep Him

When a Man Is Passionate About You

19 Sure Signs He Is Passionate About You

What Is the Hero Instinct?

How to Find Your Soulmate in 5 Easy Steps

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