The Biggest Mistake Guys Do Before Dating

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Common Mistakes Guys Do Before Dating

Let’s set one thing straight: We guys often think we need to show a girl that we are interested in her before we ask her.

If this ever happens, I am happy to share my insights with you.

We become so eager, and what happens? She turns us down, and we think: What just happened? Why didn’t it work out?

First, I will teach you three common mistakes men make, then I will provide a solution to all three, and finally, I will share my own experience of failure and what I did to turn things around.

We often think that we set up our dating for success, but it’s quite the opposite. I will discuss this in further detail below.

3 Common Mistakes That Will Ruin Your Chances of Success

There are a lot of mistakes that we men make, but I can tell you the most common ones are:

1. Eagerness. We become so eager and will tell a girl or woman we are interested in her. Either immediately on the first date or, more commonly, over the phone or text before we ask her out on a date.
2.  We often think ahead of things. Before they happen, we tend to play out how things should unfold in our minds. When they don’t become a reality, we become disappointed. We are jumping to Conclusions.
3. Clumsiness. When we jump to conclusions and are eager to show interest, we become clumsy and stumble on words. It’s a form of nervousness, but luckily there is a solution to all three mistakes.

Nervousness is the cause of all three, and it’s about insecurity.

But the real question we need to ask ourselves is: why are we insecure? The truth is that we are insecure because we aren’t sure of a woman’s intentions. Is she just making fun of us, or are her intentions real?

We aren’t nearly as good as women at interpreting the signals.

Women are trained and nearly obsessed with learning to interpret these signals from early childhood. We men are not.

These are just facts. When men become insecure, we tend to have long monologues, which are ruining our chances to succeed. Luckily, here’s the solution…

Whether we’re talking over the phone or texting her, this is where we get it all wrong.

Before I go into more detail on what you should do to get it right, I want you to know that you are not alone.

Every guy has made this mistake sometimes in his life. If you haven’t, you’re either a natural talent or never have asked a girl who you are romantically interested in out on a date.

The latter is more likely to be true if you have never experienced it.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I don’t want to startle you. Making mistakes is human, and it’s also how we learn and grow.

I would advise you to ask a girl and make mistakes if you have never done so! So that you can grow as a human being.

As promised, I will give you the solution to the three common mistakes…

The Solutions to The 3 Mistakes Mentioned Earlier

For simplicity, I will also put the solutions to every mistake I have mentioned above in a list. The answers to the three mistakes are:

1. Remain calm. Breathe in and breathe out. Try to think before you act. It is always easier to think about something thoroughly before you do it. Because once you’ve done it, there’s no going back!
2. Take it easy. Don’t rush things. It’s not a competition! If you run it, your chances for failure increase. You need to have a “poker face” when talking or texting a woman you’re interested in.
3. Don’t get nervous. I know it’s easier said than done, but if you remain calm and don’t think ahead of things, you will be able to control yourself and won’t get nervous.

Doing this will increase your chances of acceptance and get her out on a date.

However, if you want to stop having long monologues, you should do this too…

I can honestly tell you that I have made all three mistakes and kept doing them until I realized the simple solutions.

Most women don’t know that they startle us and make us nervous.

It was only then I went from a dating failure to becoming successful in asking a girl out on a date. It was effortless when I thought about it!

I realized I was not nervous; that is the most crucial lesson my dating experience has taught me and what I wanted to share with you today.

There you have it!

The three most common mistakes men make that stop us from asking a girl out and the solutions that increase the likelihood of getting her out on a date without monotonous speech or texts.

I hope you have enjoyed it, and I look forward to reading your comments.

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My next article will discuss when to tell a girl that you love her.

Have a great week,

Rickard