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Is there only one thing you must do to get your ex back? As a woman, I mean. April asked me.
Of course, there is more than one thing, but there is, of course, one thing that is more important to know if you want to be successful and get your ex back that carries a greater weight than the rest, I assured her.
It is a secret ingredient that will make your ex come crawling back to you.
April and I argued about this earlier this week for a while until we settled it with me agreeing that she was right that there was more than one thing but that all of them carry different weights.
She understood my point of view when I explained it to her.
It turned out that we actually agreed on everything important and that the disagreement was in the details.
So we finalized the quiz and published it, a bit late, on Wednesday this week, instead of Monday, as we originally planned. Still, the quiz actually became a lot better, a fact both of us immediately agreed on.
If you’re not interested in a quiz, you can read my article “How to win a guy back” instead.
We co-operated to construct the quiz because one of our guest bloggers is, indeed, a woman, and I am a man.
She gave me a lot of valuable insight into how women think about men and relationships, and I shared my experience and a male view of relationships with her. It was a mutual exchange of experiences.
It was a fun one, so let me share some other insights that both of us gained in this article.
Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Should you get your ex back at all?
Yes, it might not be a bad thing, actually.
Especially not if you experienced a recent breakup and you still have romantic feelings for one another.
Maybe all you really should do is to give him space and some alone time.
Because let’s face it: Sometimes it is because you have been together too much and all he really needed was some alone time.
As I have told women before, having time for oneself is important in every relationship. You do not need to spend every moment when you are awake together with your boyfriend. You really don’t.
If you do, there is a chance that you wear down each other and also a chance that he might think of you as needy.
Trust me on this. You do not want to make him think that you are needy.
What should you do instead?
Discover how to make your ex-boyfriend want you back
What to Say to Get Your Ex Back
I will reveal another general piece of advice that I have shared before on this blog as well.
There is a sequence of words that you must know to get your ex back. Of course, you should tell him that you still
Do that every time you talk to him so he will know this.
Because maybe he is still in love with you.
According to most Internet dating coaches, there is a system that is the best way to get your ex back, but I reveal that one as well in the newsletter that you subscribe to once you have taken the quiz.
I am sorry, but I can only reveal this to women who are serious about getting their ex-boyfriends back. I do hope you understand.
How do I know if you’re serious or not? This is how I know:
If you are serious about getting your ex back, you will take the quiz, right?
If you don’t take the quiz, you are not very serious about getting your ex-boyfriend back, and that is, of course, fine with me, but then you have made the deliberate choice to stay single and be all alone and miserable.
Your friends will wonder what is wrong with you.
I can tell you what they will think in their own minds but never tell you upfront. It is primarily these two questions:
Why can’t she keep any man she has been in a relationship with?
Is there something wrong with her?
These are the main questions that your friends will think about you.
If you do not want this to happen to you, that your friends will ask themselves these questions, you should really consider taking this quiz.
The reason why I know this is happening is that I overheard two of my female friends when they discussed the third woman, a mutual friend of theirs, and were gossiping about her inability to keep any man she has ever been in a relationship with.
Let’s call her Elaine, although this is not her real name.
She had been in a relationship with a muscular guy and a hard-working steelworker to people outside of the relationship. At the same time, he was very tender and romantic whenever he was with her.
Every one of her girlfriends thought that she was lucky and was as close as a modern fairytale romance.
All of a sudden, without any warning, the relationship ended.
It was the third relationship that Elaine had been into that year and the only one lasting any longer than a couple of dates.
So they thought that it was pretty strange that she couldn’t get him to stay.
Elaine took the quiz after I recommended it, and I am happy to inform you that she discovered the one thing she did wrong before and could get her ex-boyfriend back. They are now planning for marriage next year.
Discover the best way to get your ex back
What to Do to Get Your Boyfriend Back
If you want to get your boyfriend back, there are 3 things you must do:
- Don’t contact him even if he contacts you. I know this might seem contradictory to what you’re hoping for but trust me on this one. Let him know what he actually lost and then gradually start to make him crawl back to you.
- Regain your confidence. You should use the no contact period to regain your self-esteem and confidence. By showing him that you do not need him to be a strong, beautiful, and independent woman, you will make him realize what he is missing and this is actually something very sexy to most men.
- Get him back. After a while, open up and let him back into your life slowly but steady. Let him know that you do not accept him treating you the same way he did. Let him know that he must treat you even better because you are a precious and unique individual.
Discover the best way to get him back now.
So now you know what you must do to get your boyfriend back. Just imagine the smile on his face when he makes coffee for you in the morning, kissing and hugging you every morning you wake up next to him in bed.
If you want to take the quiz, here is the link to it.
Next Article
My next article will be published on the 4th of November 2018.
It will discuss the 4 stages of relationships.
Have a great weekend,
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