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In this article, I will share what every woman wants in a man.
As a man myself, I have always wondered about that, and I quite honestly think that most men want to know that since it will be helpful to all of us.
This article is written with my male readers in mind.
I finally had some time to sit down and interview two of my female friends and colleagues, so it isn’t very objective, but I also tried to do a little outreach, and below, I share my findings with you.
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To write this article, I reached out to a couple of female bloggers, and two of them, April D. Long and Melanie Adams, agreed to share their knowledge with us.
I will give a brief presentation of these two women if you don’t know them already.
If I have anything to say, you will read my comment after my name, Rickard, so you know it is a comment or a link to another article on this blog. FYI: All articles on this blog are free to read.
April D. Long has been writing as a guest blogger on this blog and others since 2016. She doesn’t have her blog since she is a single mom in her 40s working a full-time job.
However, she has done some guest blogging on this blog in the past.
Melanie Adams is a British woman who currently lives in Sweden with her family and has a blog that she has been running part-time since 2019, where she shares her knowledge with women.
She occasionally blogs on SirLoveALot.Com.
The Questions I Asked These Women About What Women Wants in Men
I’ve asked them these five questions:
- What do you find attractive, hot, and sexy in a man?
- Is there anything a man can do to turn you on?
- How exactly do you rank men? Do you have a scale like most men do, or what?
- What would your best advice be for a guy who wants to get a certain woman?
- What is it that every woman wants in a man?
They answered them, and I will list each of the questions below. If there are any other questions you would like to get an answer to, they have already told me that they would be happy to answer them in another roundup article like this one.
Ask your questions by leaving a comment below, and if it’s not on this blog already, there will be a follow-up article to this one that we will publish in the future.
1. What Do You Find Attractive, Hot, and Sexy in a Man?
April: I think that a guy is hot and attractive if he shows confidence and is interested in hearing what I have to say instead of ranting about his opinions and always assuming that I agree with him.
If he takes care of himself, arrives early on a date, his beard is either well-groomed or shaved off completely, smells nice, and doesn’t like he just had been in the sauna being all sweaty when he shows up for our date, that is what I think all women want, or maybe it’s just me.
Then, a nice rounded bottom, hehe, is something I make a man hot and sexy.
Melanie: I think that a man is sexy when he isn’t afraid of making a fool out of himself on a date and has some self-distance and doesn’t take himself too seriously all the time.
A man also needs to know his way around my body, certainly down-under if you catch my drift, and be able to make me feel desired and wanted whenever we are intimate.
If he doesn’t know that and is inexperienced, that is not sexy, just boring.
2. Is There Anything a Man Can Do to Turn You on?
April: Yes. Making me laugh and having a great time when we are together is excellent, and having a great time without being in the bedroom all the time is crucial. Think of some fun things to do.
A woman wants more than just sex, guys!
Melanie: If he knows how to treat me like a lady, turn me on, and take care of my needs before he satisfies his own needs, that is one of the two things I have always appreciated.
The other thing is if he says the right words.
A word from Rickard: If you want to know what words you should say to turn her on, you can read this article where I share that “secret” with you.
3. How Exactly Do You Rank Men? Do You Have a Scale Like Most Men Do, or What?
April: I don’t rank men and have never done so. I know most men do it, but we women don’t, at least according to my biased opinion.
Melanie: No. I don’t have a scale or ranking, and I don’t have a ranking method.
If he makes me feel right, and my intuition tells me that he’s right for me, then I follow that feeling.
It is more the way he makes me think of him, honestly than anything else. I don’t know any woman who does rank men.
4. What Would Your Best Advice Be For a Guy Who Wants to Get a Certain Woman?
April: I know it might sound old-fashioned to you, but try to be yourself. Don’t pretend you are someone you are not. We will see through that, and that is such a turn-off for all women.
Melanie: Be yourself, and don’t try to impress her by doing something that you will regret later. If you are honest about your intentions with her, she will appreciate that, and if she’s into you, she will become your next girlfriend. If not, go for the next one! There are many fishes in the sea, as the old saying goes, but it’s true.
Rickard: I hope you have found it valuable so far, but now let’s dive into the question that might be the reason why you ended up on this particular article in the first place.
5. What Is It That Every Woman Wants in a Man?
April: I think you can boil it down to five of the things you have covered so well on this blog, Rickard.
We want a man who respects us, is honest, has a great sense of humor, is attentive, and doesn’t betray our trust, which my ex-husband unfortunately did.
Here’s the man every woman wants, according to April. A man who is:
- Respectful
- Honest
- Fun
- Attentive
- Trustworthy
Melanie: I think that a man who cares about me is someone to lean towards when things are uncertain, is honest, attentive, and creates trust that he can handle any crisis, and is trustworthy is what every woman wants in a man, or at least the kind of man I wanted, and now have married.
According to Melanie, every woman wants a man who:
- Cares about her (and others close to him)
- Shows stability both mentally, and physically in times of crisis
- Is honest
- Creates trust that he can handle anything that life throws at him and his family
- Is trustworthy
If you want to know more about the things women want in a man, you can read this article where I share what I discovered after dating a couple of women a few years ago.
I hope you have found this information valuable.
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Happy dating!
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