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Do you know how to correctly identify when a man establishes an emotional connection with you?
If you just said “Yes,” this article is not for you.
However, if you just said “No,” you might want to take a minute and skim it through.
Here is the truth about building an emotional connection:
Most women want a passionate relationship with a man, a special and unique band that only the two of you are sharing.
But most women don’t know how to get it.
Because of this, you don’t know how to identify it, so you miss the signs when he develops that emotional connection.
You might be asking yourself: Is this something he wants?
What I am about to tell you might shock you, or it might be the biggest eye-opener you experience this year because the truth is:
He wants to establish an emotional connection with you.
Men are just as emotional beings as women, if not more but trust me when I tell you this: We are much better at hiding it.
It is a result of our conditioning and upbringing.
You seldom see men cry unless it’s related to sport, right?
Because if “his” team won the championship, he would get tears in his eyes, and then it’s seen as okay to cry but only around his peers.
That’s because we men are raised to think that it is unmanly to display our emotions publicly, so we become masters at hiding them instead, and we might even deny that we have them.
He might even deny his feelings for you in front of his friends.
Women, on the other hand, are encouraged to talk about and show emotions publicly.
It is a huge gender gap between the sexes.
Now you might ask yourself: What establishes an emotional connection with a man?
Since I have already covered it, I won’t repeat myself here.
But if you want to know when it happens, I will reveal it below…
How to Connect with a Man
First and foremost, you need to start at the right point to connect with a man.
You can do it in several different ways.
Because if you want to know how to connect with a man, you first have to acknowledge that you don’t know how to do it, right?
You might think that the same set of rules applies that satisfies you:
- Care
- Comfort
- Physical touch
- Stimulation conversations
- Support
It doesn’t!
Trust me. Men want different things than you want in a relationship.
I need to bring up another difference between the sexes to help you as much as possible.
Let me ask you a question: How often do you think about shopping in a day?
Be honest here for a while with yourself.
Why is that important, you might ask, and the answer is:
That’s how often you would think about sex if you were a man.
For this reason, sex and physical touch are two critical aspects of creating an emotional connection with a man.
Don’t just allow him to initiate sex.
For some strange reason, women rarely initiate sex but leave it to the man and even women who would consider themselves independent or feminists outside of the bedroom.
Pretty strange, isn’t it?
You might think that he doesn’t want you to initiate sex.
You’re dead wrong!
Most men will find it sexy if you are confident enough to initiate sex with him, and that’s the truth most men would never acknowledge but secretly hope for.
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Most women don’t know this unless they read my blog or are personally coached by me.
It is something I always start by asking women:
It is a little secret called conditioning. Do you appreciate and want to have an intimate relationship with a man?
Then I explain what you’ve just found out for free and address the deeper issue of why they don’t do it.
You, as a woman, are brought up to think that you should not think about sex and that it is up to the man to initiate any form of romantic activity.
This belief is just as destructive to your relationship as the stereotype that feminists prefer.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be intimate with your man.
Some of the things that you want, he wants just as much as you do.
He does want respect, that you take an interest in him and what he likes just as he should do with the things you like.
Never try to stop him in his tracks.
If he has an idea in his head, let him run through it and support him.
If he fails, don’t criticize him but be supportive of him.
In the next section, I will reveal the best system brought to my attention by April D. Long to build an emotional bonding with a man.
Emotional Bonding with a Man
I have discussed how you can connect with a man above, and now it is time to reveal what it takes to create emotional bonding with a man.
Since I’m a man myself, I am very aware of how to create an emotion within a man, but I am not an expert in creating an emotional bonding with a man.
However, since I discussed this with April D. Long, the woman who sometimes guest blogs here, she brought something to my attention.
It is a system that helps you with the emotional bonding with a man.
She revealed it to you herself when she discussed how to build a deeper emotional bond with your man.
If you want to know all the inner workings of creating an emotional bond with your man, or any man for that matter, I highly recommend that you take a moment and read her excellent article about it.
It is more helpful to you since she is a woman and I am not.
But does this work for men, or are the same basic principles you can use to build a bond between two people?
Emotional Bonding Between Two People
What creates emotional bonding between two people and not just with a man?
It is the shared experiences, right?
Besides all that I have covered above, there are more parts to building a bond between two people, no matter if you are of the opposite or the same sex.
One of the things that I have discussed before is a shared sense of humor.
Being able to laugh at the same things isn’t bad; that is how I started my relationship with my current girlfriend.
We both liked the same sitcom.
Sometimes, TV shows can be quite educational, and sometimes they aren’t.
Different topics and feelings for the same things build a bond between two humans, no matter if you love or hate them.
It creates a “we” without the necessity of defining other humans, individually or as a group, as “them.”
It is a very constructive and positive way of building a bond.
The same things work if you want to build a friendship with someone as well because that is how we humans create emotional bonds between one another.
We find some common ground and start to build a connection.
Next Article
My next article will discuss what an emotional affair is.
Have a great day,
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