When He Listens to You

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In this article, I will share the true meaning of what it actually means when he listens to you on a date.

There are, in fact, two of them, and one of them you can probably guess, or already knows about by experience since it isn’t that hard to figure out his selfish needs for listening to what you say.

However, there is one thing you can do to make him commit to you.

The other one, which is less obvious, and most women do not know about is very different.

As you probably realize, there are more to it than meets the eye.

Below, you will get both reasons why he is listening to you, as well as, the hidden signal you need to send to him when he shows that he can a ready to commit fully, wholly, and exclusively to you.

When He Listens to What You Say There Are Two Obvious Reasons

When a man listens to what you say, and you are out on a date, he does it for two obvious reasons.

  1. He wants to show you that he is a good listener, and appreciates your insights.
  2. He wants to be intimate with you quickly.

You might think that you understand both of them, but there are a lot more to it, which I will explain to you.

However, there is only one sure way to know which of the two he is thinking about even before he knows it himself, which I will explain to you after I covered the two reasons I listed above.

He Wants to Show You That He Is a Good Listener

When he listens to you, it can mean that he is doing his best to impress on you, by showing that he is a good listener.

The reason he does it is because he thinks it is important to you.

Now, ask yourself: Why on Earth would he want to listen to what I have to say?

Truthfully, you need to realize that he does it for two obvious reasons, which is that he already has a romantic interest in you and that he values your opinions, and views on different topics.

It also shows you a willingness to put your needs in front of his own.

Those are the things he wants to show you, instead of babbling about his own needs and desires, which are sure signs of immature men.

But, how can you know what he REALLY wants with you?

Will he just try to get you into the bedroom quickly, and have his way with you or is he really into you, and want a committed, exclusive relationship with you?

Is there a way to be sure of his true intentions with you?

Yes, there is, and I will share it with you after I have shared the second reason why he is listening to you, which I already have mentioned.

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He Wants to Be Intimate with You Quickly

Even if he is a true gentleman, and an honest guy, every man wants to be intimate with you.

However, some men are just too eager to become intimate with you quickly, which makes you feel used, and you might even think about yourself in decrementing ways.

These men DO NOT appreciate you for the unique, and wonderful woman you are.

Instead, of putting all the blame on you, you need to blame the person to which the blame actually belongs to, which is the guy.

These men are not worth keeping.

In fact, they are the cautionary tales among other men on how you should not treat another human being, let alone a woman who you claim to love.

One of the trademarks of these men is that he says “I love you” quickly.

He does it, because he believes that if he says the words you want to hear, he will be able to have his ways with you quickly, and that you will tolerate such a behaviour from him.

Some women do accept it, but most women will not, and should not encourage it.

A real man would treat you with the utmost respect, and NEVER do anything to you that will make you lose the respect you hold for him, or more importantly, yourself.

But, is there a way to be sure about his true intentions with you?

Maybe even before he knows what he wants with you, and what his true intentions are with your relationship?

Does he really love you? How can you tell, and is there a way to be sure about it?

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Look Out for the Subtle Signals He Is Sending Out to You Unconsciously

When he listens to you, and to what you have to say when you have a conversation, he is sending out subtle signals that he is completely unaware of.

Surely, you can get some information from his body language.

However, most women miss these signals since they are less obvious, and can not be faked, which body language can be.

The man who wants to be intimate with you quickly, is also the man who will leave you quickly.

That kind of a guy is not a keeper, now, is he?

But what if I told you that there is a quick way to learn these subtle signals that he is sending out to you unconsciously that he simply can’t fake, would you do it?

Once you know what to look for, he can’t fool you.

You will outsmart the man who wants intimacy with you quickly, before he leaves you, and moves on to the next woman.

You DO NOT deserve to be treated this way, right?

These men hate me since I am exposing them to women like you since I think that you deserve something better—both a better man and a better relationship.

Do you agree with me?

I recently got an email from my good friend Carlos Cavallo, who has made a video where he will show you how you can eliminate the risk and embarrassment you might experience if you don’t know his true intentions with you and misinterprets the subtle signals he is sending out to you unconsciously.

Would you like to know if he truly loves you or if he just wants to be intimate with you, and then move on to the next woman without ever talking with you again?

Watch this video now to get the subtle signals that he is sending out to you.*

When he listens to you, he can do it because he genuinely cares about you, and trust your opinions, thoughts, and ideas, or he might be a person who wants to sleep with you before he ruins another woman.

Most women, unfortunately think they can tell what a man wants by looking at his body language.

Even, if the body language makes up between 60-80% of the communication between humans, it does not reveal his true intentions to you, or why he listens to you because it can be faked.

These men spend a lot of money on pickup artists, or seduction experts to be able to trick you.

They learn that if he listens to you, and expose yourself emotionally to him, you are much more likely to engage in any activities that he suggests to you by using certain words to manipulate you.

If you want to be sure about what he wants with you, and your relationship, you deserve certainty, don’t you?

Watch this revealing video, and be sure of his true intentions with you now.*

If a true gentleman listens to you, there is no reason for you to second-guess yourself, or your intuition, since he has a genuine interest in you.

When he listens to you, you can not be certain of his true intentions with you.

That is, unless you know the subtle signals he sends out when he listens to you that make him willing to commit to you, and your relationship, and truly appreciates you as a woman.

Would you like to know his true intentions with you before even he is aware of them himself?

Then, watch Carlos’ video here and understand what his true intentions are when he listens to you.*

You deserve certainty, right?

I wish you an amazing day,

Rickard

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