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This blog post will discuss stereotypes and why we fall for them.
The typical stereotype for us men is the beautiful blond woman; for the ladies, it is the mysterious dark stranger.
So let us begin with the stereotypes.
The Stereotype For Women: The Dark Stranger
The stereotype for women is the “dark stranger,” as I call him. Let me explain what I mean and why women fall for this particular kind of man.
Imagine this, ladies: You are at a pool party, a restaurant, a dance parlor, or a cinema, and suddenly, you see this guy who is checking you out. He doesn’t say much; you feel flattered but a bit anxious too, thinking: Why is he not talking to me? Is he creepy, strange, or maybe just shy?
There you have him: The archetype of the man classified as “the dark stranger.”
One more thing can be added sometimes: He speaks with a different dialect which might be an advantage to him that makes his sex appeal even higher to women.
Women tend to fall for men who don’t speak much (good news for all men living north of the arctic circle, I guess, no matter which continent you live on) and are a bit firm and have a “tough” appearance but have some soft-spots as well.
The Stereotype For Men: The Blond Beauty
She walks with confidence. She looks at you with her long beautiful hair. She looks at you with those blue eyes. She knows she is beautiful and that every woman is in envy of her and that every man wants to be with her. She smiles and talks to everybody and loves all the attention she gets.
She is picky about a guy, but she knows what she wants.
There you have her: The archetype of the woman that is classified as “the blond beauty.”
Many men, especially in America and South Europe, think that blondes are the most attractive women. Trust me; I grew up with many of them since I live in Northern Europe, where most women are blond and blue-eyed beauties. She is, of course, also stupid (there are a lot of jokes about the silly blond girl, and she is, of course, easy, if you know what I mean). The truth to be told, they can be a pain in the ass.
An interesting fact I would like to share with you is that blue-eyed can also mean that the person is a bit naïve in Swedish.
However, I have to confess blond girls are NOT my type. Sorry to say these guys, but I prefer a woman with another look, but I will keep this to myself for now.
In Hollywood, many different actresses are blond and play on the apparent sex-appeal together with stupidity and falling for the wrong men. Many actresses fit this archetype, and I won’t list anyone here; you must figure out who I mean by yourself.
I don’t because I don’t like easy people, and I don’t like stupid people. So why do men fall for them? Because according to the archetype, they are “easy access” in the bedroom and many guys like this.
Conclusion
Men fall for easy women, while women fall for men that appear a bit mysterious and “tough but rock-solid.”
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on September the 26th, 2015.
It will change your relationship status on social media from single to married.
See you then,
Rickard
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