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Online Relationship Advice
In Today’s Article, Rickard Will Discuss The Need For Online Relationship Counseling and Also Offer SomeSimple Yet Powerful Tools That Most Singles Can Use For Themselves.
Of Course, You Might Need To See A Professional If You Need Real Help. The Tools I Write About In This ArticleCan and Shall Not Be Viewed As A Replacement For Professional Help.
If You Need It, Then You Should Seek Counseling Today.
Relationship Advice Online
Giving Relationship Advice Online Can Be A Really Daunting Task, Let Me Acknowledge That.
You Never Know What Will Happen, Will The Person Misinterpret (Deliberately or Not) The Advice
You Give or Will They Just Simply Not Follow Them? You Can Never Know Which Route They
Choose Or Why Someone Is Doing That Choice At That Precise Moment.
But Here Are 7 General Relationship Advice To Make It Work, Even If You Haven’t Met Each Other Yet:
Don’t Think That You Have Found Your Soulmate Just Yet
Many Singles, Men and Women Alike Are Absolute Convinced That The Next Person
They Will Find Online Is Their Soulmate. This Is A Trap That Many Singles Fall Into.
Why? Because They Are, If Not Desperate, At Least Eager To Find Their Soulmate Now.
My Advice Is: You Have To Meet In Real Life To Learn If You Are As Compatible In Real Life
As It Might Seem Online.
Otherwise, You Are Risking Your Health, Both The Spiritual and Psychological and Get Stuck
In A Behavior That Will Only Result In Heartache, Bitterness and You Might End Up Asking Yourself
If God Is Cruel Who Allows You To Suffer and God Is Not Cruel, He Is Love (1 John 4:10).
There Are Many Fishes In The Sea, Also Online
You Might Have Heard The Expression “There Are Many Fishes In The Sea”.
There Really Are, If This Person Wasn’t Right For You, Maybe The Next Could Be.
I Would Also Like To Add That There Are Many Different Dating Websites.
So If You Have Tried Your Luck On One Dating Website Before But Haven’t Found Love,
Maybe You Should Consider To Join A Different One Instead.
This Might Seem Contradictory To What I Wrote Before But What I Mean Is That You Need
To Move On But Not Before You Have Done Number 3 On This List.
Remember This: Simon and Andrew Were Fishermen Before They Followed The Lord But
Then He Made Them Fishers Of Men (Mark 1:16-17).
How Did He Make It Happen?
By Earning Their Trust, First By Allowing Them To Catch A Lot Of Fishes To Feed Their Families For The Day,
Later On, By Teaching Them His Word and Feeding Them and Everyone They Preached For In Eternity.
Heal First, Then Move On
This Is Such An Important Advice That I Do Not See On Any Other Relationship Blogs.
The Most Important Thing Is For You To Heal Your Heart and Soul First Before You Start
To Look or Chat With Someone Else.
If You Have Met In Real Life, You Might Need More Time To Heal Compared To
If The Relationship Have Just Been Online.
Time Will Heal All Wounds Eventually But Allow It To Take
The Time You Need. When You Feel Ready, Start Looking Again.
My Advice: Don’t Let Anybody Else Decide For You When It’s The Proper Time For You
To Start To Look Again. It Is Only You Who Can Decide This.
The Best Way To Look At Online Dating (According To Me)
Think Of Online Dating As A Time Saver. It Will Save You Literally Hours Of Both Time
and Money Since You Do Not Need To Go On A Lot Of Hopeless Dates (Blind Dates Especially)
With People Who You Do Not Have A Genuine Love Interest In and Who Might Not Be Interested In
You, Romantically Either.
If You Are A Man, You Might Feel That You Still Have To Pay For A Dinner Also, So That Is Where
You Could Spend The Money Elsewhere.
My Advice: Spend Your Money Wisely, Like On A Monthly Subscription On This Dating Website Instead
Of Going Out On A Lot Of Bad Dates. Click To Learn The Difference Between Good and Bad Dates.
Fear Not, Because God Is With You
God Says: “Fear Not For I Am With You” (Isaiah 41:1).
Many Christians Are Afraid Of Losing Their Special Relationship (AKA: Favor) With God If They Are Dating.
Why? Because In Dating There Are A Lot Of Things You Can Do That Isn’t Seen As Godly In Many Churches.
In Other Churches, They Do Not Have This View At All, On The Contrary. They Might Even Except People Who
Are Not Married, Have Children From A Previous Relationship and Are Dating Someone New. I Won’t Discuss
This Group Any Further, I Just Wanted You To Know That This Group Exists Too.
To My Fellow Sisters and Brothers In Christ Who Lives In Fear My Advice Would Be:
You Should Not Be Afraid Of Losing Favor Or Grace From God If You Decide To Date. You Can Draw The Line
Wherever You Want. You Do Not Need To Cross Any Line That Might Make You Feel Discomfort.
You Decide How Far You Will Go
God Has Given Us Reason and We Should Use It. In Dating As Well As In The Other Parts Of Our Lives.
You Are Free To Set Up Whatever Boundaries You Would Like When It Comes To Your Dating Life.
For Some Christians Kissing A Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Perfectly Fine and Others Might Even
Go Further While Yet Others Might Hesitate To Hold Each Other’s Hands.
Whatever You Do, Do Not Cross The Line You Have Made. It Won’t Affect Your Relationship With God,
It Will Only Hurt You. But Whatever You Do: Do Not Blame Someone Else If You Feel That You Have
Gone To Far. Let’s Keep It Real: You Have A Responsibility Yourself To Keep Your Commitment To God,
and Also Yourself To Keep The Boundaries That You Have Set Up For Yourself and Your Dating Life.
If You Feel Tempted To Do More Than You Think That You Signed Up For In The First Place,
My Advice Would Be: Don’t Do It. Let Me Ask You A Question: How Do You Fight Off Temptation Normally?
With Prayers? Then Pray. You Could Also Say To Your Date: I Would Really Like To Do More Things With You.
I Am Sorry, I Can’t Go Any Further Today. I Hope You Can Respect That Because Otherwise You Would Not
Respect Me.
To Explain The Reason Why You Won’t Go Any Further Isn’t Complicated, It’s Just Being Honest and Hoping
That Your Date Respects You and Won’t Try To Lead You Into Temptation.
Honesty, Respect, and Communication Will Get You Far In Every Relationship But…
As Always, Being Honest, Respecting Yourself and Your Date (The Other Way Around Is Necessary Too, Of Course)
As Well As Talking A Lot Will Help You and Your Date Develop An Understanding For Each Other’s Wishes and
Fears.
This Is Something You Need To Develop A Good Online Dating Relationship Between The Two Of You
But As I Wrote In The Beginning Of This Article: You Need To Meet Each Other Face To Face If Your Relationship
Ever Is Going To Be More Than An Online Relationship. In Last Week’s Article, I Discussed Just That.
There Are More Than The Things I Have Listed Above, Of Course. So, Let’s Discuss This Briefly As Well.
How To Make An Online Relationship Work
I Have Listed 3 Things Above That Is Really Important In All Relationships Both Online and Offline.
If You Want To Learn How To Make An Online Relationship Work, Here’s How To Do It!
Next Article
My Next Article Will Be Published On February the 11th, 2017.
It Will Discuss The Possibility Of Finding Love Online.
I Hope You Will Read That Article As Well!
Best Regards,
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