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In this blog post, I will connect the dots for you. The topic is, of course dating.
This is not the final post in this series (if you thought so).
To connect the dots of dating online and actually going on dates is not the hard part.
This is actually the easy part.
The hard part is to “translate” the things you’re doing online to the things you will do on an actual date.
Discover what I mean by reading the full version below…
Online Dating Is Where You As Well As Many Other Singles Begin…
The Only List You’ll Ever Need
There is only one list that you ever need to connect the dots, and here it is:
Online Dating = Actual Dating (a.k.a. Real Life Dating)
- Flirting (pushing a button) = Flirting (physical)
- Sending E-mails = Having long conversations with your date
- (Text) Chatting = Talking with your date
- Video chat = Showing up on a date and use body language.
To sum it up: Communication is what matters if you’re dating in real life or online!
Then there are, of course, the most important things:
- Honesty – you have, to be honest about who you are and what your intentions are, is it just a temporary relationship you are looking for, or is it a serious long-term relationship you want?
- Humour – sharing the same sense of humour can be something to build a relationship on.
- Faith – If you share the same (or similar) beliefs, your chances are higher for a long-term relationship.
- Trust – If you trust someone and feel comfortable and safe around your date, chances are higher for a lasting relationship.
- Respect – The golden rule is to show each other respect no matter which kind of relationship you’re looking for. Everything that I have written above is different aspects of this and respect is also an integral part of everything else listed above.
For your convenience I have put together the following information in a picture:
This picture is my own. You may copy it for your personal use ONLY!
There is, however, one more thing I have to share with you…
The Nasty Little Secret No One Will Tell You
Now you’re curious about the nasty little secret that no one will tell you about, right?
So without further ado, here it is:
If you want to be successful in your dating endeavours, it is only up to you if you’re going to be successful or not.
Sure, I can help you write your dating profile, select photos, and so on, but that is also everything I actually can do. The rest is up to you.
You should decide which kind of man or woman you want to date and then trying to find as many as you possibly can. In a way: Dating really is a numbers game.
However, you should also be aware that it doesn’t really mean everything. Because if you send out between 10-15 flirts each day to different people, chances are higher for you to find your love than if you send out 1-5 flirts each day.
So how about if you’re sending 20-25 or even 30-50 flirts each day? Are chances for success higher? Yes, it’s true but also your chances to fail. This is what no one writes about in the online community around dating today.
You will fail, I am sorry to say this, but even I have failed many times, but you’ll need to be stubborn and keep trying because eventually, you will have success. It has worked for me, so why shouldn’t it work for you?
That’s all for now!
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on Saturday the 24th of October 2015.
It will be about the most common mistakes people do on dating sites.
See you then,
Rickard
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