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As I have written before, a simple “Hi” is not a great conversation starter, even if you are dating someone.
You need to create conversation chemistry between you to build a successful relationship.
I know that women tend to focus on body language, and there is a good reason why they do so. Most of the communication we do as humans are through body language, so we actually “speak” without opening our mouths. It is the primary concern for women, handling men who send them unwanted invitations and questions.
On the other hand, men focus on boosting their confidence, making a woman smile (yes, this includes terrible jokes), behavior, and of course, asking her out, which are men’s primary concerns.
For men, I have written a whole article named “7 Best Texts to Send a Girl You Like,” which focuses on asking girls out on a date.
For women, I highly recommend that you read my article “How to Use Conversation to Attract Someone.”
- Try to be yourself.
- Tell your date a funny joke. Here are seven ideas for conversation starters:
- Allow both of you to listen and ask questions. By exchanging ideas and thoughts, you will be figuring out whether or not you should continue to date or not.
- Talk about mutual interests and things you have in common. If you meet me at work or in school, talk about that.
- Talk about something you have recently experienced, like watching a film, reading a book, etc.
- Ask your date about their opinion on recent events.
- Talk about your interests and hobbies. Don’t be afraid of being too nerdy; there is no such thing. Show your date that you have passion!
First Date Conversation
The first date is often a big issue for both men and women. While men can get quite nervous before the date starts, they are afraid of making a fool out of themselves and not being able to speak when they see the woman they are dating.
Women focus a lot on what to wear and how they look. They are also quite nervous about meeting someone for the first time.
Here are my five best ideas to make first date conversation run smoothly:
For men only: Make sure you compliment how she looks (even though you honestly don’t care).
For women only: Make sure that you give him time to ask you the question even though it might take a long time. If you show him patience, in the beginning, he will get confident, the conversation will become more natural, and he will gain speed.
You can read my article “45 Questions to Ask on a First Date” to get ideas on what questions you should ask. These questions work for both men and women.
Another great article you can read is “Tips on Dating,” which gives both men and women many tips to make the first date run smoothly.
I also recommend that you take a look at my articles “How to Get a Girlfriend” (men only) and “Get the Guy” (women only) to learn what you can do to get into a relationship.
Christian Dating Sites
If you haven’t read my article “The best Christian Pickup-Lines to Use,” you should.
On Christian dating sites and other Internet dating websites, you should start discussing what you want and expect from a potential future partner.
Great openers can be like the ones I discussed yesterday on this blog.
For men, I also recommend reading “Online Dating for Guys,” which provides an excellent overview of online dating.
Next Article
My next article will discuss why men and women get attracted to one another.
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