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The Reason Why Men Pull Away
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There are three main issues that a woman asks herself sometimes in her life:
Are men commitmentphobic?
Why do men pull away?
What are the reasons when men pull away?
These questions are widespread for most women, and I hope to give you some insights into the male psyche today.
After all, you will get it right from the source.
One of the most common reasons for a man to pull away from a woman is that he needs time to think about your relationship. It is not necessarily a bad thing.
It only turns sour if you are asking him why he is pulling away from you.
If you give him some space instead, he will eventually get back to you.
We men are afraid when we feel that we lose control of a situation. I can tell you that one of my previous relationships ended because I lacked authority.
I wouldn’t say I liked the feeling of not having control.
I was used to being in control of every situation in life, both privately and in my work life.
Trust is one of the most important feelings in a relationship.
If we lack trust, we lose faith and trust in the other person.
Sometimes it’s just you as a man who doesn’t want to lose control.
Love is scary for us men because you lose control and allow emotions to take over, and this is not something most men nor I am used to coping with or handle.
When you are outside of your comfort zone, you do feel uncomfortable.
That’s just human nature.
For me, though, I often end up over-analyzing every single situation.
It’s an occupational hazard that most men do not suffer.
But enough about me for now.
This article is a continuation of an old article that I wrote about a year ago to teach women a critical lesson about men.
If you want to read that article, I have put a link to it below:
Get more insight into why men pull away from women.
Relationship Advice: When He Pulls Away Give Him Space
As I already told you, you need to give him space.
If you don’t give him space, he will never commit to you.
It is the truth.
I understand that it can be frustrating since you have invested your time, energy, and emotions into this man.
But trust me on this: For men, it is pretty frustrating if you are in a relationship and the woman doesn’t allow you to do anything without her.
You feel like she’s choking you and that you need to run away to “breathe” and reclaim some “freedom” that he thought that he “lost” when he spent time with you.
For this reason, it is of the utmost importance that you allow him to be around his friends and cultivate his interests and hobbies on his own. It ultimately gives you time to do the same thing.
Trust me. The man you love will reward you handsomely if you do.
It would help if you showed him that you trust him.
Actions speak louder than words.
It is the primary key to a successful, long-lasting relationship.
Because when you show him that you trust him, he will come back to you, and when he does, he might be planning a surprise that you will love.
No matter how many times you tell a man that you trust him, it’s not until you show him that you trust him by giving him some space that he will get the message.
I hope that you now understand the importance of space and personal time.
Stop Men from Pulling Away
Another essential thing besides giving him space is giving him support.
When you support him, he might pull away from you for a while before returning to you with a desire to commit even more to your relationship.
He needs you to be his solid foundation, his “rock.”
Just remember that you can never force him or persuade him to be with you.
He has to come back to you by his own free will, and if you follow the tips that I share in this article, the chances are that he might do it.
Of course, I can’t guarantee that he will return to you, but most guys will.
It is a general rule of thumb.
In the meantime, you need to live your own life.
Don’t forget this!
In every relationship, personal space, which I have discussed in great detail above, matters the most.
It is, in fact, absolutely pivotal that you develop your own life.
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Trust me on this. If not, then the chances are that either one of you will get the impression that the other person in the relationship is clingy.
It is something that scares away men and women alike.
By showing him that you have confidence in him, he will feel connected to you like no other woman he’s ever been around.
I have discussed the importance of confidence and trust in relationships before.
It is trust and personal space that begins to build the connection between two human beings.
Remember what I used to say: Trust needs to be earned but can never be bought.
But there is one more thing you need to understand before building the connection you want with a man.
This video reveals the one thing, the piece of the puzzle that you’ve been missing.*
He needs to know that he can trust you, so listen to him and support him.
If you do this, he will reward you handsomely.
To answer the first question that I asked at the beginning of this article; Are men commitmentphobics? The answer is no.
Show him that you listen and support him, no matter what he wants to do, and take responsibility for yourself.
It will tell him unconsciously that you are a strong and independent woman.
I will now answer my second question; Why do men pull away?
The answer is that you do not show him any trust or give him personal space to grow and mature as a human being.
By growing separately as individuals, you can grow and mature together into a solid and happy couple in a healthy long-term relationship.
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Finally, I will answer my last question:
What are the reasons when men pull away?
As you have discovered, if you have read the entire article, it is a lack of trust and time to develop your interests.
Personal space and time are what builds a healthy relationship.
You are like a plant that needs to grow.
If you sow, it will help you grow before you can finally reap all the benefits and get a healthy, long-lasting relationship.
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But there is, of course, one more thing you need to know.
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Next Article
My next article will publish on the 27th of June 2018.
It will discuss the tell-tale signs of a narcissist.
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