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Attraction and Attitude Matters in Dating
How do attitude and attraction interplay in dating?
In this article, you will get the answer to a question that everybody is discussing yet no blog has ever discussed it.
Your attitude matters.
It is as simple as that.
The attitude you show to other people matters when you’re dating, and your date will get more information about you just by observing this.
If you are a man, you should be self-confident to attract women.
If you are a woman, you should also be self-confident to attract men.
Attraction is not only based on self-confidence, but it is a big part of it. In the articles above, you will find all the critical ingredients for attracting a man or a woman.
Your attitude can be viewed as your entire approach to dating.
Just as you need to decide what you want with your dating, which will affect your attitude towards this phenomenon, your mood also plays a vital role in your approach to dating.
Dating is, after all, an interaction between (adult) human beings.
[Tweet “Dating Is an Interaction Between Two Humans. – Dating Coach Rickard #quote #DatingTips #DatingAdvice “]
I will first discuss what attitude is and how it affects your dating. Finally, I will discuss the interplay between attraction and attitude.
What Is Attitude?
Attitude can best be described as how a person thinks about something based on this person’s own experiences or convictions.
This is my comprehensive definition of attitudes, and it’s pretty similar to the description you will find on Wikipedia.
According to that article, and as most of us would recognize, our attitudes are formatted by friends, family, society, language, tradition, and culture.
This aspect of dating has been discussed to some extent in some of my previous articles, such as the article about dating culture, which is also one of the most-read articles this month.
It is indisputable that your culture affects your dating and behavior.
For this reason, certain behaviors might be seen as odd, unacceptable, or acceptable depending on the society you belong to or are dating.
What is acceptable in one country might not be suitable or illegal in another. Dating is banned in some countries but accepted in most countries.
For most readers, dating is accepted as a way of finding a husband or a wife.
It is legal in the country where this blog is hosted.
This is just something I wanted to clarify and also use as an example to make my point clear for all readers.
Now I will shift my focus and focus on what attraction is.
What Is Attraction?
Attraction can be defined as two objects or persons who, based on natural, interpersonal, or emotional chemistry, join into a relationship with someone or something in a mutually beneficial relationship to both individuals.
I know this might sound boring but let me give you an example.
If we have two people, let’s call them Mike and Amanda, who like each other a lot, talk for a while, and discover that they share some common interests, like music and church, they might be attracted to one another.
Infatuation is often a temporary attraction, but if it remains unchanged for a specific time, it might develop into a romantic interest and, eventually, love.
You might also have heard about the law of attraction, which is very different from romantic interest but may help you attract a man or a woman, a fact, I discussed in a previous article on this blog.
If you are attracted to someone, it might cause you physical pain, especially if the person you are attracted to is not attracted to you.
The best kind of attraction is, of course, when the interest is mutual.
If you discover that it’s not mutual, move on.
I know it’s painful, but it’s better to move on with your life and not be stuck with someone who will never be attracted to you.
[Tweet “#DatingTips: It’s Better to Move on With Your Life If Someone Isn’t Attracted to You Than Be Stuck and Miserable. – Dating Coach Rickard #quote”]
How Attraction and Attitude Interplays With One Another
In the final part of this article, I will discuss how attraction and attitude interplay, as stated at the beginning of the article.
To be attractive to someone, you need to have a positive attitude.
Why?
Because positiveness draws attention to you, creates an interest in who you are, and will attract more people. You will also become more attractive to anyone who might develop a romantic interest in you.
On the other hand, negativeness does the opposite.
This is one of the reasons why humor creates attraction and is such an important thing to remember when you are dating.
A person who makes someone laugh or feel good about themselves is fun to be around and will make you relax and release endorphins in your brain.
No wonder this is one of the most essential things in dating and relationships.
Humor does make life easier and attracts people.
Another way where attitude creates attraction is your financial or economic attitude.
Are you counting how much money your date is spending on your dates?
If you do, stop immediately!
This is something you should never discuss. It’s a big no-no!
I am trying to tell you that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar or a big fish with the right bait.
Does this make sense to you?
A positive attitude attracts people. A negative attitude rejects people.
This is basically how you can summarize this entire article in one sentence.
[Tweet “A Positive Attracts People, A Negative Attitude Rejects People. – Dating Coach Rickard #quote #DatingAdvice #DatingTips”]
Next Article
My next article will discuss depression, anxiety, and how to overcome negative emotions.
Have a great day,
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