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In this blog post, I will share some of my most helpful dating tips and tricks for motivating yourself to date online.
This is a topic that I have never seen on other blogs but I do know for a fact that this is something everyone that has been dating online for quite some time will be hit by when you don’t get the result you are longing for.
So I thought I would share a couple of my own personal ways to deal with finding your motivation once you’ve got over the first euphoria after joining a dating site.
Before I begin I would just like to add that these dating advice are just as helpful for men as they are to women.
Finding Your Motivation For Online Dating
If you have been doing this for quite some time you might feel despaired and are lacking the motivation that first made you join that particular dating website.
Here are 3 great advice on how to find your motivation for online dating again:
1. Start thinking about the reasons why, how and what made you join that online dating website in the first place. If you have done it because someone else recommended you to do it ask yourself whether or not this is the right motivation factor for you.
If it worked for one or some of your friends then it might just work for you too. Ask them for some advice but just so you know it: They might not give you the entire process. Either because they want to hold you back and staying single or because they honestly don’t know how they became successful.
Don’t give up there are many people you can ask about it. Go to a forum or make a search on social media and ask someone how they found love.
Not everyone will give you a straight and honest answer so my best advice here is to contact a dating expert, a dating coach, a life coach, a priest or minister in your local church to get some help. These people are highly trained professionals who really can help you and they will give you very honest answers.
2. Do you find online dating boring?
If you find it boring or like a pressure that you have to visit your online dating profile each and every day, uploading more pictures of you or writing something new on your profile text then you will lack the motivation that you need in order to become a successful online dater.
My tips here is to do something fun, take a pause for a day or two, maybe even an entire week and do something you enjoy, maybe even spending time with friends or your own family member. Maybe catching up with someone you haven’t met for quite sometimes.
Internet dating is here to stay and you don’t have to worry about it that much. It’s healthy to stop doing your daily routine and change it a bit. You will discover something new. Maybe even taking a pause from your computer and all of your online activities might help you finding new motivation and enjoying online dating again.
3. No results.
If you don’t have got any results yet, it might be because you are picky or you have joined the wrong online dating website.
Make a list of the 3 to 5 things or personality traits you can never ever compromise about when it comes to love and then another list of the things you actually can make compromises on.
If you think you have joined the wrong one, there are other online dating websites. Sometimes bigger isn’t better, maybe you should try joining a dating site that is just for a certain group of people or a hobby.
The sky literally is the limit when it comes to online dating. Make a new search on Google, Yahoo or Bing or even try to go to a place where you can meet a lot of new and interesting people. Sometimes a change of scenery or a new place will give you new insights. The most important part is that you are in a place where you like to be and not hate.
Here Are My Tips On Finding Your Online Dating Motivation Again
As you’ve probably realized by now, I am recommending you to take a pause and breath in and then breath out and change the way you have done things up until today.
Just by changing the scenery or the place where you are dating might give you some more insights on what it is that you are really striving for.
The most important thing when you lack motivation is however to do something you enjoy even if it’s just hanging out with some of your closest friends or going to a new place where you have never been before and discovering new places as well as new people.
It can be on the other side of the world or the neighborhood next to the one where you currently live. By changing things around a bit and do things that you enjoy yourself, you will not only rediscover your motivation, you will also be a lot more fun to be around for everyone and that is something that your future partner will enjoy.
If nothing else helps there is a thing that always has helped me: Pray to God for help and guidance and He will answer you.
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Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on Wednesday the 13th of January 2016.
It will be about watching every online dating profile critically.
See you then,
Rickard
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