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If you want to know how to get women to approach you, this is the article you want to read.
It is better to let her approach you, especially if she smiles at you when she walks past you. That is a sure sign that she wants you.
If she touches you, that is her way of saying, “I like you.”
However, the chances are that you have scared her away the very second she laid eyes on you for the first time because you haven’t invited her into your life.
Here is what I discuss in this article:
- The reason why it happened and how you can change it immediatley
- 10 other ways to get women to approach you
- Plus the secret language that is the best way to get your crush to approach you today
Have a hot woman ever approached you and told you how much she wants you?
If that never happened to you, you need to read the entire article where I will reveal the little-known trick to make your cush want you as soon as she approaches you below.
The Real Reason Hot Women Never Approach You and How to Change It
One of my friends, let’s call him Dave, had a crush on a smoking hot blonde waitress that we can call Cindy.
They had been flirting in the distance for a while, but Dave wasn’t too sure that she was into him, and she made him feel really tense and jumpy whenever she was around him.
He couldn’t figure out why it happened.
One fateful day, Cindy was walking past him, didn’t respond to the usual flirting, and then she approached Brad, a bodybuilder with an IQ below that of a goldfish – and to Dave’s surprise, Brad and Cindy started to make out.
Dave didn’t know what he had done wrong and didn’t understand why Cindy had fallen for Brad.
He felt so embarrassed, depressed, and ashamed for not asking her out and started to blame himself for not encouraging Cindy when she was clearly into him.
A woman who had been watching them from a distance approached Dave.
She introduced herself as Kate, a relationship expert, who told Dave that she noticed that he had a toxic language that scared women away from him.
It made them run away from him rather than to him.
Dave objected to it and told her that he wasn’t badmouthing women or behaved like, well, Brad, who was notoriously known to mistreat women and call them names.
Then, she told him that it wasn’t what he said but what he didn’t say that was toxic.
It was a secret language that women are very skilled at “talking” that most men are clueless about, but that will help women approach you.
Kate told Dave that she would like to offer him coaching for free and teach him this secret language.
I will tell you that Dave was very skeptical that Kate would help him, and he hesitated for a while and started to reason with himself, and then he made a decision…
But now, I will share the ten best ways to get women to approach you.
10 Proven Ways to Get Women to Approach You
As I promised to you at the beginning of this article, I will now share 10 ways to get women to approach you, and all of them are proven to work on women.
You will soon discover that they focus on the most important person here, namely: YOU!
1. Dress Well and Keep Your Style
You must start to focus on two things to make her want to approach you right away:
Your looks and your scent.
If you have a beard, make sure that you keep it well-groomed and use some beard oil to make it shiny.
If you don’t like the idea of growing a beard, make sure you shave every day and remove your stubble since women don’t like to be close to you if you make them feel uncomfortable when the two of you make out.
Also, be aware of what you wear.
Wearing clothes that look like they are from the 1990s isn’t cool or nice, or showing up on a date with washed-out t-shirts, washed jeans, or clothes filled with holes.
Even if I’m not a fashion blogger, I have shared these tips on what you should wear to catch her attention.
If you don’t want to read that article, here is general advice that works on most dates that will work if you want her to approach you: Dress properly for the occasion, and make sure that you look your best and smell your best.
Have a shower and put on some eau de cologne after your shower to smell your best.
Women focus a lot on what they wear and your looks, so don’t look like you are coming directly from the coal mine but look as nice as you possibly can.
The best thing you can wear isn’t clothes, but I will discuss them later in this article.
2. Be Fit and Eat Healthily
Women are shallow creatures, so if you are slightly overweight, they will not consider you as a man they want to approach at all.
I am sorry to say that, but it is the truth.
The best way to avoid it from happening is to stay away from junk food and eat healthily. By doing so, you will feel better, look better, smell better, since your breath will improve, and have a higher chance of women approaching you than if you keep eating junk food.
All of the things that I shared with you in the last sentence are things women care about.
If you want her to approach you, these are the things that you need to consider, because otherwise, I am afraid that she will never approach you.
3. Focus on Emotional Control
Another turnoff for women is men that are too emotional.
You shouldn’t be afraid to show her some emotions, but showing her too much of that will scare her away, and that’s not what you want.
If you try to hide all your feelings from her, you will appear weird, which is another turnoff for women.
By showing some emotions, like smiling, you will look more attractive to her and increase the likelihood of approaching you.
4. Be Loud
I am not saying that you should scream when you talk with your buddies.
I am saying, though, that you should talk with a louder and deeper voice than you normally do since that will make you more approachable.
A deep, low-pitch voice is something most women find attractive.
5. Have Fun
It’s not just girls who want to have fun, but guys too!
If you do things you like and enjoy yourself, even if you’re hanging around your buddies, you will become more approachable since positive people who have a positive vibe naturally attract other people.
You want to be around people who have the ability to entertain themselves and enjoy life.
If you can crack a joke and make your friends laugh, you will draw attention to yourself, and it creates the image in her mind that you are a fun guy to hang out with, which is one way to become more approachable.
Try to avoid jokes about sensitive things like politics, for instance.
Otherwise, you risk scaring her away. If your jokes are insensitive, not politically correct, sexist, or outright racist, you will not become approachable to most women.
If you want some tips, you can read how humor can help you get you out on a date with your crush here.
I personally think that this is the best way to become more approachable, and it ties into the next thing I will discuss in this article.
6. Smile a Lot
When you have fun and enjoy yourself, you will smile.
A smile is the best thing you can wear since you will immediately become more attractive to women and pay close attention to them.
As I told you above, if you don’t show any emotions, you will look weird to her.
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7. Be Cool and Keep It Casual
To be approachable, don’t try to overthink or overcomplicate things.
Be as cool as you possibly can, but without playing it too cool, since you will be like Brad, the insensitive idiot I discussed earlier in this article, and I will soon get back to the end of the story.
I mean that you should enjoy the moment and be as relaxed and comfortable as you possibly can.
A woman will notice that you will be more attractive to her since you will be more approachable and send out positive vibes.
Avoid the usual pick-up lines that she heard before when she approaches you, and use these instead.
8. Eye Contact Matters
Another thing that women will pay close attention to is eye contact.
If you like her, look her in the eyes for a second, and then quickly start looking in the opposite direction since that will create an awareness in her that you want her to approach you and then wait for her.
I have used this myself, and it has never failed me.
If you notice that she is looking at you when you look the other way, keep waiting for a while, and then look at her, and you will probably notice that she will look the other way.
Of course, I can’t guarantee that it works, but it is one way to use the “secret language” that women love.
9. Social Media Cleansing
Before she approaches you, she will ask around and even ask some of your friends for your social media accounts to decide for herself whether you’re the right guy or not.
For that reason, I suggest that you do a bit of cleansing by deleting some stuff that might be controversial.
That video of a guy puking or peeing his pants at the party when he was drunk that you thought was so fun to share when it happened – delete it ASAP, or you will regret it.
Here are more tips on how you can sober up your social media profile and become more approachable.
10. Use the Wordless Language to Your Advantage
The best way to become approachable and avoid repelling women is to understand the wordless language that women already speak, but most men are clueless about.
In fact, if you know how to use it properly, it works on almost every woman on planet Earth.
Did you know that up to 90% of all communication between humans is done without using any words? It is, and that is, the language that every woman masters.
If you want to know more about this “secret language,” you can check out the video below.
Dave’s Decision – The Secret Language That Works on 90% of All Women
Dave decided to take Kate’s advice, and she informed him about the secret language that works on 90% of all women.
He even bought her course and started to use the things that she taught him to get Cindy’s attention.
After a while, he started to realize what Brad has done, and when Brad finally dumped Cindy, she was in a mess, and instead of hesitating, Dave used what he learned from Kate’s course.
Cindy approached him, gave him a hug and a kiss, and asked him out on a date.
The two dated for a while before Dave dumped Cindy to be with Svetlana, a hot blonde model from Russia, a wild beast in the bedroom.
He is happy today, and he owes it all to Kate.
If you want to be as happy and satisfied as Dave is, you should watch Kate’s video, which is an essential crash course to the secret language you need to master to get women to approach you.
Click here to watch Kate’s video now.*
Watching it is free, but if you decide to do what Dave did to get the in-depth training and purchase it, I will get a kickback from your purchase, but you don’t have to pay me anything extra.
The money I get will be reinvested in this blog and help me create more helpful content.
If you decide not to purchase Kate’s course, which is only available online, I still want to give you a piece of final advice before I wrap up this article:
Don’t let her do all the work, but ask her out ASAP when she approaches you.
When she approaches you, especially if she is hot, you need to act fast because otherwise, you risk losing her, which Dave almost did.
If you don’t want to risk losing her to an insensitive idiot like Brad, click here and watch Kate’s video.*
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I honestly hope you have learned a lot about getting women to approach you, especially if you don’t want to say a single word to her.
To your success,
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