Best Social Media Strategies for Dating

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Have you ever asked yourself: What are the best social media strategies for dating?

In this article, you will get my recommendations.

Let’s face the facts first.

We are all active on social media and this is a great thing but the real question you must ask yourself is:

How can I use social media to find love?

Note: I only mention Facebook here in the rest of my article because it is the largest social media network in the world. The strategies I am about to share with you works on any social media network out there.

With Facebook rolling out its new dating feature, it will forever change the dynamics of the online dating industry.

You might have read my “predictions” for 2019.

I know I have written this before and there is, of course, a reason why I am repeating myself here.

With more than 2 Billion users (!) Facebook is the largest social media platform in the entire world.

If Facebook were a country, it would be the largest country in the world.

This is great news for you if you’re single and are looking to find love online because you will have a lot of different people to meet, greet, date, and fall in love with.

People who are living all over the world.

One of the questions that you might be asking yourself is: How can I use this to my advantage?

The answer is one word: Leverage.

There is a chance that you might get overwhelmed when you think about all the opportunities but as you probably already have guessed, not all of those 2 billion users are single.

But it is still a great opportunity. Don’t get me wrong, because it truly is.

In the next part of this article, I will share some strategies. The first question that you need to ask yourself is:

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Here are a couple of general rules that I think every single online must ask themselves and answer truthfully…

Rules That Apply to Social Media and Online Dating

The rules that apply to social media and online dating are actually quite similar to one another.

First and foremost, you need a good picture. You can find my recommendation for a profile picture on social media here.

Secondly, you need a text that attracts the kind of person you want to attract.

Just a friendly word of advice: Be suspicious towards everybody but give them the benefit of the doubt.

I know that this might sound quite incongruous but it’s not.

On every social media platform today, there are real people as well as, unfortunately, scammers.

The more desperate you are, the more likely is that you attract scammers.

I am not a desperate person but I was still contacted by a scammer on one of the social media platforms that I am active on occasionally.

You can read my article How I almost got scammed on social media if you want to get more details about it and I highly recommend you to read it since this is a handbook in how scammers operate.

Now, you might think that you shouldn’t be picky.

My question is: It’s your life, so why shouldn’t you be picky? After all, you need to ask yourself: Would I rather spend your entire life with someone who makes me miserable or happy?

That is the reason why I am advising you to be picky!

Avoid Bad Grammar and Spelling.

Tools like Grammarly are helpful to correct your spelling and grammar errors whenever you write something.

I personally use this for my blogging but it helps me on social media too.

This is one way to avoid bad grammar and spelling that is helping me and a lot of other bloggers as well.

Because bad grammar and spelling turns people off.

Online dating and social media are no exception.

Make sure that you use proper spelling and grammar since this will attract a lot more people and according to my own experience, singles of higher quality.

General Rules for Social Media and Dating

Now, I will share some general rules for social media and dating.

Whenever you date people or are active on social media, some common courtesy and thoughtfulness will get you a long way.

I always follow two rules of thumb:

1. Don’t write anything on social media to another profile that you wouldn’t say to him or her in real life.
2. Think first before you type it out. Think about it again, read it all over again, and do the changes you need to do before you hit enter!

These are the two guidelines I live by and follow on social media.

I am also following them when I am dating online myself.

Don’t drink and drive or text is another general rule of thumb that I am following because if you do, you will probably regret it later.

If you had a few drinks, it’s better to get a taxi, the subway train, the bus, or the train or whatever means of public transportation that is available in your city.

Be relaxed and not aggressive.

This is literally like honey and flies: You attract more flies with honey than with vinagear, right?

You will attract more people with a positive and relaxed attitude than an aggressive and hostile attitude towards the people you meet online.

Also remember the rule of 7. Someone need to see your profile/picture at least 7 times before they reach out to you.

Set Your First Date Expectations Straight

As I discussed in the article Set up yourself for success, you need to set your expectations straight for the first date right from the beginning.

Here is another general rule of thumb that I live by:

You should neither underestimate nor overestimate the importance of the first date.

It is true that it is important and that you need to make a first impression that lasts but don’t expect to meet Mr. or Ms Right immediately.

Dating takes time and is a numbers game but it is also an experience game.

The more experience you have the faster you will receive the desired result and vice versa.

There is another thing that I would like to address as well.

Some of you who are reading this article might also experience what I like to call the unexpected side of dating.

The unexpected side of dating is when you change not only your expectations but also what kind of personality traits you are looking for in the other person.

I hope you have got a lot of value from this article. If you did, don’t forget to leave a comment below or share it with your friends on social media.

Before I end this article, I just want to mention that I do have two different systems, one for each gender, that you can start using today to either get guys or girls on Facebook today.

Check them out below…

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Next Article

My next article will be published on the 28th of January 2019.

It will discuss the concept of the alpha male.

Have a great day,

Rickard