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How to Make Him Fully Commit to You

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Hi! It’s April D. Long again, and as I promised you in one of the previous articles, I will share some proven techniques to make him fully commit to you.

Before I begin, I want to remind you that some of the links in this article are sponsored and that I will get monetary compensation if you purchase through them.

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You may also want to watch Felicity’s video to learn how to make your boyfriend want you more.

Below I will share some of the “golden nuggets” on how to do it.

It works on both boyfriends and spouses; trust me, I am living proof that these things do work!

How to Make Your Boyfriend Want You More

As we all know, men love when women talk dirty to them. Especially in committed relationships, this is one of the keys to long-term and successful relationships.

Giving him a blowjob can be used to spice up things between the two of you.

You can even use ambiguity to build sexual tension between you!

Say something like: “I think I am below you,” which will make him think that you said: “I want to blow you.”

Quite easy. This is a way of boosting his ego, but simultaneously, you are fulfilling his most intimate sexual desires.

As I wrote in a previous article, guys often watch porn, and they do think about sex a lot more than we do.

I have found this guide to be quite helpful, and it is a little miracle worker, I have to say, and I have only shared this with a few women, such as my friend Dana.

The most important thing when you talk dirty is that you need to be comfortable with your boyfriend or spouse.

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If you want to create a reaction in a guy you like, talk dirty to him!

A technique you can do now and then that will trigger his competitive drive is to tell him that he has competition.

They say, “A boy does not want to play with a new toy until another boy starts playing with it.”

This is true in relationships too.

If a man thinks he has no competition, you can forget that he will do anything to keep you. Still, as soon as he believes he has competition from another man, even if it’s only imaginary, he will start to work a lot harder to keep you and show that he still wants to be with you.

He might immerse himself and show interest in something he didn’t care about, even before.

Aaron didn’t commit to Tammy’s soccer, for instance, before the infidelity, but now, he will not miss out on one game unless he’s very ill.

Why?

I’ve told him that another parent, Alonso, a divorced single dad with two girls on the team and the assistant coach, has shown some romantic interest in me.

How to Get Him to Commit

Some guys are eager to commit, and some won’t save, no matter what you do.

Above I have given you great tips, and here are three more which will make even the most distant man committed to you:

  1. We were flirting with him. In committed relationships, we often forget that we must display that we are still attracted to the guy. Just as we don’t like other women flirting with him, the best way to avoid it is that you show interest in him. Flirting is essential to keep the spark in the relationship going.
  2. Play hard to get! Don’t just go down on your knees and give him a blowjob. Make him deserve it, and make him chase you! Show him that you are interested in him, so he can’t be mistaken about that but don’t give in too quickly, or he thinks you’re “easy.”
  3. Be an independent woman. Make sure he understands that you don’t need him to be happy. Otherwise, he will think that you are needy, which is one of the biggest reasons relationships ends.

If you want to learn more about getting him to commit, you should listen to Felicity Keys, who has many valid points on attracting even the most distant man.

Men sometimes pull away, and we don’t know why or if we have done something wrong. Being needy is undoubtedly one of them.

I am not finished yet. I still have two more things I would like to share with you.

How to Make Your Boyfriend Love You More

These two tips will make your boyfriend love you more, mainly if you use the other five tips that I have shared above:

Show him in a subtle way that you have improved his life. By showing that you are a valuable asset and addition to his life, he will undoubtedly commit to you.

Men are visual creatures, so you can do this by acting a bit cool and don’t respond immediately when he sends you an instant message or text.

Don’t ignore him but make him wait for a couple of minutes.

This will make his heart race and think about you and how good you are to him.

Make it count, and he will be yours forever!

The last tip I will share with you today is that in all your efforts to get the guy you want, you mustn’t forget yourself!

By making yourself look drop-dead gorgeous and thinking about what you’re eating and going to the gym, maybe adding some yoga for flexibility and going to the hairdresser, and maybe doing your nails and picking your eyebrows, you will become an even more amazing woman than you already are. Spend a couple of hours for yourself and focus on becoming the best version of yourself to get the guy you want.

If you want more tips, I strongly suggest listening to the suggestions Felicity shares with you in the video and learning how to make your boyfriend love you more.

Also, you should read my article Giving Him a Foretaste of Heaven too.

I hope you have enjoyed this article and that you enjoy my other articles too.

Sincerely,

April D. Long

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April D. Long

About the author: April Doris Long is a 36-year-old soccer mom who lives in Northbrook, Illinois, USA. She is the mother of two children and is married to Aaron, 41 since 2000. When she discovered that he was cheating on her with her best friend, she became devastated but was lucky enough that with the help of her friends and an amazing video save her relationship. April is a reader of ChiRhoDating.Com since 2013 and is passionate about cooking, soccer and weight loss. She writes on this blog to provide the readers with a female perspective on dating and relationships.

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