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Is he attracted to me, or is he just being nice?
That is the question many women, just like you are asking themselves, and in the full version of the article, that is completely free, I will list seven tell-tale signs to help you understand whether he’s into you, or not.
Since this is written by a man, as well as a dating coach, you would be surprised how many times women are asking me this very question.
So, I decided to spill all the beans and reveal EXACTLY what you need to do to attract the high-quality man that you always wanted, but never knew how to get until now.
In this article, you will discover:
- The body language that tells you if he likes you or just want to befriend you
- What a man really wants in a woman
- The very reason why he puts you in the friend zone, even if he has romantic feelings for you, and what you can do to become more than friends with him
If it sounds interesting, click below to get the entire article – for FREE, of course, and if you like it, please share it with other women as well.
The Signs That He Is Into You
As I revealed to you in the first part of this article, I will share seven sure signs that he is into you.
I understand how hard it is for you to determine whether he’s into you or not, because what I will reveal to you might come as a huge shocker to you, or you might already know it.
Men are even worse than women to know if she just want to befriend us, or whether she wants a romantic relationship with us.
As a man myself, I know this, based on my own experience.
So, I honestly understand exactly where you are right now, and what you are going through.
However, you’re better off than most women, since I will reveal all seven signs now.
1. He Makes Bad Jokes Just to Make You Laugh
When a guy is into you, he will do EVERYTHING to make you laugh.
Telling you a bad joke, or a stupid one, is something he will do just because he thinks that you will like him more when you laugh.
It is a strange idea, but most guys, associate laughing with love.
Sometimes, he might just be goofy, while other times he might actually love you.
It is probably the hardest of all the seven signs to help you determine whether he is into you, and want to be in a relationship with you, or whether he is just making you laugh to like him as a friend.
2. He Makes Excuses to Spend Time with You
A much more safe sign that he’s into you is if he makes up the silliest excuses to spend time with you and be with you.
No matter, if it’s watching a TV-show with you, or helping you out.
He might offer himself to help you change tires, have a stay-at-home night with you, eat snacks, and watch something that both of you will enjoy.
If he suggests that the two of you should watch a romantic comedy together then unless he’s your gay friend, he’s certainly into you and uses the movie as a subtle, yet clear way of showing his intentions with you.
3. He Gives You Bad Love Advice About Guys
If he gives you bad love advice about men in general, and particularly about guys you have a clear romantic interest in, it is probably more than jealousness in play.
He is probably into you more than you think.
The reason why he gives you bad love advice about guys is to eliminate what he thinks of as competition.
As a man myself, I can tell you that it is true.
We men have a competitive drive that is activated when the woman we have a romantic interest in expresses her romantic interest for another guy.
Then we see him as a competitor, and starts to compete with him.
But, what can you do about it?
If you don’t think that the two of you will make a great couple, then you might not want to spend time with him any longer, since he is clearly into you.
If you want to give it a go, you can use the “Campfire Effect” that was discussed in my article How to Captivate a Man.
4. He Avoids Mentioning Other Women in Front of You
If he does speak about other women, then it is a sure sign that he doesn’t have romantic feelings for you.
However, if he is very cautious, and doesn’t mention other women at all when he talks to you, or are in front of you, he has a clear romantic interest in you.
Once again, it’s his competitive drive that speaks loud and clear.
Just as he would give you bad love advice about other men to eliminate any competition, he would also be very cautious to avoid mentioning women when he talks to you.
Why does he do it and act like this?
He does it, to avoid raising suspicion in you, as well as to stop you from being jealous at other women, and don’t feel that you are competing for his attention.
By doing so, he hopes that you will realise that he sees you as “the one” for him, as “his woman”, so to say.
5. He Listens to Everything You Say and Memorize It
When the two of you are having a conversation, and he all of a sudden, repeats something you said a while back exactly how you said it, you can be almost certain that he has a clear romantic interest in you.
Also, note how he behaves when you are in a conversation with him.
If he doesn’t talk, and interrupt you to give you feedback, or advice, but is listening to every single word that you are saying, he is into you.
That is a clear sign that he’s into you.
6. His Body-Language Is Quite Revealing
Another thing about men that you need to be aware of is that we can’t hide our feelings for a woman we are attracted to and that we are terrible at it.
Surely, we can hide our true feelings by avoiding mentioning them, telling lies that contradicts how we actually feel, and treat the woman we love badly, just because we don’t want to acknowledge our true feelings for you.
However, there is one thing that will reveal how we actually feel for you.
It is our body language, and for that very reason, you need to be watching the body language of the man you love quite closely.
Here are a couple of signs that he is in love with you.
7. He Will Treat You with Respect and Stand Up for You
If another man, or a friend of yours, is bashing at you, he will defend you, and stand up for you.
It is the modern way of being your champion.
Even if it might just be his way of being a good friend of yours, if he also treats you respectfully every time you are spending time together, he probably wants the two of you to become more than just friends.
But, this raises an alarming question.
Why doesn’t he told you that he has a romantic interest in you and that he wants to be your boyfriend in the first place?
I will answer that question next.
The Reason He Put You in “the Friend Zone” in the First Place
The simple reason he put you in the friend zone is that he isn’t sure of his own emotions and that he is not certain whether you have the same emotions for him, as he has for you.
If he find you attractive, and “hot”, he is certain that all other guys who you are around thinks of you in the same way.
He might also think that he isn’t qualified enough to be with you.
If he is a bit shy, nerdy, or awkward, he will have degrading thoughts about himself and think about all the reasons why the two of you aren’t a good fit for each other.
It can be for any reason.
Even reasons that are completely bogus, and made up in his mind because he lacks confidence in himself, as well as self-esteem.
So, what can you do about it?
The solution to make him attracted to you is fortunately, very easy, which I will cover before I summarize this article.
How You Can Get Out of the “Friend Zone” in the next 5 Minutes
As I mentioned above, the “Campfire Effect” can help you get out of the friend zone with him quickly, if you want a relationship with him.
The reasons why he puts you in the friend zone in the first place was covered in the last section of this article, and for this reason, I won’t repeat it again.
The “Campfire Effect” is the hidden spark within you.
If you want to ignite it and get the relationship with the high-quality man that you deserve, and who will appreciate you for the strong, independent woman you are, there is one advice I want to give you now…
Summary
What are the tell-tale signs that he’s attracted to you and not want to be friends with you?
As, I covered above, it all boils down to seven signs:
- He makes bad jokes to make you laugh
- He makes excuses to spend time with you
- He gives you bad love advice about other men
- He avoids mentioning other women when he talks with you
- He memorizes everything you say
- His body language shows his true feelings for you
- He treats you with respect, and defend you when necessary
If you notice all the signs that I listed above, there are two things you can do about it depending on your own feelings for this man.
If you’re not into him, then you might want to stop spending time with him for a while.
To make things cool down a bit between the two of you, you might even have to tell him that you don’t have those kinds of emotions for him that he does for you.
However, if you have the same emotions for him, then there is one thing that I would advise you to do right now.
Watch this video, and ignite the love-spark between the two of you now.*
I hope this has made things a bit more clear for you.
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