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What Is Speed Dating?
Previously, I have discussed both online dating and offline dating (or dating in real life, as I more commonly refer to). There is, however, the third way of dating which is speed dating that I haven’t discussed previously.
So first, I will define what it is, then discuss if it is possible to do online and lastly share some tips and ideas.
First of all: What is speed dating?
Speed dating is simply put when you date a lot of people in a short time frame at one location.
Honestly, I can’t tell you if this is for you or not. It is up to you to make that decision. There are benefits and there are downsides to this kind of dating, to be truthful.
I will discuss this in much more detail below and share some valuable tips with you later on in this article.
But for now, just let me say that since dating is a numbers game, speed dating can help you find someone to date faster and more efficiently than when you’re dating one person at a time.
The Possibility to Take Your Speed Dating Online
As you can conclude from the information above, speed dating is all about meeting many singles in one physical location.
One question I asked myself was: Can I do it online?
The answer to that particular question is: Yes! There is a real possibility that you can take speed dating online and it is achievable through video chat. This is the best way to speed dating online.
I do not like speed dating personally because I find it stressful.
You barely get to know someone and it’s hard to find out if there’s a “connection” between the two of you. Needless to say, this is my own personal experience and I only tried it once.
I am pleased to share my three best tips that I learned from this experience.
I will also share some best practices for speed dating and some ideas for the speed dating night which will premiere in 2018.
My 3 Best Speed Dating Tips
As promised above, I will now share my 3 best speed dating tips with all readers on Chi Rho Dating. No matter if you’re reading this to get ideas for speed dating night on the website or just general speed dating ideas, here they are:
- Don’t Set Your Expectations Too High. You will only have a limited amount of time to get a “feeling” for who that other person is. Since first impressions always matter make sure to make an impact immediately and trust your gut.
- Make Every Second Count. In speed dating, you only have three seconds to make an impact. Ask questions and be curious about that person. You will only spend 3-5 minutes on a speed date, so you can get some inspiration from the 5 questions to ask on a first date article on this blog.
- Try to Be Yourself As Much As Possible. Speed Dating is stressful, at least that’s my own experience of it. You have to be polite, relaxed and to be as close to your true self as possible to get the most out of the experience.
These tips are also my best ideas or best practices for speed dating. Another tip I would like to share with you, that is obvious but you need to remind yourself of sometimes is: Don’t forget to breathe.
I wish you the best of luck on your speed date night!
Next Article
My next article will be published on the 18th of November 2017.
It will discuss 3 key ingredients to make a relationship last for life.
Have a great week,
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