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Looking Fantastic? It’s Not What He Wants! This Is…

Hi, it’s April D. Long here again, and in today’s article, I will share a hidden naughty little secret about men.

If you have read my article about how to connect with your spouse on this blog, you will already know something about what I will discuss in this article but in much more explicit detail.

Before I begin, I want to remind you that some of the links in this article are sponsored and that I will get monetary compensation if you purchase through them.

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Let’s face it: We have all dreamt about our wedding and how prince charming would propose to us, begging us on his knee with a beautiful bouquet to become his forever.

The only woman he adores and worships, and he can’t live without remorse.

Okay, this might have been our childhood dream, and we all know that it is not how things work in reality.

As women, we put a lot of thinking and effort into what to wear, how to look, how we behave in public, and when we are on a date.

We strongly believe that this is what attracts a man.*

Conversely, men are taught from early childhood to be “tough” and not display any emotions, especially not in traditional labor jobs.

Even if your man work at an office, he still knows that he has to “suck it up” and be tough and brave, the rock you can lean on, no matter how challenging your current situation is.

Emotions are pretty often labeled as “female,” “gay,” or “signs of weakness” among men.

In other words: Not a manly concern but a female one.

Knowing how your man thinks and what he expects of you is essential.

Something else he expects is not what you expect.

Some men love to watch porn, and in those movies, the women talk dirty to men and speak seductively and disgustingly to most of us.

What Attracts a Man

A man is not a woman, and vice versa.

It is a fact we all know as well as the fact that boys and girls are treated differently by society.

I will explain why society does this intentionally.

Since early childhood, we learn different things because our society expects other stuff from us.

You unintentionally treat boys and girls very differently.

While boys/men are taught to be tough and not show emotions, girls/women are taught to show emotions and display them publicly, right?

Men should watch sports; women should be interested in fashion.

I could continue to write a list for hours that would yet be incomplete.

So, since men watch porn, which I consider infidelity, they want women to talk to them like they do in those movies.

Isn’t that disgusting?

We are taught to behave well, dress appropriately, and wear makeup to attract the man we want.

That is what society expects from us, right?

Makeup is excellent since it highlights our most attractive assets, especially the mouth, the eyes, and the entire face.

Men, on the other hand, do not care a bit about that at all!

They only look at our bums and breasts and want to get us naked and in bed ASAP.

A man’s dream of a romantic evening seems to be pizza and porn.

How we dress or how much time we used to put on makeup is nothing they even think about!

To get the man we want, we need to learn to talk dirty too.

I didn’t think so, but my friend Felicity has proven me wrong.

This is what he truly desires and the emotion you need to fulfill to connect with him on a deeper level.

What Attracts a Man to a Woman the Most?

Men love women who smile, but this only comes second to sexual chemistry, according to a survey presented by YourTango about what initially attracts a man to a woman.

However, the same study revealed that the essential trait for long-term attraction is kindness and not shallow things like body type.

Sex only comes in fourth place!

Listen to Felicity’s story and learn how to be attractive to men.

I only wished I had discovered this sooner, before Aaron’s infidelity.

It betrayed me, our family, and our marital vows.

To keep a man in a relationship or to catch a guy, if you’re single, you need to learn what men want in a woman.

As the survey revealed to us, it is, in fact, not sex but the intimacy that a man wants in a relationship with a woman.

How to Be Attractive to Men

I want to provide you with a little checklist that will make you more attractive to men and that I wish someone else would share with me when I was younger.

This checklist works for women of all ages and from all walks of life:

• Be a good listener. Listen to what he says, but don’t be afraid of interrupting and asking him questions.
• Be in the moment. Like the previous one, you need to be asking questions is a great way to ensure that you are in the moment and not thinking about the future of this relationship or even about past relationships that failed.
• Be confident. Confidence attracts men like a flower attracts bees. Men love confident women, not because they are cocky but because they have this “glow” around them that men find highly attractive.
• Sharing your passions and interests is a great way to show that you have a life of your own and that you are not needy. I think Rickard, the dating coach of this blog, has written one of the best articles about that. Volunteering or doing some charity work is an excellent way of showing him that there are other things in life you care about than yourself.
• Honesty is attractive to men. Remember that if you lie about things, you have to remember them. Maintaining lies is complex, and the truth tends always to reveal itself, which will hurt him, even if he won’t say it straight to you.
• Be yourself, and don’t change for any reason whatsoever! Probably the best advice on this checklist. No man is worth changing for, whether good to you or just average looking.
• Wear makeup and dress nicely when dating, but remember that it is not what guys want in a woman. If you want to be a bit naughty and “spy” on what men do to be attractive to women, this blog offers that possibility too.

I hope you can keep this secret, but that is the only reason I asked to become a guest blogger on this blog. It is great for learning what guys want in a woman. Sometimes I even send links to my male friends to articles I have discovered on this blog so that they can share them with their buddies.

Here are a few tips from Felicity on how to be attractive to men, which I strongly recommend.*

Before I end this article, I just wanted to share a few secrets that most women do not know but wish they knew that make a man commit to you thoroughly and wholeheartedly.

Sincerely,