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In this article, I decided to share some insights that I have gained in the most common mistakes men do in dating.
I have discovered that this is something we men don’t like to talk about, but as a male dating coach myself, I do know that it is through the mistakes you make that will eventually help you to become successful.
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I have written about this before, and there will be links to those articles in this article for those who want to get more details about the specifics.
This article is structured to treat the mistakes in three steps:
- Mistakes Men Do Before The Date
- Mistakes Men Do on The Date
- Mistakes Men Do After The Date
I wanted to share the outline with you, so you can immediately go to the section that is most interesting and current to your own situation.
As always, you are more than welcome to read the whole article.
It doesn’t matter if it is the first, second or umpteen date you are going on, sometimes you screw things up.
I hope that by sharing these mistakes with you, you will discover the simple method to avoid doing them, a little thing I like to refer to as Preparation.
In each section, you will get actionable tips on how to avoid these mistakes.
Dating Mistakes Men Make Before The Date
When we are meeting a girl that we think might become our next girlfriend, we make some mistakes.
Let’s begin with how we approach her: We might try a sleazy pickup line.
The first mistake we do by acting on a whim rather than facts, is, of course, to assume that she is single as soon as we spot her.
Luckily, there is a simple way to do avoid this mistake (and a sneaky, kind of creepy way too): Ask her.
No matter how she responds to your question, be upfront with the fact that you think she looks nice and that you would ask her out on a date.
Remember: Everybody likes honesty.
Honesty is one of the cornerstones of dating and relationships as well as an integral part of my HIT-formula.
If you don’t want to ask her, there is a creepy way to discover it yourself: Look at her Facebook-profile but don’t ask her to be your friend. I told you it was creepy, didn’t I?
If she doesn’t have a boyfriend, you might ask her for her phone number.
I don’t mean her landline, I’m thinking of her smartphone!
Remember: The most common relationship a girl has today is the one on her phone. Some girls even confess that they couldn’t live without their phone!
Most singles today have their whole life on their smartphones and girls are no exception to this rule.
Get the 10 most common texting mistakes guys do and how to avoid them.
Don’t just come up with a lame text, I know it’s intimidating, but if you should have any chance of getting her out on a date, you need to ask her out.
Yes, it might be a bit outside of your comfort zone. It’s okay!
According to my own experience, the first text message you send is always the most nerve-wracking.
First, you start thinking about what you should do if she doesn’t respond, and then you start thinking about what to say when she responds!
Discover the best first texts to send to a girl to get her out on a date.
However, if you met her online, there is a much better way to do it:
Start chatting with her and ask her.
If it is on an online dating website, you meet her, read her profile before you initiate any contact.
Remember to upload a nice photo of yourself as well as a little description of you in your own profile. If she finds you interesting, she wants to get some information about you to figure out if she wants to contact you or not.
Discover the 5 dating mistakes guys make online (and how to avoid them).
These early dating mistakes are costly.
They will no doubt break your chances with that girl unless you know EXACTLY what you must do to repair them.
The best way is, of course, not to make them.
But sometimes they happen and then it’s good to refresh your memory.
Discover how to avoid the most common mistakes guys make in online dating.
It is, however, essential that you get the courage and ask her out on a date because the biggest mistake you can make as a man is not to ask her out at all!
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There are more than this mistake men make though.
Although the tomorrow-syndrome as I like to refer to it is the cause that stops so many guys from going out on dates, that is just one mistake.
Discover how you can avoid all dating mistakes guys make before the date.
Dating Mistakes Men Make on The Date
Don’t get me wrong. I don’t talk about these mistakes to nag.
The truth is that I believe that dating mistakes are in fact, valuable lessons.
Because let’s face it: This is how we actually discover things about ourselves as well as other human beings, and especially, girls.
Now, I do know that I have discussed things what can go wrong before the date.
There are so many things you can screw up when you are on a date with a girl, but most of them are quite easy to fix.
If you are, say, a bit late to your date, call her or text her to tell her that you are late.
This is honest and also polite and girls like politeness too.
She will like you more if you do this than if you come up with some lame excuse, so my advice is to be polite and honest at all times.
Discover the top 3 mistakes guys make on a first date.
Dating Mistakes Men Make After The Date
After the date, some guys do make mistakes as well.
One of the most common ones is that we don’t text or call her.
Luckily, these are easily fixed!
All you need to do is to call her and don’t be afraid of asking her if she enjoyed the date and if she would consider to go out on another one.
If you have forgotten to ask her out on next date, do so now.
Remember always to follow the checklist between your dates.
If you’re new to this blog, you might not have come across this checklist before.
Don’t worry. You will find it in this article too.
It contains some of the best practices and actionable tips to help you evaluate your experience, discover the mistakes you might have made and become even better at avoiding the mistakes and get the success you deserve in your dating life!
Discover The Checklist You Should Always Follow Between Dates
Next Article
My next article will be published on Monday the 5th of March 2018.
It will discuss how women can get a relationship filled with intimacy.
My next article for men will be published on Saturday the 12th of March 2018.
It will discuss the pros and cons of the wingman method.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION TO MY MALE READERS:
In March 2018, I will publish dating tips for men on Saturdays and dating tips for women will be published on Mondays.
Have an awesome weekend, “talk” soon,
Rickard
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