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Introduction
In this blog post I will talk about something that might seem strange to most people but in dating it’s sometimes the odd things that will help you find “the one” for you.
This post will be about leaving your comfort zone, why and when you should consider to do it.
As with all advice, the ones I’m giving in this blog post is just general advice and they might or might not work for you in the situation you currently is in and there might be circumstances that are different to the condition I am describing that might affect the outcome of your results.
You are always welcome to give me some input if it helped you or if it didn’t help you.
Read more below…
Why You Might Want To Be Moving Out Of The Comfort Zone
There are a lot of reasons why you might want to be stepping out of your comfort zone.
Since you probably haven’t been successful when you’ve tried dating within your comfort zone, there might be something you need to change to find the love of your life.
Even the smallest tweak to your entire approach to dating might change your luck.
Do you remember the list that I’ve talked about a couple of months ago?
If not, you can read the previous article here.
It’s time to have another look at it.
What has changed during the last couple of months?
Have you encountered problems when you’ve followed it?
Have you followed it thoroughly or not?
All these questions will help you get to an answer.
Maybe there are some of the things that you wished for in an ideal partner that just wasn’t able to fulfil or maybe you’ve looked in the wrong place.
No matter which answers you will get it’s important, to be honest with yourself.
This is crucial if you’re going to find love, online or offline don’t matter.
When You Should Be Stepping Out Of The Comfort Zone
You should consider stepping out of your comfort zone by just change one of those details or personality traits that you could think about compromising with.
It might be a real game changer for you but I, of course, don’t know which one it is.
There is one part of dating known as the “trial-and-error” phase that all singles need to go through but the list you’ve made once is there to help you minimize this phase so that you won’t get stuck there forever or at least for a very long time.
I had one client who did change one tiny, seemingly minor thing: How often he approached the woman he contacted through social media and it helped him find his love.
He is now married with two children.
All he did was going through the list and changing his method of approach.
Instead of sending her a dozen messages and a couple of emails each day, he stopped contacting her each and every day and just every once and awhile (still two-three times a week).
It wasn’t that he became the stereotype of the “mysterious dark stranger” that women love.
No, it was because both could talk when they had the time and got to know each other a lot better.
The discussions were actually deeper and they had more and more topics to talk about.
When he changed that small detail, it helped him to achieve success.
I just wanted to mention this as an example so you see that it actually works and I also hope that you have found this article to be quite helpful.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published in April, 2nd 2016.
It will be about being true to yourself.
See you then,
Rickard
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