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Introduction
In this blog post, I will cover one of the most common factors to why people are not being successful in online dating.
I have recognized a certain behavioural pattern in these people’s mindset that seems to be a common factor and I am quite surprised that no one else has discovered it.
Read more and find out what you should do…
Why People Postpone When They Are Dating
When people are afraid or don’t feel comfortable about doing certain things they postpone things.
In fact, it’s often outside of your comfort zone that good things happen.
People tend to have limiting beliefs.
Especially men seem to have a plentitude of them.
They are thinking to themselves:
Maybe, I do this tomorrow; just maybe I will be more successful then.
This is, in fact, a well-known mechanism in the human mind called defence mechanisms.
They are of course quite afraid of making things happen, especially if it is uncharted territory like going on a first date with someone you barely know.
For this reason, the best way to deal with your insecurity issues is to ask yourself if you’re happy with your life.
If you say yes to this, you can be either one of these types of humans:
You might just be honest and this is actually a good thing or
You might just be postponing things since you are a creature of habit and are quite comfortable about how things are right now in your life and you want to wait and hope for the best to happen, maybe your love will knock on the door tomorrow.
Maybe he or she will but the odds are, quite slim that they are going to happen, to be honest with you.
The best thing to do is to take the actionable steps right here and right now so those good things may happen to you in the foreseeable future.
How To Avoid Postponing Things When You’re Dating
When you’re dating you shouldn’t postpone things.
So how should you avoid it?
Well, why don’t ask yourself or remind yourself of what it is that you want to do, you want a relationship and then you need to do certain things to make them happen.
We should pray to God, as Christians and ask for His divine guidance in our lives.
This is the most important and essential part of us and also what separates us from the others, “the world” or the “slaves of the flesh”, gentiles, pagans or whatever term you prefer to use for them.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on Wednesday the 2nd of March 2016.
It will be a review of a new ebook that I’ve just found out about.
See you then,
Rickard
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