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Hi! April D. Long here and in this article I will discuss whether a woman should ask a man out on a date or not.

Girls Asking Guys Out

It is about time that I finally write this article. It took me almost 37 years to do so and this might be controversial to some blog readers.

I just want to caution you before you continue to read this article.

Is it okay for girls asking guys out on dates?

Of course, it is, who are you trying to kid?

It is 2018 so guys need to accept the fact that we women are independent and don’t want to wait for them to get the “courage” to ask us out on dates.

If you are a woman, why should you not ask a guy out on a date?

I have to tell you, it’s all society’s fault. Let’s blame that one!

After all, we don’t live in a democracy, we live in what I like to call a “bureaucratic blamocracy”. 

I don’t want to get all political with you here and I know that this blog has a lot of international readers but with the current administration, who seems to embrace medieval ideas, it is no wonder that guys think they can mistreat women.

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Just because we are women, they think that is okay to treat us like a second-class citizen with fewer rights than men and I do mean ALL MEN!

So by all means: Ask him out!

It is not you who is wrong, it’s society who has taught us the wrong things.

That’s what I am trying to tell you.

With this being said I will now tell you why it’s a lot better than you ask him out than the other way around.

Should I Ask Him Out?

As I told you above, yes, girl, yes!

I will give you 5 compelling reasons why you should ask him out:

1. You are making things happen. Good things happen when you actually do things. I don’t care if it is in your personal life or in your career but it’s when you take action and actually do things that good things have happened to you in the past, right? Why would dating be any different? Because we’re not “supposed” to be aggressive and pursuing? GET OVER YOURSELF, GIRL! TAKE ACTION NOW!
2. What if he says no? Well, that’s why most guys are intimidated by asking a girl out on a date in the first place, so it’s not as uncommon as we might think. If one guy says no, ask the next guy! It’s as simple as that. You can even use it to your advantage! If you know that a guy is into you, ask another guy out. That will make the other guy take action? Don’t believe me? Read my personal story and weep.
3. Will he think of me as a desperate woman?  Despite popular “knowledge” or what your mum, girlfriend or all the romantic movies you have watched just to feel good and hide the fact from yourself that you were lonely, he won’t? I know how these women are portraited in those movies. Talk about “FAKE NEWS”!
4. It is not how it is “supposed to be” or the “normal” thing to do? Haven’t I told you to get over yourself once, girl? Did your parents tell you what line of work you should choose or that you only should marry your cousin, despite the fact that it is illegal in many states in the US? I GUESS NOT, SO GUESS AGAIN! You are a grown woman, for crying out loud!
5. My girlfriends will judge me and call me a tomboy. So what? Let them! They are the ones who are JEALOUS OF YOU because you did something they didn’t have the guts to do. Dating takes a bit of chutzpah, I admit that! I can not think about anything more feminine than being a woman and running the relationship. That’s what I do every single day in my marriage!

These are the 5 best reasons I could come up with on top of my head.

I can’t wait for all the “know-it-alls” to leave a comment below, I am actually looking forward to it!

Are Women Dating Men? Doh! We Do!

It is 100% true and it is 100% feminine for a woman dating men, would you not agree with me?

So what’s the problem?

You are not one of those imbeciles who think that women should not be dating men before marriage or are you?

If you are, I could direct you to a much warmer place where you never will be cold but I am not sure that the blog owner would allow me to use profane language so I will abstain from it.

I will give you a clue though: It begins with an “H” and ends with two “L”s.

You are a smart woman, or so you think, so you know what place I am thinking of now, right?

If you have not figured it out by now, do not over strengthen yourself.

Then I just guess that you are not smart enough.

After all, I am just talking like the non-politician I am.

I do not pretend to be a politician so I could become, say, the president of my own country. I am not Mrs. Fake News pretending to be an American, I AM an AMERICAN BY BIRTH so I do know how to SPEAK PROPER ENGLISH!

Yes, I know that this article is more controversial than the others I have written in the past.

I promise you that my next article will be less controversial.

Before I end this article, I just have two more things that I need to share with you:

If this article has made you laugh or if you despised it, please make sure that you spread the word about it. I can not wait to be embraced by love and hated intensely by people who are not so smart after all.

To all haters out there: I have already told you where I think you belong but you will probably be spared because you are to evil for that place!

Next Article

My next article will be published on the 14th of July 2018.

It will clarify how to step up your relationship.

XOXO,

April D. Long