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So, you finally got her out on a date by flying to her country or city, or maybe she will pass to you first.
Whichever route you choose to go with, I will share some tips if you want to date a Chinese woman, no matter where she lives, because there will be certain cultural aspects you must consider.
I will share my insights with you in this article so that it will be biased.
Lastly, I will share a massive difference-maker with you.
This article is written for men who want to date women, especially white men who want to date Asian women.
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Some Insights About Chinese Girls
I will now share 12 different insights about Chinese girls that I have found true every time I have been dating Chinese women.
Here are my insights about Chinese girls and women:
Chinese Girls Don’t Understand Your Humour
Chinese girls don’t understand your sense of humor, despite what you might think.
Why won’t she understand your humor?
Your jokes will not make sense to her since they are based on your culture.
It might also be due to the language barrier that she doesn’t understand the good connotations in the English language, ambiguity, puns, historical or cultural references, etcetera.
However, if you’re like my girlfriend, who both loves the same American sitcom, and me, you will probably share the same sense of humor.
Chinese Girls Control the Household
When it comes to running the household, she will be the boss.
As one of my friends, who is married to a Chinese woman, put it: “She wears trousers in this relationship.”
Chinese Girls Can Have a Temper
Don’t expect that she will say yes to every suggestion you make or be sweet and gentle to you every time.
She will let you know when you do something she isn’t pleased with.
On the other hand, she will also let you know when you do something good that she is delighted with.
Chinese Girls Are Very Feminine
Chinese girls are feminine and want to show their femininity as often as possible.
Don’t expect her to wear trousers because she will probably wear dresses and skirts, and she will expect you, as a man, to take the initiative outside the household.
Chinese Girls Are Fashionistas
If you are dating a Chinese girl, she will know the latest trends from London, Paris, Milan, Beijing, and other places you have never heard about that are prominent in fashion.
She knows and keeps track of them since she loves handbags, shoes, clothes, makeup, and other typical feminine things.
Chinese Girls Love Children’s Gifts
If you want to buy something for your Chinese girlfriend, go directly to the children’s toys section.
I am serious here because Chinese girls love Children’s gifts.
A teddy bear, especially in feminine colors like pink or red, will be much appreciated by her.
Her Family Is Number One
She will always prioritize her family over anything else, and it will come first, no matter her age.
Her family is and always will be number one, period.
You will be the second or third most important person in her life, and if you can’t accept it, she won’t consider you worth her time.
Chinese Girls Aren’t Used to Compliments
Chinese girls aren’t used to getting compliments, but I like to spoil my girlfriend.
This is also a cultural thing, of course.
However, she won’t mind that you tell her now and then that she looks beautiful and is a pretty woman.
If you want to get some ideas for compliments, you should read my article 65 compliments women can’t resist because, in that article, I share compliments that I have used on Chinese girls in the past.
Chinese Girls Are More Pious Than You Think
Nobody talks about this, but most Chinese girls, at least those I have been dating, have been quite pious.
Just because Chinese society doesn’t seem pious at first glance doesn’t mean it isn’t.
Just like many societies today, and even though suffering from persecution from time to time, religion is alive and thriving in Chinese culture.
It is not as noticeable when you first visit China. However, after a while, you will notice that Buddhist, Daoist, and Confucian influences are still very dominant in Chinese culture today.
If you know where to look or to be on the lookout for, you will find them.
Chinese Girls Don’t Understand Chivalry
Chinese girls aren’t used to the concept of chivalry.
Most of us expect women to love the man in shining armor because she is not used to this at all.
Chivalry is a concept that was developed in Middle Age Europe in the so-called romance novel where the pious knight should save the princess from the evil dragon.
It is both a code of conduct, righteousness, and romance.
For this reason, it is not so strange that Chinese girls, who are mainly of Buddhist or atheist origins, do not understand this.
The code of conduct that we know as chivalry isn’t a fixed set of regulations but can be found in other literature from the Middle Ages and was developed from military and clergy principles.
Chinese Girls Don’t Look for Boyfriends
Despite what you might think, Chinese girls aren’t looking for boyfriends.
If you don’t want to marry her, you must be honest with your intentions upfront because she will assume you wish to marry her otherwise.
This is just a piece of friendly advice.
Chinese Girls Don’t Talk About Themselves
As you probably figured out by now, she will not talk much about herself.
When you ask her questions, expect her to answer them with words like “maybe” or “perhaps.”
This doesn’t mean that she is uncertain; she doesn’t like to talk about herself or what she prefers to do since she is used to being told what to like and think.
Will This Make Any Difference in Dating Chinese Girls
Above, I have shared my 12 best tips on dating Chinese women.
If you want to get an Asian girlfriend, whether she’s Chinese, Korean, Thai, or any other Asian girl, you should look at this ebook that reveals more things to be aware of.
Because you will discover cultural differences that you not only need to be aware of but also consider when you’re dating Asian girls.
Next Article
My next article will be published on Monday the 17th of June.
It will discuss what a relationship between a white man and an Asian woman could look like.
Have a magnificent day,
Rickard
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