The Best Tinder Conversation Starters

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Are There Best Conversation Starters for Dating Apps As Well?

I have written about the best conversation starters for online dating and first dates in the past.

So it only seemed fair to discuss how to open up the conversation on dating apps.

In online dating, the rules might have changed a bit, but most girls still want the guy to take the initiative and initiate contact.

That is how things are, even today.

I want to say that mentioning the most popular dating app is only for demonstration purposes. These lines work just as well on other dating apps.

These lines work just as well on other dating apps.

But…

Since I will mention it by name, I need to add a disclaimer.

DISCLAIMER: This post is neither sponsored nor endorsed by Tinder™. Tinder™ is a trademark of Tinder, Co.

Before I give you the ten best conversation starters for Tinder, I will write about something else first, namely…

How I Discovered These Conversation Starters

I have never tried Tinder™ myself.

A while ago, I was asked by someone inside my coaching program to help him start a conversation with a female profile on the dating app Tinder™.

I decided to help him by reaching out to my friends and colleagues.

Since I had no experience in this field, I reached out and got help from somebody who had found his wife on Tinder™.

I will not mention this person’s name since I promised to keep this person anonymous. You know who you are, and I am grateful to you.

Nevertheless, with a bit of help from this person, some searches online, and my attraction formula, I could help him to establish some icebreakers that go beyond the very dull “Hi! How are you?”-messages that you usually see.

After this, I got some more questions from a woman.

Since men and women date a bit differently, I modified these Tinder openers, and she got an answer from a guy she was very into.

I realized this seems to be a problem for men and women alike.

For this reason, I decided to write this article and share the ten best Tinder™ pickup lines for both men and women.

After all, dating apps are the new way of doing online dating, right?

I could have put everything in a book, but I decided against it since I frankly do not have the time to construct such a book right now.

Maybe I will do it in the future since I am currently involved in 3 other projects.

However, you will find the ten best pickup lines on this dating app for both men and women, so I will give away 20 different pickup lines below.

10 Best Tinder Pick-Up Lines for Men

These are the best Tinder pickup lines for men, in my own opinion:

  1. I am thinking about creating a social media platform for dogs. Cause we always take pictures of them. So I thought it would be cool if they could take pictures of us and post them. I am thinking about calling it BarkBook, what do you think of this idea?
  2. Are you my appendix? Because you make my stomach feel strange and I don’t know your function so I might have to take you out. 
  3. You: Titanic. Her: What’s that? You: My icebreaker. Is your last name by any chance Iceberg?
  4. Are you Chinese? Cause you make me want to order take away!
  5. Are you a bank loan? Cause you’ve got my interest! (Her response is number 5 in the women’s section below.)
  6. What would your favourite food be for a first date? Press A for Chocolate B for Pizza and C for Champagne.
  7. Some people tell their friends: I swept left, I swept right and all the sudden there was a match. It sounds almost like magic, but it’s true. Those are the people who say: I do!
  8. Are you by any chance my date tonight?
  9. You: I would hate to be your mirror. Her: Why? You: Because I had to look at something as beautiful as you but never be able to take you out on a date!
  10. I have troubles pronouncing your name. Would it be okay to call you cupcake or do you prefer honey?

As you probably noticed, some examples are extended, and some are short.

It is always advisable to change your style with each one.

A good ratio would be two fast openers and one long.

If you want more proven Tinder™ openers, click here or at the link at the bottom of this article.*

10 Best Tinder Pick-Up Lines for Women

These are the best Tinder pickup lines for women, in my own opinion:

  1. How are you feeling today? Sick? I can be your personal nurse for the day ;).
  2. You: I know a secret about men. Him: What? You: That men love to ask questions, and when they get responses, it strengthens their ego.
  3. I’ve just won a bet. My friend told me that I would never have the guts to contact the guy who I secretly thought was cute. Do you think she was wrong? BTW, my prize was a bottle of scotch. Want to share?
  4. I am not a psychic, but I could definitely see us go out on a date.
  5. Hey there! Are you the bottom of my laptop? Because you’re hot and I’m getting nervous!
  6. I am a poet. I just wrote this poem: Roses are red, violets are blue. I want to go out on a date, and I want to go out with you.
  7. I must have died and come to heaven. Cause when I imagined how our kids would look, it was purely divine!
  8. No one thinks I’m hot. Would you help me prove them wrong?
  9. If I was a computer, would you be able to keep your hands from me?
  10. Quick question: If you were an animal which animal would you be?

As you can see, some of these pickup lines are long, and others are short. I recommend you keep them as straightforward as possible if you have the guts to contact a guy on Tinder™.

I recommend keeping them as short as possible if you have the guts to contact a guy on Tinder™. I recommend it to be fast because guys have a short attention span, much quicker than women.

If you want the best Tinder™ conversation openers, you can either click on that link or the link you find at the end of this article.*

Summary

I have now shared 20 Tinder conversation starters that are the best, according to my biased opinion.

However, these are by no means guaranteed to work for you.

Some proven conversation starters work for most singles, no doubt about it. Some of which are listed above.

But…

I had to exclude the best-proven conversation starters due to a lack of space.

If you wish to discover more proven conversation starters for Tinder™, you will soon get an opportunity to do it.

Click here to get the best Tinder conversation starters and more.*

* = The article’s author will receive a small monetary compensation if you purchase through the link.

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Next Article

My next article will be published on the 8th of August 2018.

It will be a review for a texting product, but this time for women.

Have a great week,

Rickard

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