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In this blog post, I will reveal a piece of information that no one online seems to be talking (or rather: writing) about and that is the fact that men and women are dating in a different way and that there are probably many reasons for this. I have thought about it a lot and this is my own personal thoughts about it.
If you are curious about it, you can have a look at the rest of the post below…
Women Start Dating Earlier For Some Obvious Reasons
Generally speaking, women are beginning to date men when they are younger than the men are. This has to do with some obvious facts: Women are often more mature than the guys, especially in the early teens but this evens out in the late teens (or maybe not, I can only speak for myself).
It is also a fact that women like to date older men for that particular reason as well as another very hard but true fact: Women are fertile for a limited time of their life while men for the most are fertile their entire life!
For this obvious reason, women are often more experienced compared to a man of the same age. These are some of the things that we men have to realise and comprehend about. So of course, their sex debut is often earlier for the reasons I have listed above.
As I am writing in my ebook: Sex is an integral part of dating but it’s honesty that builds lasting relationships.
There are of course more to it than the thing I have listed above. You are welcome to share your ideas by commenting below…
Men Start Later For A Lot Of Different Reasons
Despite the fact that we men are starting later for the reason that we have a different biological set as well as we are more immature than women of our own age we lack another ingredient: Social pressure.
You see, society is pushing women to start a family when they are very young while we men should get a good and steady job to support our family, that is what most societies demand of us.
Women dream of having the perfect wedding, the perfect husband, the perfect kids, the perfect house and so on from a very early age.
A thing that also matter is what I call the identity factor which has been proved in many different scientific studies all around the globe. It is the interesting study of how boys and girls identify themselves.
Girls relate to each other and identifies themselves as one of the group and how they fit into it and adapts accordingly while boys identify themselves on the basis of what makes them different from another boy and don’t adjust.
For this reason, we also have different roles and different expectations when we are dating or in a relationship.
The woman wants an honest man with a steady job that can support her and their future kids. For this reason, she will make some tests for you that will make up her mind about you and answer the important question: Is he a suitable mate and father to my children?
The man wants a woman to take care of him, maybe fixing things at home, taking care of the kids and maybe also having a job that could bring more money to the household.
These are very stereotypical roles that I have written here but they are still very much a correct description of how society thinks about how men and women should behave since you see, we are formed not by our friends and families but of societies expectation on us.
We can try to break these roles but in some part, we will all fall into them because they are familiar and it feels like a safe way to live your life and raise your kids.
I am more than happy to read any comments you might have on this…
Next blogpost
My next blog post will be published on August the 22nd, 2015.
It will be a special post about Christian dating.
See you then,
Rickard
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