AppsiDaisy: The Swiping Strategy

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Swiping Left or Right

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What Makes You Swipe Left and What Makes You Swipe Right?

In this article, I will discuss whether there are specific strategies that you can apply to find love through a dating app.

The most popular dating app in the world is Tinder. (Source: DigitalTrends.Com)

You are ranked after an attractiveness score based on your actions and how other members react to your profile on the app.

Since it’s a dating app, you either swipe left or right, depending on whether you like the profile. I don’t know if you are familiar with this app, so I will explain the actions briefly, and what they mean so everybody knows what I’m discussing:

  • Swiping Left = I wouldn’t say I like This Profile.
  • Swiping Right = I Like This Profile.

There has been some speculation on the Internet that, depending on how much and often you swipe, whether left or right, Tinder will view you as an automated bot. However, there is no actual proof that this is true.

But what is it that makes you swipe either left or right?

I began by asking this question, so before I continue to discuss it, it’s all about a hidden psychological factor known as attractiveness.

Let’s have a little bit of fun!

Ask yourself: Who do I find attractive?

Now, think about your dream, man or woman.

Then write down how they might look.

Now, you need to find them.

If you find someone similar to your ideal man or woman, you would probably swipe right, wouldn’t you?

You don’t need to explain the reasons for finding someone with particular looks attractive, that’s your taste and believe me, I would never argue with you about this.

But I can tell you that there is a specific formula to get that person.

The Unfair Formula of Finding Love on Tinder

There is an unfair advantage that some singles have.
 
Finding love isn’t depending on luck; it’s about a combination of attractiveness and formula.
 
Even the most unattractive people can find love if they know what they’re doing and they’re using the proper formula.
 
There is a proven formula, at least for men who want to find a woman.
 
For women, it’s not really about using a formula, since a female profile on Tinder, just as on any other dating website, will attract men without any effort.
 
But for men, it’s an entirely different thing.
 
We men need to put a whole lot of more effort into our profiles, which I discussed in the previous article on this blog as well as many other times on this blog.
 
This unfair formula isn’t unique to Tinder.
 
After you have created your entire profile, you need to get the necessary attention.
 
You need other profiles to see your profile and interact with it, right?
 
By interacting, I mean things like sending you messages and chatting with you and contacting you to increase your chances of finding a date.
 
But it would help if you did this in a certain way, even to get a reply.
 
You need to use pick up lines, just as if you met her in a bar or online, you do need to use the right words which tells her that you are confident and has a lot of self-esteem.
 
Self-esteem isn’t just good for first dates. It’s crucial for your online dating as well.
 
 

5 Confident Tinder Openers

I have discussed the importance of openers in dating in the past.
 
Dating on an app isn’t any different than meeting a girl in real life; you still need a great opening line which sometimes is referred to as a pickup line.
 
For your convenience, I will now share 5 proven tinder openers that work:
 
  • I was trying to think of a witty pickup line I could use on you, but if I’m honest, I don’t think you deserve that kind of cheesy opener. How’s it going?
  • You were the first and the last match I chose today because I knew we were right for each other.
  • [Her name], I need your expert opinion on something
  • Titanic. That’s my ice-breaker. How’re things going?
  • You look pretty in that dress in your photo. What’s up?
 
 
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How to Pop Up on Tinder

Your photo is essential to your dating profile if you want to find love on Tinder.

Let’s face reality: This is the first thing she will see.

She probably also swipes a lot faster than you do, so you need to do something to stand out from the other male profiles.

The second thing you need to remember is to focus on your posture. Take it outside while you’re doing something you love.

It would be best if you also were interested.

Increase your attractiveness on Tinder by displaying your favorite sports and your favorite activities that you love to do.

This will increase your attractiveness.

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Now, these are two of the essential parts of the Tinder formula.

I will soon continue to reveal even more.

But if you want to get the whole Tinder formula, you should click here.*

The Tinder Formula That Works Best for Men

As always, the second part, your bio, is just as crucial as the first one.

Whatever you do, don’t use any pickup lines in your bio.

Use natural and proper English, even if you should write your bio the same way you talk.

Here is the whole Tinder Formula.*

The third and fourth parts are all about conversation and meeting her in real life.

You need to start and keep the conversation going when you get a match. It is essential!

Of course, you can read my article on the best conversation starters to get some inspiration, or you can get specific Tinder openers to keep the conversation going.

Discover The 5 Simple Conversation Hacks That Work on Tinder.*

When you meet her, you will see if she looks the same way as she does in her profile photo. Since most women tend to use old pictures of themselves, be prepared for a disappointing experience.
 
A lot of women use old pictures of themselves. The reason is vanity.
 
They don’t think they are attractive enough, especially if they are over 30.
 
For us, men, it’s strange, but we have to accept that women, at least in the female mindset, start to lose attractiveness when she passes the 30-year-old mark.
 
A thing that always works like a charm on any women of any age is the HIT-formula which I have discussed many times on this blog.
 
If you noticed it, I organized the 5 confident Tinder openers above by the HIT-formula. If you don’t know what I’m referring too, please read about the HIT-formula in this article.
 
Just remember that you need to take action if you want to succeed on Tinder.
 
It is no different than online dating in this aspect.
 
The next step that I would recommend you to take is simple:
 
 

Next Article

My next article will be published on Saturday the 12th of May 2018.
It will discuss the importance of mindset in all kinds of dating.
 
You might have noticed that I used an asterisk (*) after certain links in this article.
 
I used it to indicate that those links are affiliate links. These links will send you to an offer.
 
If you purchase the offer through those links, I will receive a small monetary compensation from the owner of that website.
 
I just wanted you to know this in full transparency.
 
If you want to learn more about how I use affiliate links, you can read more about it in my affiliate disclosure on this blog.
 
Have an awesome week,
 
Disclaimer:

Tinder is a trademark of Tinder, Co, located at 8800 W. Sunset Blvd, West Hollywood, CA 90069. This blog is not endorsed or approved by Tinder, Co in any way. Use of the Tinder app is subject to the terms and conditions listed on their website.

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