What Can a Man Do to Attract Women?

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What Attracts a Woman?

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Unfortunately, not all women and girls are shaped similarly. Different things attract different girls. However, one thing that always seems to work to attract a woman is self-esteem.

Why Self-Esteem Attracts Women

Does this sound contradictory to you? It’s not! Let’s face it: Every living person is attracted to someone or something that doesn’t matter as much to the next person as it does to you.

Allow me to share an example with you right now: You might like fast cars while someone else likes horses, but the similarity between you is that you like things, right? Self-esteem attracts all kinds of women, but each is attracted to it differently.

Different Strategies for Different Women

For this reason, you must have a different strategy for each type of girl you want to attract. This is something most bloggers won’t reveal to you. They will just run with the “one method works on any girl” type. But since I am an advocate of honesty, I decided to be 100% honest with you and tell you upfront one of the most important lessons that life has taught me:

I can tell you that I always use different ways to attract other girls. Does this make sense to you? You need to use a different strategy for attracting a nerdy girl than a daddy’s little girl type of girl.

Cultural Influences on Attraction

Now, I am a dating coach, not a pickup artist, and I am also a God-fearing man, so I would never use my methods to get a girl for the night, although these methods can be used for these purposes as well. It also depends on where she lives in the world! Her culture will influence how well she unconsciously reacts to my methods to convince her to be my girlfriend.

You will use a different strategy to date a girl from the US and Western Europe than a girl from Eastern Europe, and a completely different strategy if you date an Asian or African girl, right? Each culture has a set of acceptable and unacceptable behaviors and differences within each country.

The Role of Technology in Dating

I know that most guys prefer to date women in their own country and within their own culture. There is nothing wrong with dating girls in your own country. This is how most singles find love—no matter what technique or technology they use. Today, dating is more about using technology than meeting her in real life.

Since every girl is different, I will now share 25 different strategies for getting a girl to like you. If you don’t want to read all the information, you can watch a video that reveals one of the best methods for creating instant attraction in any girl.

25 Unique Ways to Get a Girl to Like You

Being unique is the key to getting any girl to like you. It would be best if you used a different strategy for each girl. Remember that there is a season for everything, as Proverbs says. For this reason, I decided to share 25 different ways to get a girl to like you:

1. Make each moment unique and worth her time.
2. Share her interests: If she’s a nerdy girl, you should go nerdy, too. Share her interests! Learn more about connecting through shared interests.
3. Creative messages: Order a pizza at her home and leave a fun message on the lid. Write on anything and everything, but make sure she gets your message.
4. Coffee messages: If she loves coffee, order a cup and write your message on the cup!
5. Seasonal dating: Dating differs every season, so use it to your advantage!
6. Phone messages: Take her phone and change your contact information to say something like “Do you want to be my girlfriend?” or “Do you want to go out on a date with me?” or another message you want to give her.
7. Food and drink combinations: Any combination of food or drink combined with your message will be fun.
8. Follow the attraction formula: Ensure your message follows the attraction formula to increase your chances of success.
9. Impress her with your unique skills: Do you have anything you’re good at that you know will impress her? Use it to your advantage!
10. Look your best: Trying to stay fit by avoiding junk food will make you more attractive. Remember, your look will always make a first impression that lasts a while.
11. Make her laugh: This is why I always recommend that guys use the attraction formula.
12. Avoid the friend zone: Make sure she gets it. You don’t want to be her friend; you want to be her boyfriend!
13. Be flirty: Make flirty comments about her looks or what she’s wearing. Learn how to flirt effectively.*
14. Compliment her: This is something girls can’t get enough of!
15. Be romantic: Flowers, poems, teddy bears, and everything you can imagine if you have watched a romantic film work like charm. Get the best tips on when gifting her flowers can be good here.
16. Be polite: Hold up the door for her. If she’s cold, offer her your jacket. These nice gestures will tell her that you care about her well-being.
17. Unique gifts: Please give her a unique gift to tell her you care about her unconsciously. Unique gift ideas.
18. Share your secrets: I always do this to tell her that she means more to me than just a random friend.
19. Always be yourself: You are good enough for her.
20. Be confident: Confidence matters, so build your self-esteem, as discussed above. Here are some tips to boost your self-confidence you don’t want to miss.
21. Spend time together: You can’t ask her out on a date if you don’t spend time. It’s as simple as that!
22. Micro-commitments: Don’t ask if she likes you when you meet her. Instead, use micro-commitments. Make her commitments small and ramp it up as you go.
23. Be edgy: Women don’t want a relationship to be the same way all the time, so make sure she experiences all feelings to increase your chances.
24. Be a challenge: If she gets you immediately, she will lose interest in you.
25. Watch the video: If you want the 26th, you have to watch this video*.

What Do Women Want?

As I revealed above, girls don’t want you always to be nice to them. Remember, some girls like bad boys. But you should never mistreat her! You may interrupt her thoughts by “accusing” her of something to make her think about you differently. By being mysterious and a bit enigmatic, you will be more attractive to her.

Here are five things all women want:

1. A mysterious man: This is stereotypical, but it works like a charm.
2. A nice man who treats her like a lady: Being friendly and polite will make you go a long way.
3. A confident man: For this reason, self-esteem and confidence matter.
4. A fun guy who makes her laugh: Remember the HIT formula.
5. A guy who will share her inner thoughts and secrets but simultaneously is himself and will take care of her, no matter what happens.

If you want more details, read my article about what women want. If you would instead get your crush to fall in love with you, the video* will help you discover a method that makes her chase you!

Next Article

My next article will be published on the 21st of May, 2018. April D. Long will interview me, and I will reveal specific changes. Have a great weekend,

Rickard