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I recently got a long email with a question from a woman. What to do when my boyfriend ignores me?
Of course, I responded and gave her a couple of suggestions.
The first thing, which will always be helpful to all women, is that if your boyfriend is ignoring you, you need to make a pattern interrupt.
A pattern interrupt is when you say or do something that changes how you do or approach certain aspects of your relationship, and it can be as simple as changing how often you respond to his text messages.
If you quickly respond to him, you can sometimes wait for a couple of minutes.
It might make him start thinking about you…
… Worrying about you…
… and begin to behave differently and treat you better.
Of course, it is not always your fault that your boyfriend is ignoring you because maybe he has a lot to think about or a lot of things to do.
You need to do a lot of thinking as well.
Maybe, just maybe, it was something careless that you said or did to him that made him ignore you.
However, you can do a couple of things, which I discuss below.
My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me – What Should I Do?
Sometimes it is a little thing you did that will lead your boyfriend to ignore you.
I hate to bring bad news, but maybe he’s cheating on you.
If he is cheating on you, there are a couple of visible signs to look out for, and one of them is that he’s ignoring you as well as these valuable tips that you find in this article.
However, things don’t have to be as bad as cheating.
It can be that he’s ghosted you, and even if it is a horrible thing to do, it is not as bad as betraying the woman you claim to love.
If he did ghost you, you would still be better off without him.
Take a Dive into the Sea of Jealousness
A powerful yet risky way is to try and make him jealous of another guy.
Ever heard the expression: A boy doesn’t want to play with a new toy unless another boy starts to play with it?
If you hang out with other guys and enjoy socializing with them, you will make him jealous of those who hang out with you, even if he knows that they are just your friends.
If you do it the right way, you will start his jealous drive, or his competitive drive, as it is sometimes referred to.
I have to give you a fair warning here, do NOT overuse it.
If you do, you might risk driving him into the arms of another woman, so there is a delicate balance that you need to keep here.
In this article, I cover what you should do to make him want you.
Conversation Is Always the Key
Communication or conversation is the key to success in any relationship with a man.
However, you have to use the right style of communication.
It isn’t just what you say that determines whether you will be successful, but also how and when you say it.
If his favorite TV show is on, it might not be the best time to talk to him.
Then, you have to wait for a while and talk to him later. Otherwise, you might have come across the real reason why he ignores you.
If he had a bad day, the key here is to be supportive.
Otherwise, the man you love will become distant and pull away from you since you don’t give him enough space.
Don’t try to talk to him in the bedroom, either.
He might be exhausted and want to sleep, so he ignores you.
Sometimes, it is better to let him sleep and talk to him directly in the morning than to push forward and try to speak to him immediately before you have breakfast.
Most guys are not communicative when it comes to emotions.
My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me – What Should I Say to Help Him?
Sometimes you shouldn’t say anything, and sometimes it will be enough to ask him a simple question: How was your day?
Then, he will open up to you.
However, most of the time, he will be a bit moody and keep it all in since he doesn’t want to worry you.
What you think is ignoring you might be a strange way for him to show how much he loves you and cares for you.
By not saying anything to you because he doesn’t want to worry you.
As a man myself, I can tell you that when you are a boy, you learn to keep feelings and emotions to yourself, and you learn from a very young age that showing emotions publicly isn’t something you are supposed to do.
If you do, you are not a real man but a whimper or even worse.
By publicly shaming boys who show emotions, you will learn to suck it up and hide those feelings.
That is the reason why men are evil at displaying their emotions.
When you grew up, you were encouraged to show your emotions and talk about them, but men lack that understanding.
For this reason, he will look to you for emotional guidance and support.
If you can provide him with that, your boyfriend will stop ignoring you, and you will be able to connect with him emotionally as he has never experienced it before with another woman.
He will be so grateful to you and do everything he can to keep you by his side.
However, men also have a natural resistance to commitment.
So, even if you show and convince him that it is okay to display his feelings for you, he might still not commit to you.
He might be hesitant to commit to you for one very shocking reason.
Watch this YouTube video to discover this SHOCKING reason now.*
My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me – How Can I Make Him Sure?
As I explained above, society has different expectations of boys and girls, men and women.
Especially when it comes to relationships.
There are also a lot of myths about relationships floating around online these days, and it is hard to tell which are real and which are false.
However, there is one thing you can do to make him sure that you are the right woman for him and that he will never be able to experience it in another relationship with another woman.
Watch this video to discover how to make sure that you’re the only one for him.*
I hope you take the time to watch the video.
It will be very beneficial if you want your boyfriend to stop ignoring you and finally get the relationship you both deserve and desire, the kind of relationship you always wanted but never hoped to experience.
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