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In this article, I will share what women like most in intimacy with a man.
In one of the previous articles, “Dating Tips for Women: How to Get Intimacy with Men,” April D. Long discusses the importance of intimacy and makes certain remarks worth noticing.
If you want to know what it is, make sure that you read the entire article to get the answer.
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Conversely, men must read the entire article, which continues below.
What Women Mean With ‘Intimacy’
As a man, it can be hard to perceive what women mean by intimacy.
April’s article, as well as science, proves that men and women define intimacy very differently.
For women, the term intimacy is much broader than it is for men since women think of intimacy as talking, touching, and sharing their emotions, feelings, and thoughts with the person they love and care about.
Sex will only be satisfying for her when she feels that level of intimacy.
What Men Mean with ‘Intimacy’
Since I am a man myself, and you might be a woman or a man who doesn’t know how most men define intimacy, I want to share it now.
For men, intimacy means sex. Period.
Men struggle with one major thing. Unlike women, men are uncomfortable or used to discussing emotions and do not understand hormones’ impact on the female body.
For men, menstruation and the pain of child labor are two things they will never experience.
Now that you understand how women and men define intimacy, which is quite different, you might think it poses a problem in relationships.
However, there is a delicate balance that you must walk to get the right level of intimacy in relationships.
What Men Must Understand About Women and Intimacy
These are the two hidden factors that will help you turn any woman from a female friend into your next girlfriend, and I will soon reveal how you can get the right level of intimacy in a relationship.
Before I do that, I want you, as a man, to understand that women face two issues with intimacy:
- Society’s expectations of her
- Her emotions and what hormones do to her
She is struggling with these two things, and I will explain why.
Our society expects a woman to not “give in” too quickly in a relationship and sleep with you on the first date. Probably not on the second one, either.
I think this is the lingering legacy of puritanism in modern-day society.
For this reason, she will also feel guilt if she sleeps with you, and she faces self-hatred and condemnation from her friends, family, and society for doing it.
Despite her emotions and feelings for you, she still faces them.
Her emotions and feelings will tell her that it is okay, but when she finally does sleep with you, she will feel guilty for “giving in to her lust.”
What you must do to avoid and alleviate these emotions in her is to find the right level of intimacy.
Women are raised to believe that their sexual feelings and emotions for men are shameful and are not something “good girls” should do, which April discusses in the article above.
Therefore, she will never enjoy physical intimacy as much as you or I.
The best way to help her overcome these emotions is by sending her one of the ten texts in my free report, which you can get below.
How to Get the Right Level of Intimacy in Relationships
Now that you know what women like most in intimacy with men, it is time to find the right balance between her feelings and yours and the right intimacy level in relationships.
As you probably expect, libido or lust differs between men and women for the various reasons I discussed earlier in this article. A recent study (2022) confirmed that men want sex more than women in heterosexual relationships.
According to one of the younger participants in the study, he probably pushed more for sex than she did.
Interestingly enough, one of the older women quoted in the study admits that sex has become better, the older she gets. One man discussed how sex has become less frequent yet equally appreciated by men and women alike.
It has often been assumed that elderly couples are happier with their intimacy.
The reason is that men develop more self-control and learn to curb their lust and sex drive.
At the same time, women experience an increase in sex drive and find it less problematic to “give in” and enjoy physical intimacy more, especially after menopause.
Intimate knowledge is appreciated and valued among couples of all ages, though.
For men, it is easier to make a woman with who you are in a relationship “give in” and enjoy your physical intimacy more without feeling the guilt of feeling lust for you and being ashamed of it.
Remember that she wants to feel like a good girl.
She has been raised to think that a good girl doesn’t enjoy sex, and when she feels ready for physical intimacy, she feels ashamed for being a lustful temptress when she still feels pleasure.
Watch this video to understand what women like most in intimacy with a man.
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What Men Must Do to Overcome Their Feelings of Unmanliness Linked to Impotence
One man in the same study reported a reduction in intimate activities with his wife due to impotence.
Sexual prowess is significant for men, and impotence is seen as ‘unmanly,’ the study concludes, even if it helps men discover other ways of closeness and physical intimacy than just sex.
There are many reasons, including porn addiction and prostate cancer treatment.
All men who have impotence, no matter the reason, can’t help themselves but feel a bit unmanly when they can’t satisfy their wife or fiancé, which is entirely understandable.
As a man, I get that you feel inadequate and not like a real man.
I can only imagine the embarrassment of not being able to satisfy your wife like you used to do and not enjoying sex with her.
Luckily, there are many things you can do to regain your potency again and feel viral once more.
Pills and supplements are some of the best treatment methods, and you should ask your doctor for the best remedies and treatments for your specific case if you’re going through any medical treatment.
The Breathing Technique to Make Her More Satisfied in the Bedroom
If you don’t suffer from any medical condition like impotence but are more worried that you can’t satisfy her in the bedroom when she finally agrees to sleep with you, you need a different kind of help.
Watch this free presentation to learn more about how you can satisfy her and increase your libido.
The presentation will discuss a breathing technique that is easy to do and will help you become a better lover and feel like a real man, even if you have never had sex with a woman before.
It is a technique that helps you improve your stamina, increase your libido, and give her powerful orgasms.
Watch the presentation and discover how to increase stamina and give her more O’s fast.
Summary
In this short article, I have discussed the difference between male and female experiences of intimacy and focused chiefly on what women like.
I discussed why men and women have different expectations that form their experiences.
While intimacy for men means sex, intimacy for women is more focused on emotions, feelings, hormones, and expectations from family, friends, and society and behaving like a “good girl.”
Since she feels the compulsion to stay a “good girl,” especially when she’s young, it is essential that she feels these emotions and that she is in a safe place, which means in an established relationship with the man she loves, before she “gives in,” and have intimate knowledge with you.
She feels ashamed when she feels lust before she is in a relationship with you.
For that reason, it would be best if you take a moment and watch this video since it will help you to make her feel less anxious and more willing.
She will enjoy sex more and not feel like anything is holding her back.
Although there are many reasons why men going through medical treatments need help, they should consult a doctor, and, understandably, it makes them feel less manly.
Other men feel insecure about being able to satisfy the woman sexually.
If you feel insecure and want to satisfy a woman sexually, you need to watch this presentation to help you understand how breathing the right way will help you get more stamina in bed.
Now you know what women like most in intimacy with men.
Scientific Resources
Gabb, J. (2022). The relationship work of sexual intimacy in long-term heterosexual and LGBTQ partnerships. Current Sociology, 70(1), 24–41. https://doi.org/10.1177/0011392119826619
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