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In Today’s Article, I Will Discuss Why Most People Fail In Online Dating.
Online Dating Is, As You Probably Know, A Great Way To Meet New People,
Primarily For Love, But You Might Also Find Friendship On Sites Like That.
I Will Focus On The Love Part Since That Is, After All, The Reason Why
Most Singles Are Joining Dating Websites.
The Entire Month Of August Will Be Dedicated To Online Dating,
If You Did Not Know That Already.
Reason For Failure #1: Procrastination.
If You Think: “I Will Wait Until Tomorrow, The Next Week,
The Next Month To Do This Or That” You Are Procrastinating.
You Keep On Making Up Excuses And Reasons About Why You Can’t Do This
Or That Right Now.
Let Me Give You Another Example: “I Don’t Think I Should Take A New
Photo Today, After All, I Was Quite Skinny A Year Ago When My Last Picture
Was Shoot. I’ll Do It Tomorrow Instead”.
Stop Procrastinate And Start Doing Those Things Because
You Will Never Know What Will Happen Tomorrow.
Stop Procrastinate, Join Today.
Reason For Failure #2: Joining A Free Dating Site
If You Think: “I Will Not Spend Money On Dating, It Is Only For People
That Are Rich And Do Not Want To Put Some Effort In Finding Love Themselves
I Will Make A Smart Move And Join A Free Dating Site Myself”.
I Used To Think Like This Myself A Couple Of Years Ago, But I Have Had A
Change Of Heart Since. This Has To Do With The Fact That I Found More
Women To Date, Went On More Dates With Women
And Understood All The Benefits That Came With Spending Money On My Dating.
Why Is It So? Because The Money Are An Investment In Yourself.
Once You Have Realised It, You Understand How It All Fits Together.
You See, Most People Do Not Want To Spend Money On Their Dating.
This Is Because They Think That It Is Unnecessary.
Here’s The Truth: If You Do Not Invest Any Money, You Need To Invest
Time To Achieve The Same Amount Of Success. Time, Which Most People
Today Seem To Lack.
The Money Is Used To Unlock Certain Features Like Video Chat,
Unlimited Flirts Or Winks, As Well As The Ability To, Send Unlimited Emails
To An Unlimited Amount Of Members (Men Or Women) On The Dating Site.
I Could Explain The Benefits Of Upgrading To A Paid Account, But
I Honestly Won’t Since That Information Is Available Here.
Reason For Failure #3: No Man Is An Island
If You Think: “I Can Write My Dating Profile, I Do Not Need Any
Help, I Know What Works For Me” Then You Probably Should
Read This Part Of The Article Since I Have Something Important To Share.
You Need To Ask Your Friends Because The Fact blinds you
That You Will Write Something About Yourself.
Most Women, Asks Their Friends To Help Them Write Their Online Dating Profiles
And So Should All Men Do. Why?
Because You Need The Opinion Of People You Trust And Who Knows You.
Your Friends And Maybe Also Some Family Members Whos Opinions You
Trust And Value Are Therefore Recommended.
I Did It Myself When I Began Dating, And That Is Also One Of My Successes Keys
That I Normally Share With My Clients.
Reason For Failure #4: Online Dating Is Not Like A Bar
You Can’t Treat A Woman That You Meet Online Like
If You’ve Just Met Her In A Bar. Do Not Speak In the Same Manner.
Use A Lot Of Words And Do Not Use The Normal Short-Mannered Speech. We Men
Tend To Use The Entire Time. This Might Work In Real Life But In
Online Dating Women Have A Lot More Time To Think, So Short Snappy Pickup
Lines Do Not Tend To Work In The Online Dating Community.
Reason For Failure #5: Lying Through Your Teeth
It Is A Sad Fact That Most Men Are Lying A Lot In Their Profile, Especially About 3 Things:
- Age (Surprise, Surprise! It’s Not Only Women!)
- Height (Taller Men Are More Successful According To Scientific Studies, Really)
- Income (Most Men Want To Be Perceived As More Successful Than They Are)
I Have Written It Before. I Have Written It Before. Honesty Is The Key To Online Dating Success.
Do Not Think Of A Woman That Is A Man, Which I Will Discuss In Further Detail Below…
Reason For Failure #6: Men Fails To Understand What Attracts Women
Do You Remember This Line From The Film “As Good As It Gets”:
“I Think Of A Man, And I Take Away Reason And Accountability” (Source: YouTube)
This Is, Of Course, Not How All Men Perceive Women, I Have To Tell You But
It Tells Us Something Important About Us Men.
We Think Of Women Like They Are Essentially Men But With Female Body Parts.
For This Reason, We Think That Women Are Attracted By The Things We Men
Are Striving For; A Good Income, A Tall Man, And An Age That Is Not Too
Intimidating For The Woman You Want To Love.
Women Do Think In Round Numbers So I Can Understand Why Men Do Lie
About Those Things But Here Are What Women Want In A Man:
- Humor
- Intellect
- Intelligence
I will discuss this further in this series when I Talk About Profile Issues.
Reason For Failure #7: Not Having Enough Time For Dating
Yes, There Is Such A Thing. It Happens If You Think That You Only Need
To Give Dating One Shot, And This Person Will Be THE ONE!
You Need To Do It Properly. Dating Is A Time-Consuming Activity,
So You Need To Designate Some Of Your Time To Find Love.
A Dating Coach Is A Trained Expert Who Can Help You With Your Profile
In Greater Detail, These Are The Top 7 Reasons Why People Tend To
Fail In Online Dating.
Next Blog Post
My Next Blog Post Will Be Published On Saturday, The 6th Of August 2016.
I Will Discuss Your Profile In Greater Detail.
I hope. You’re As Excited As I Am!
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