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In this blog post, we are going to discuss the most significant thing of any person’s dating experience and how it might turn your disaster into a major success story if you master it: Communication.
Communication Is King
To put it mildly, communication is the undisputed king in all inter-human relationships, and dating sites are no exception to that. We know it, Rickard (our dating expert) and You know it too.
Sometimes we have to write certain words, and you will discover how skilled you are yourself but that you haven’t even realized.
We have used communication in general on dating sites as well as more specifically on our own dating site, christiandatinginternational.com.
Below we have put together a small summary of our “discoveries” this autumn.
A Small Summary In The Communication Field
Here is a small summary of what we have talked about earlier this autumn:
* Winking and Winking back
This is the first and most crucial way of starting to flirt with someone on any dating site. It might be called a wink or a flirt. It doesn’t matter.
The communication when you are flirting with someone is not starting until the other person flirts or winks you back.
Even though this is a great start, it’s just that, a start. You need to use other less subtle ways of communication as well if you want to become successful on dating sites.
* Icebreakers – Custom Made Messages To Break The Ice
If you are a member of christiandatinginternational.com, you might use our special icebreakers to break the ice between you and a new member.
* Chatting
The text chat is another way to chat more directly with someone. However, nothing beats the video chat since you can see some subtle signals when you chat with someone. This is really what separates the successful and unsuccessful dating attempts that you do on any given site.
* The First Date
When you have chatted a while, you might want to see each other in real life and decides to go on a date with each other.
This is very easy to do if you live in the same city but pretty hard if you live on the other side of the World. Since we are an International dating site, we always must consider both options.
If you live apart from each other, no matter if it is in a different city or a continent away, you might have to do some travelling to be able to meet.
* Between Dates
Talk with each other as much as possible and use as many different ways of communication. Use video chat and text chat, social media and more and stay in touch with each other.
* The Second and Other Dates
Watch a movie, visit the theatre, go to the opera, a live event, talk a lot and enjoy each other’s company as much as possible and on as many dates as possible.
One day you will know that you are (hopefully) meant for each other and formalize it with a wedding someday.
NOTE: We Can Not Guarantee That You Will Marry The First Person You Meet On Our Site. No Dating Site Can Actually Do That. The Most Important Thing Is What You Feel When You Are With The Person You Have Met And That Will Always Be Up To You Entirely.
If Someone Or Something Does Not Feel Right Then, You Should Make Up An Excuse And Leave The Date ASAP – ALWAYS!!!!!
This is a small summary of all discoveries, and we have given Rickard, the mission to write all our discoveries in a Word document that hopefully will become an e-book eventually.
Next blog post
Our next blog post will be published on December 13th, 2014.
It will have the title “A Catholic Saint In Lutheran Scandinavia?”
Until then,
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