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In this blog post, I will discuss a much-debated subject when it comes to a relationship, love, and dating: Who your ideal partner is has everything to do with the relationship you have with your parents and how they did things.
Basically: Women are looking for someone like their dad and men look for someone who resembles their mom.
What You Really Are Looking For When You’re Dating
No matter if you’re dating online or offline (a.k.a dating in real life) you are always looking for your ideal partner who matches certain qualities or behaviours that resemble those of your parents.
If your mom smoked, guys, you probably want a smoking woman. If not, smoking will be a big turn off for you. The same goes for you girls: If your dad smoke you want to have a relationship with a man that smokes.
If you dad had a beard, girls you probably think that beards are sexy. If your mom shaved her legs guys, you want a woman that does the same.
This is basic human knowledge and it seems like we’re wired this way, no matter who we like, our ideal partner will be someone who behaves in a certain way or has an appearance that we expect or features in their persona that we can ourselves easily identify.
I have decided to focus on the positive things only in this short article but just for informational purposes, I will also write that the tragedy is that if you grew up with someone who had negative behaviours, we, unfortunately, seek for a lover that match those criteria too.
Being Conscious Is Better Because It Has An Effect On Your Dating Life
You have to be conscious about these things since you really need to date people that are good for you and that has a positive influence on you. Don’t search for someone to love that does not treat you with the utmost respect. Remember the four cornerstones of dating: Humour, Respect, Honesty, and Trust.
You have, to be honest with yourself as well as respect yourself so that the person you date or have a relationship with someone who respect you too. Don’t accept a disrespectful or lying person since they have no respect for you, they will tell you lies and will only treat you badly.
This is examples of what I like to call “negative” communication. If you don’t respect yourself, you can’t expect someone to respect you! If you’re not being honest, you can’t expect that from the other person. This is also what builds trust.
As I have written in a previous post, they are all linked together, these cornerstones of online dating success.
You owe it to yourself, as well as the person you’re dating to also have straightforward communication to build integrity.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on December, 2nd 2015.
It will be dating during advent and Christmas.
See you then,
Rickard
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